At age 25, porn-star Chloe Cherry now wants off the C0ck Carousel, and embraces monogamy

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Realistically 99% of guys are not going to try to turn a hoe into a housewife lol. But it happens. I see alot of it in the rap/hip hop world. Some guys just dont care if a girl was f-ing alot of dudes before. it means nothing to us lol. I think theres just an echelon of dating that a buncha women and men are in.. where we're catchin hella bodies and we dont care about bodycount.. and it seems like people not in this bracket seem to have a real problem with those kind of things..

To me if u can take a hoe and make her obedient to you, you're a beast of a man. Its like taming a jezebel.

Funny enough, the truth is my dad and moms story is exactly that.. My mom was a known hoe growing up.. Slept with a buncha diff dudes, manipulated them all, used them for various purposes.. then she met my dad she became like the best housewife possible despite a bit of fighting here and there. and he had such an impact on her that even after she passed, she never dated or slept with any other man.. let alone thought about re-marrying. My dad was a huge player before he was married too.. but after his first wife/divorce he changed.
As I’ve gotten older , body count has meant less to me. Both for myself and for my partners. But that’s the total opposite of where I was when I was young and insecure. On the other hand, my former wife i learned as time went on that every guy I met in her social circle was almost all a past lay which, at that point was actually incredibly devastating to my psyche because I wasn’t aware yet of how sexually women were wired. I at the same time began to trust her more as our relationship grew. It was only when I would take little breaks in the beginning from her did I get a glimpse in hindsight that she tried a couple times to get back at me. Also, when my son was being born I learned during the ultrasound that she at one point had HPV. What a day huh?
 

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Realistically 99% of guys are not going to try to turn a hoe into a housewife lol. But it happens. I see alot of it in the rap/hip hop world. Some guys just dont care if a girl was f-ing alot of dudes before. it means nothing to us lol. I think theres just an echelon of dating that a buncha women and men are in.. where we're catchin hella bodies and we dont care about bodycount.. and it seems like people not in this bracket seem to have a real problem with those kind of things..

To me if u can take a hoe and make her obedient to you, you're a beast of a man. Its like taming a jezebel.

Funny enough, the truth is my dad and moms story is exactly that.. My mom was a known hoe growing up.. Slept with a buncha diff dudes, manipulated them all, used them for various purposes.. then she met my dad she became like the best housewife possible despite a bit of fighting here and there. and he had such an impact on her that even after she passed, she never dated or slept with any other man.. let alone thought about re-marrying. My dad was a huge player before he was married too.. but after his first wife/divorce he changed.
I appreciate you saying that because the truth is, I wanted to mention earlier that I felt like your perception has to do with your mother, but I didn't want to offend you. One's upbringing has a huge if not the biggest effect on how they think. I grew up in a conservative household from a conservative country, so that is how my thought process shaped me. I tried to make things work with promiscuous American women in the past who tried their absolute hardest to be submissive housewives to me from my country lmao. It was pretty cringe. Anyways, it wasn't that I was threatened, it was simply a combination that I was disgusted and their mental issues overtook any want to continue anything.
 

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As I’ve gotten older , body count has meant less to me. Both for myself and for my partners. But that’s the total opposite of where I was when I was young and insecure. On the other hand, my former wife i learned as time went on that every guy I met in her social circle was almost all a past lay which, at that point was actually incredibly devastating to my psyche because I wasn’t aware yet of how sexually women were wired. I at the same time began to trust her more as our relationship grew. It was only when I would take little breaks in the beginning from her did I get a glimpse in hindsight that she tried a couple times to get back at me. Also, when my son was being born I learned during the ultrasound that she at one point had HPV. What a day huh?
Yeah man sorry you had to go through that. It's no fun finding out stuff like that about your partner. and i know its sad to say but HPV is so common.. i think like 1 in 4 adults in America have it but, still not a great thing.. Not as bad for men though since we have the vaccine. I caught some **** in my time man but most of it goes away lol thankfully.

Infidelity is not cool in all honesty..nothing cool about it.. Where I'm at in life, I don't mess with married women, or women in relationships because I think that would show suck a lack of integrity as a man. On the flipside, I really can respect a man who has been cheated on, forgives the woman and she still her heart ends up only belonging to him. Afterall, sometimes women cheat to make themselves feel better.. Its def not good nor cool.. But as I get older I can respect men who decide not to throw away everything they built for a gal cheating on them.. because I know what its like to cheat on women and them throw away everything we had.

I appreciate you saying that because the truth is, I wanted to mention earlier that I felt like your perception has to do with your mother, but I didn't want to offend you. One's upbringing has a huge if not the biggest effect on how they think. I grew up in a conservative household from a conservative country, so that is how my thought process shaped me. I tried to make things work with promiscuous American women in the past who tried their absolute hardest to be submissive housewives to me from my country lmao. It was pretty cringe. Anyways, it wasn't that I was threatened, it was simply a combination that I was disgusted and their mental issues overtook any want to continue anything.
Well it does to a good extent but wasnt consciously thinking about her when I started my schpeel but it sure does go to show you that women can change. I still dont think its too bad of a thing for women to have alot of bodies or be sexually promiscuous.. But I understand why it upsets people and why people dislike it.. Our culture/society is far different than alot of super conservative ones for sure.. To me infidelity is bad.. having a high body count, not so much.. Especially because alot of women primarily like to only sleep with 1 dude at a time once they find a guy they are compatible with. A high bodycount for a woman is usually never that crazy anyways..something like 20-40 guys over the span of like 10 years.. you might find a rare few who are like "i got over 100".. but they mostly say that to try and be cool, not realizing its a turn off for alot of guys lol
 

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Most guys would **** a slut without question if the opportunity presented itself, this is just male nature. The thing is, very few men are really in a position where an opportunity like this would just show up, it does happen but it's a rare occurrence past high school and college. Most men generally have to put some sort of work in.

Anyway, from my own beliefs and what I've seen I feel that most men see women that are easy something like this.

They love her *****, how easy it comes, no pun intended, and the thrill of the moment. The thing is, if they didn't really have to put in much work for it there is no reason for them to take these women seriously and they often keep them as a one night stand, FWB, side piece, etc. When a woman makes a man put in work and wait he generally appreciates the conquest more and is far more likely to have some respect for her and possibly consider her as ltr material, etc.

Women ultimately set the tone for the type of relationship they are to have with the men they are involved with. Some women are totally down to have a one night stand and move on, I've seen this before. However, when a woman has sex with a man more often than not she becomes attached to this man and wants to be steadier and more consistent with him, again this is due to biological programming. The issue with women that are too easy and give up the p u s s y with little resistance is that they put themselves in a place where the man doesn't see them as relationship material. Now she is desperately chasing after him and wants to lock him down, which puts the MAN in the position of power in the relationship. When a woman makes a man wait and put more work in, setting the foundation for a potential relationship, it puts her in a position of power until they have sex. From there, they both pair bond in a more normal way. Now, it's also not in a woman's best interest to make the man put too much work in either, as it may cause the man to move on because he feels she isn't actually interested.
 

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Kaley Cuoco, 37, major tv actress in Hollywood, is several months pregnant by a 6'2- 42-year-old actor. She has been divorced twice, and had 17 boyfriends before that. Likely slept with every one of them.

How come no one is going crazy about her?
 

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Kaley Cuoco, 37, major tv actress in Hollywood, is several months pregnant by a 6'2- 42-year-old actor. She has been divorced twice, and had 17 boyfriends before that. Likely slept with every one of them.

How come no one is going crazy about her?
Perhaps because no one was familiar with the situation. If her n count is 17, that's high-ish but not that bad by modern day standards. Plenty of SoSuave forum members have had sex with women with notch counts above 17.

Childless divorces barely affect a woman's SMV. Plenty of men will date and commit to a woman with a childless divorce. 2 childless divorces is a lot. Women can hide mistakes better without a childless divorce. Plenty of older Millennial women (think 33-40 right now) have 0 marriages and 0 children but high notch counts, as high as Cuoco's if not higher. Most men wouldn't know it without digging deep.

A high bodycount for a woman is usually never that crazy anyways..something like 20-40 guys over the span of like 10 years..
Let's think about a 35 year old woman who has never married and never had children.

Let's say that she lost her virginity somewhere between 15-17. Let's say that she's done ok in relationships, and had 2-3 relationships last somewhere between 2-3 years and she never cheated. Outside of those LTRs, she average 2 sexual partners per year. It takes essentially no effort for a woman to have 2 sex partners. That's a notch count of 25 at age 35. A woman can put up a notch count of 25 without anyone really noticing anything.

If she's single at 35, she can easily conceal her 25 notch count. Granted, she'll probably display some behaviors indicative of a high notch count, but she'll have no problem getting dates and even getting men to commit to relationships with her. She might have trouble getting marriage level commitment but no problem getting non-marital commitments.
 

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How come no one is going crazy about her?
Because there are a lot of guys like our own @RazorRambo24 who don't 'feel threatened' as he put it several times by women with high notch count.
They have this kind of mindset:
To me if u can take a hoe and make her obedient to you, you're a beast of a man. Its like taming a jezebel.
Common sense and wisdom passed throughout generations would dictate these kind of women are for pump&dump only, not marriage and children. :oops:
But just like women who should know better go after drug addicts, alcoholics, violent men and so on, guys who should know better marry women who are not marriage material.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Nah, YOU/most guys can't turn a hoe into a housewife.. Some men can. Many men have.

What dudes like you don't realize is that women are biologically hardwired to be monogamous. Its the weak beta male mindset that makes you think girls become "hoes" because they're "Evil".. nah.. some women do it because its fun for a while.. just like men.. but naturally they know it doesnt make them feel good.. They just get hardened to it.. but realize it was never healthy later on in life. Not many women stay hoes.. and the ones that do end up miserable and lonely.
What dudes like YOU don't realize is that women are NOT born monogamous.

Marriage is a social construct that began as a property exchange, which was popularized because men want to control women's sexual desires. This is why we have feminism.

Women are socially programmed to believe they are monogomous and hide their slutty/kinky side, when really they are just as duplicitious and horny as men.

This porn star is just talking. If she ever settles down, she will either cheat on her husband or need him to be a cuckhold who can give her the non sexual companionship that the alpha men she loves to **** don't provide.
 

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... having a hot gf or wife shows you are a high status and in demand male, most of us would enjoy feeling like that.
Having a hot girl is understandable. Men used to complement me in from of the girl (for having an attractive girlfriend). Going with a nice girl in a bus wasn't as fun since all men stare.


I can't imagine feeling an ego boost knowing most men in the room saw my girl getting pounded by 5 black dudes at the same time and doing some nasty **** like swallowing their semen... Or looking her name up and seeing 5k "scenes".
 

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I get what you are saying, in an ideal world only a small percentage of women would behave like this. Women of this nature have always existed, there's always been the town *****, prostitutes, etc. The difference was in the past that such behavior was seen as taboo and shamed by many different types of societies around the world. I am partially convinced that arranged marriages, something that we broadly see in Asia and the middle east, became a cultural norm because women very often make poor choices with the men they select. It was also a mechanism to control female hoe behavior.

With that said, I believe that for a woman to be open to doing porn shows that there is something very wrong. It's one thing for a woman to be loose and mess around with a lot of guys with little resistance, which even I believe is a red flag. From what I've observed and heard, I believe that many women who behave like this either have very deep issues pertaining to insecurity related to a father figure, or lack thereof, and gain male attention that they desperately desire by being promiscuous and easy. I've even heard other women make comments like this about women that they know that behave in such a manner. They may be fun to have sex with, but I'd steer clear of women like this for anything beyond that. I believe that once a woman has gone through a phase like this she's damaged goods. I recall a while ago seeing some stats about the number of sex partners a woman has had and the likelihood of her retaining a marriage. Basically, the higher the body count the less likely her marriage would last.

However, for a woman to take this behavior to the degree where she literally has her ***** on display, is getting ravaged by men and doing all sorts of sexual acts whilst on camera for literally millions upon millions of people to see for years and years to come.......that really is not normal. These women may be hot, but very few men would ever consider them as anything more than just something to ****. The issue with these women is that once their looks fade, and they will, the demand they get from producers will decline and they eventually lose this source of attention and fame. Something else you should consider is that many of these female porn stars have actually committed suicide, again a sign of emotional and mental health issues. August Ames and Shyla Stylez are a couple big names that come to mind. The former was bullied by a bunch of leftist trolls online for refusing to do a scene with an actor who also did gay porn, rightly citing concerns over HIV/AIDs. She was found strung up in a park, and we all know that wasn't the work of a lynch mob lol. The latter example was found dead in bed by her mother, who she had moved in with, from an apparent overdose.
Bro you are 1000% right. Extreme promiscuity is a sign of self destruction. I have dated plenty of these types of girls. I have even had deep conversations with porn stars in person ( when I lived in Vegas). They admitted to me all type of craziness and lonliness in their personal life.

One semi famous pornstar told me that " honey you dont want me, im damaged goods" She also said " some days she cries all day at home and she has a compulsive cleaning disorder". She was married to an MMA fighter that over dosed on herion and died.

Sluts/ pornstars have surpressed childhood trauma ( molestation, no daddy, borderline personality disorder) that allows them to get ravaged on camera by random men.

Healthy girls are discriminating about who they let have sex with them. Healthy girls cant even get wet for strange men without some type of emotional connection. The problem is that fewer and fewer women are coming from functional nulcear families.
 

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C'mon man, he's a good looking dude, Red Bull sponsored athlete, 30yrs old...he has the world at his feet....yet he gets married and has a child with a 31yrs old pornstar ... this makes absolutely no logical sense, unless he has some serious mental issues himself. Like attracts like.
Many men who marry pornstars are closet homosexuals/ bisexual. They have cuck fetishes. This is why many of them are okay and even get turned on by their woman having had many dycks. Not all but many. Trust me on this.
 

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Realistically 99% of guys are not going to try to turn a hoe into a housewife lol. But it happens. I see alot of it in the rap/hip hop world. Some guys just dont care if a girl was f-ing alot of dudes before. it means nothing to us lol. I think theres just an echelon of dating that a buncha women and men are in.. where we're catchin hella bodies and we dont care about bodycount.. and it seems like people not in this bracket seem to have a real problem with those kind of things..

To me if u can take a hoe and make her obedient to you, you're a beast of a man. Its like taming a jezebel.

Funny enough, the truth is my dad and moms story is exactly that.. My mom was a known hoe growing up.. Slept with a buncha diff dudes, manipulated them all, used them for various purposes.. then she met my dad she became like the best housewife possible despite a bit of fighting here and there. and he had such an impact on her that even after she passed, she never dated or slept with any other man.. let alone thought about re-marrying. My dad was a huge player before he was married too.. but after his first wife/divorce he changed.
Damn dude your dad got lucky. It usually does not end up this way.

Most hoes can not be housewives because slutty girls have the spirit of rebelliousness. Sluts are usually sluts because of other deeper mental issues. If they had the capacity to be responsible humans they would not be sluts in the first place. Usually....
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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What dudes like YOU don't realize is that women are NOT born monogamous.

Marriage is a social construct that began as a property exchange, which was popularized because men want to control women's sexual desires. This is why we have feminism.

Women are socially programmed to believe they are monogomous and hide their slutty/kinky side, when really they are just as duplicitious and horny as men.

This porn star is just talking. If she ever settles down, she will either cheat on her husband or need him to be a cuckhold who can give her the non sexual companionship that the alpha men she loves to **** don't provide.
So I caught a lot of flack for saying this a few months ago. I agree but allow me to add some nuance.

Women are naturally serial monogamist. They are designed to hop from one dyck for a few years then to another dyck for a few years. Its is unnatural for them to SUSTAIN INDEFINATELY having sex with multiple men. Eventually one man will be the one she picks and the others get faded out.

Men on the other hand can indefinately have sex with multiple women for decades and decades.

I also do agree that women are freakier than most men like to believe. They definately have very nasty fantasies. Many of them include gangbangs. This does not mean that they would actually like them in reality.

The more a girl has a strong father figure the more she will discriminate with the men she allows inside of her. Her body wont find them worthy and she wont get wet. But most girls are not healthy.
 

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Most guys would **** a slut without question if the opportunity presented itself, this is just male nature. The thing is, very few men are really in a position where an opportunity like this would just show up, it does happen but it's a rare occurrence past high school and college. Most men generally have to put some sort of work in.

Anyway, from my own beliefs and what I've seen I feel that most men see women that are easy something like this.

They love her *****, how easy it comes, no pun intended, and the thrill of the moment. The thing is, if they didn't really have to put in much work for it there is no reason for them to take these women seriously and they often keep them as a one night stand, FWB, side piece, etc. When a woman makes a man put in work and wait he generally appreciates the conquest more and is far more likely to have some respect for her and possibly consider her as ltr material, etc.

Women ultimately set the tone for the type of relationship they are to have with the men they are involved with. Some women are totally down to have a one night stand and move on, I've seen this before. However, when a woman has sex with a man more often than not she becomes attached to this man and wants to be steadier and more consistent with him, again this is due to biological programming. The issue with women that are too easy and give up the p u s s y with little resistance is that they put themselves in a place where the man doesn't see them as relationship material. Now she is desperately chasing after him and wants to lock him down, which puts the MAN in the position of power in the relationship. When a woman makes a man wait and put more work in, setting the foundation for a potential relationship, it puts her in a position of power until they have sex. From there, they both pair bond in a more normal way. Now, it's also not in a woman's best interest to make the man put too much work in either, as it may cause the man to move on because he feels she isn't actually interested.
100% Agree with what you're saying.. Though I also don't think that if a woman chooses to be casually dating and not settle down for a while, it doesnt take away from her ability to settle down later. Ofc it depends greatly on a case to case basis but I think a bigger factor in whether women or men will have healthy pair bonding is whether they grew up in a household with both parents and whether those parents had a healthy relationship or not, as well as other factors.. Such as whether she was in a toxic/manipulative relationship.. or whether she was in many long term relationships that caused her to lose faith in things like love and loyalty..
 
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