Holiday Rekindle?

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yes I was thinking of a text something like “Oh btw I’d like those books back soon”is that ok?
No bro you say hey listen, by the way I need my book back and if you could grab that other one while we’re at it I’d appreciate it. When are you free in the next couple of days to meet me at X location
 

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This is easy. If she’s got your literal intellectual property you should simply tell her you need your book back. Throw on that you’d like the other one back.

to be honest this was your way in imo. You go in legitimate, you take the temperature and then go from there. I don’t think it made sense to beat around the bush, or is your book not that important to you?

could you see where she’s seeing you as lower value that you’re playing head games not just asking for your intellectual property back?
No because my thought was we hook up again and I ask her to bring the books with her. I didn’t think she didn’t want to see me so I didn’t feel the need to focus on the book. I think you’re seeing it differently.

also it’s not like it’s a manuscript, I published it and it’s a hardcover. You can buy it on Amazon
 

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No because my thought was we hook up again and I ask her to bring the books with her. I didn’t think she didn’t want to see me so I didn’t feel the need to focus on the book. I think you’re seeing it differently.

also it’s not like it’s a manuscript, I published it and it’s a hardcover. You can buy it on Amazon
Doesn’t matter. It’s your intellectual property you get that **** back. You paid to have it published and done nicely and you want your crap. Btw if you talk to her like is just said above, and don’t take this personally but it’s obvious, she’s gonna think you’re a different person and she is probably going to cream. Assert yourself. If she says anything other than yes you say, what are you a fvcking thief? At least give her an earful. Better yet call her and say this. Nicely and then you get firmer.
 

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Doesn’t matter. It’s your intellectual property you get that **** back. You paid to have it published and done nicely and you want your crap. Btw if you talk to her like is just said above, and don’t take this personally but it’s obvious, she’s gonna think you’re a different person and she is probably going to cream. Assert yourself. If she says anything other than yes you say, what are you a fvcking thief? At least give her an earful.
I’ll give it a shot, thanks. If she is really stealing my **** as some sort of **** test tho, she’s not getting my d!ck ever again. That disgusts me
 

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I’ll give it a shot, thanks. If she is really stealing my **** as some sort of **** test tho, she’s not getting my d!ck ever again. That disgusts me
It’s in the delivery kid. this is where you can refine your ****y attitude. Call up nicely but firmly. If you get a voicemail say hey call me back it’s important. And then you’re like what are you a thief? That’s my literal work product what the hell is wrong with you? Hopefully it doesn’t get to that point, she begins to appreciate your new assertive nature and you take her to pound town. Keep us posted!
 

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It’s in the delivery kid. this is where you can refine your ****y attitude. Call up nicely but firmly. If you get a voicemail say hey call me back it’s important. And then you’re like what are you a thief? That’s my literal work product what the hell is wrong with you? Hopefully it doesn’t get to that point, she begins to appreciate your new assertive nature and you take her to pound town. Keep us posted!
I’m not fvcking her if she is doing this. I’m just not. And I don’t like your strategy. I’m fully expecting this to fail and then I will have yet another thing to hate you guys for
 

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I’m not fvcking her if she is doing this. I’m just not. And I don’t like your strategy. I’m fully expecting this to fail and then I will have yet another thing to hate you guys for
Then don’t do it. My strategy is reclaiming your head space and not feeling like anything other than completely within your right to get your stuff back.
 

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Then don’t do it. My strategy is reclaiming your head space and not feeling like anything other than completely within your right to get your stuff back.
There are ways to go about it other than being a faux alpha trying to prove something
 

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There are ways to go about it other than being a faux alpha trying to prove something
Are you for real? Faux alpha? I mean I guess that actually does work considering the implication is that you’re beta, which is why you’re posting a thread about a Hail Mary approach to some girl you’re hoping you can tap again (you won’t, she smells this a mile away) and btw would like your books back? Do you not understand that your needs should come first (financial, your well-being, sexually etc) and then you think about if she is worth your time? I don’t want to be harsh, you’re obviously not built for objective criticism but dude.

I’m almost wondering if this is a troll post?
 

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Are you for real? Faux alpha? I mean I guess that actually does work considering the implication is that you’re beta, which is why you’re posting a thread about a Hail Mary approach to some girl you’re hoping you can tap again (you won’t, she smells this a mile away) and btw would like your books back? Do you not understand that your needs should come first (financial, your well-being, sexually etc) and then you think about if she is worth your time? I don’t want to be harsh, you’re obviously not built for objective criticism but dude.

I’m almost wondering if this is a troll post?
You’re obviously triggered about something in this post. Not sure what your deal is. Blocking you
 

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In other news, another of my exes got back to me. She seemed disinterested at first so I never pursued the matter. That was about noon today. Anyhow she phoned me a half hour or so ago but I missed the call. Long story short I told her texting was best and she said she preferred to phone. I told her I didn’t and to take care
 

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Well that line “worked”. Thing is that girl lives out of town and it’s the holidays. I’ll figure it out.
Congrats! Now when you see her, big smile, kiss on cheek and light palm on her ass like Michael Jordan did recently with Mary j blige should get the tone off on the right foot. And obviously act like it’s nothing.

Btw I wasn’t trying to pick a fight with you. If it came off that way it was misinterpreted. What you said to her above is not even game. It’s just normal interpersonal communication.
 

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That girl who said she wanted to talk instead of text? She texted me this morning. Good lawd
 

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So final results:

Out of 3 girls contacted:

2 replied and seemed more curious about me than interested (that includes the girl I lent the book to)

1 left my message on “read”
 

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I think a little nuance is in order no? If she writes back and you get a call going maybe you can flip into phone sex
Very little can come out of taking the trash back in. However, dudes are the kings of complicating their lives and then asking what happened.
 

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Then don't engage an amphibian.
I was trying to illustrate how sending a 2 second text isn’t a waste of time. Not trying to say I was wasting time with the user I replied to. Not sure what you meant by amphibian
 
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