How are you defining "boldly direct"?
My definition of 'boldy direct' would be to confidently approach a woman with no hesitation and 1) let her know I'm attracted to her, 2) let her know I'd like us to get together sometime in the near future, and 3) let her know specifically why I want to get together with her (I.e be specific about what my romantic/sexual intentions are).
You can still be 'boldy direct' without using sexually explicit or erotic language, but there's nothing wrong with using that sort of language either if that is what the guy who is approaching is honestly thinking.
What do you think about Mode One Hardcore (cold approaching a woman and telling her before any conversation has been had, that you want to "fvck her," or "fvck her ass" (those words)?.
Well first of all, a common misconception about Mode One Hardcore is that it's simply about walking up to women and saying 'Hey, I want to f*ck you'. It is NOT. There's a lot more to it than that. Mode One Hardcore CAN include saying 'I want to f*ck you' (or words to that effect), but it is NOT simply that. Anything Mode One Hardcore has to be delivered smoothly and confidently, with the a smooth, seductive tone of voice, confident direct eye contact, etc. It is NOT about walking up to women and spouting out 'crude comments'. Mode One Hardcore is not only about the words being said, but the confident delivery behind those words too.
I think Mode One Hardcore can be extremely powerful and I'm not against it. A guy has to be extremely confident, ballsy and be able to read women well in order to make it work.
That's being boldly direct, is it not?.
It is one possible form of being 'boldy direct', yes, but as I've already alluded to, being 'boldly direct' is not limited to Mode One Hardcore.
Personally as a woman I find such approach offensive, .
'Offensive' is just a subjective label. It doesn't mean anything. What you're really saying is that such an approach goes against your social programming of how you believe a guy is 'supposed to' approach a woman. But I think raw truth is better than p*ssyfooting around and playing it safe.
If done smoothly and very confidently, Mode One Hardcore leaves women INTRIGUED about a guy, and it gets their p*ssy DRIPPING WET.
I don't regard Mode One Hardcore as 'offensive'. It's simply HONEST. Brutally honest at that, but it's still honest.
What I would regard as 'offensive' is being dishonest, being manipulative, being indirect, beating round the bush, hiding your true romantic/sexual intentions. Those things are offensive and insulting to a woman. Not being honest. I would never insult a woman's intelligence by being dishonest with her about my romantic/sexual intentions.
however I do appreciate Mode 1 and Mode 1.5 and Mode 2.
You just haven't met a guy who could pull off a Mode One Hardcore approach confidently and smoothly enough to get your p*ssy wet
It's a rare ability for a guy to have and such guys are extremely rare.
Standard Mode 1 or Mode 1.5 are perfectly fine too. I am NOT in favour of Mode 2 (or Mode 3).
Mode One Hardcore is not for everyone, but by the same token I don't believe there's anything wrong with being Mode One Hardcore either.
Texting, email, in-person, as long as you're authentic and projecting good energy and your best self, anything goes.
Communication is communication after all, doesn't matter the method imho.
Some people communicate better, more succinctly, effectively and seductively via the written word and I agree with
This is patently FALSE. All forms of digital communication lack the expression of a person's tone of voice, body language, eye contact etc. Digital communication doesn't allow you to truly read a person's vibe and body language, nor does it allow you to express your vibe properly. It is simply a cop out that far too many people of this generation over-rely on, instead of having the conference to express their romantic/sexual intentions face to face.
Seduction cannot be done properly or effectively over digital communication. Attraction can be increased through prolonged eye contact, for example. Women are also auditory and can become aroused by a man's words and tone of voice. You can't convey any of that stuff via digital communication. Face to face approaching and communication is far superior, BUT it requires more skill and confidence to do.
The "Hey, you're hot, let's fvck!" texts went straight to trash.
Sending a girl texts saying 'Hey you're hot, let's f*ck' is NOT Mode One Hardcore. True Mode One Hardcore, or non-hardcore, can ONLY be done 100% effectively IN PERSON (or at bare minimum, over the phone), and as I've already discussed, there's more to it than just 'Hey you're hot, let's f*ck'. So that example is not relevant as to the effectiveness of Mode One Hardcore.
Anyway hope you learned something from my reply. Odds are I won't be coming back here much. I'm too busy with stuff like doing Mode One approaches etc
