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SargeMaximus

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startstrongtoday22 said:
I agree with you and did not want to sound like a pessimist, but when it comes to woman, experience speaks best. They never change.
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I’ve actually had women come back to me. One of them tried breaking up with me 5 separate times before finally moving to another city lol! But yes more or less I agree with you. Still, it doesn’t hurt to try. I’m just where I was all along after the “failure” so meh
 
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SargeMaximus said:
I’ve actually had women come back to me. One of them tried breaking up with me 5 separate times before finally moving to another city lol! But yes more or less I agree with you. Still, it doesn’t hurt to try. I’m just where I was all along after the “failure” so meh
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You did not fail. You were just trying to rekindle - like the title of your post states. However, from what I have learned man, once a fruit goes bad, it goes bad and stale, you cannot make the fruit ripe. It's the same thing with women - even if you become a celebrity tomorrow they do not come for YOU, they come for your status. It's just that. We simply get one GOOD chance with them, and it's always the FIRST chance that is the best.

I used to do exactly what you used to do, hit up old numbers. I even got a date with one, went out, made out but never had sex, but I did not like her again, and never bothered to contact her again. I did not bother because I realized I didn't really like her and there was a reason I did not like her in the first place and we never moved forward - that feeling never changes lol.

The thing is when women lose RESPECT for you , and I do not mean in the sense that she does not respect you, meaning that they lose that VALUE they saw in you, they simply lose interest. We men are the same. If we have high expectations when we are trying to bang her, but then the sex is bad, we lose interest - it has happened a lot to me.

The reason I joined this forum was because of the no contact post I found on the JUST GOT DUMPED GUIDE. I am even using no contact with the girls I am talking to, and they automatically reach out themselves. If I do not hear from them, I just send a crumb text, and they again restart sucking up.

I delete numbers because they are useless. If I am meant to see her again, I can just ask her the next time. Having numbers that are burnt, only forces you to reach out again. I learned, not reaching has more power.

Bottom line is this, and I think that this always remain true: If you never ended going forward with a chick - regardless of your **** up or her **** up - or whatever logistics, it was never meant to be, and never bother pursuing it. This thing about pursuing what you love is bs. When you want her and she wants you, it happens - magic or not.
 
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startstrongtoday22 said:
You did not fail. You were just trying to rekindle - like the title of your post states. However, from what I have learned man, once a fruit goes bad, it goes bad and stale, you cannot make the fruit ripe. It's the same thing with women - even if you become a celebrity tomorrow they do not come for YOU, they come for your status. It's just that. We simply get one GOOD chance with them, and it's always the FIRST chance that is the best.

I used to do exactly what you used to do, hit up old numbers. I even got a date with one, went out, made out but never had sex, but I did not like her again, and never bothered to contact her again. I did not bother because I realized I didn't really like her and there was a reason I did not like her in the first place and we never moved forward - that feeling never changes lol.

The thing is when women lose RESPECT for you , and I do not mean in the sense that she does not respect you, meaning that they lose that VALUE they saw in you, they simply lose interest. We men are the same. If we have high expectations when we are trying to bang her, but then the sex is bad, we lose interest - it has happened a lot to me.

The reason I joined this forum was because of the no contact post I found on the JUST GOT DUMPED GUIDE. I am even using no contact with the girls I am talking to, and they automatically reach out themselves. If I do not hear from them, I just send a crumb text, and they again restart sucking up.

I delete numbers because they are useless. If I am meant to see her again, I can just ask her the next time. Having numbers that are burnt, only forces you to reach out again. I learned, not reaching has more power.

Bottom line is this, and I think that this always remain true: If you never ended going forward with a chick - regardless of your **** up or her **** up - or whatever logistics, it was never meant to be, and never bother pursuing it. This thing about pursuing what you love is bs. When you want her and she wants you, it happens - magic or not.
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I don’t believe that. That sounds too much like magic despite you saying it’s not. I have to believe I have some influence in my life and women I come across. I stopped believing that for a while and my results absolutely tanked.

when I first got into pua, I was doing great in that I was getting looks and attraction like I’ve never seen. Even tho I was a virgin.

now, many years later, I can get laid but I don’t have that.
The difference? Back then I believed I had the power and could learn the power.
 
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