Are most guys just bad in bed

[BackInTheGame78]

It's even more fun when they freak out and say, "holy **** I thought that was porn BS!" Getting to squirt manually isn't hard at all; getting them to do I while you're in them is a different level of cawk game altogether, repeatedly.

There are certain positions I call "squirt positions" which work really well for that. Probably the best one is them squatting over you while you lie on your back so you can pump in and out extremely fast but also get the full length in and out. Pretty much never fails if done right for a long enough duration.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Yes. Most guys are terrible. Including me. I don’t know why many girls enjoyed it.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Why on earth would you want to have sex 8 times a day? Don’t you have anything else to do with your time?

Did I say 8 times a day every day? Ever heard of the weekend when you aren't working? When a woman that is highly attracted to you is near you, she gets so horny to the point she starts attacking you. I've been in that position of doggy treat sex, so I'm sorry you cannot understand this.

 

[Hal9000]

When dating I heard how bad men were in bed all the time from women, especially at giving oral. Since a lot of men on here seem to be against the idea of going down on a woman, much less do it well, I can see where there would so much female angst on the matter. Add in the fact that many men are out of shape, drunks/druggies, or just selfish A-holes who are done once they get theirs and you realize you can carve out quite a niche for yourself by being none of those things and giving women what they want in bed. Worked very well for me.

 

[Hal9000]

Get one of those dog blankets made to be put on the couch, they're waterproof.

Baby blankets work well also.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Also, to add to the @sangheilios attraction argument and why you should always work to improve your looks/status...Some girls won't get wet enough for guys she doesn't find over an 8, so this will affect your performance. I had one girl that obviously saw me as a 7 or something and her pvssy would not get wet enough which greatly affected my performance lol. I ended up dumping her for other reasons, but I'm glad I didn't wait that out lol.

 

[pipeman84]

Here are some good examples of women complaining about guys that lack skills.

How to Make Any Man Better in Bed

We got real women to share their strategies for turning so-so lovers around. He can rock your world. All he needs are these hints!

www.glamour.com

That article illustrates perfectly the media brainwashing where men are portrayed as hapless idiots who aren't able to cross the street by themselves and women, these enlightened beings, must help them at every step.

What happened with the demure, innocent girl who's initiated into sex by the more experienced guy? That article makes it sound like all women are brothel workers and all men are like 13 yrs old boys.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

To turn a woman on you don’t need looks. Someone who is a 2 but knows how to turn her on smoothly will get her wet than a 9 without knowing how to do it

Dude lol, no girl is going to go out of her way to fvck a 2/10 unless she's one herself. Looks maxxing won't always help, but it's better than nothing. You can be a 9/10 on paper, but if you are not "her type" you are a 6-7/10 to her.

 

[Pandora]

So a girl broke it down to me. She said you will be decent in bed if you avoid these mistakes that most men do.

1.) Too rough

2.) Dont be into weird kinks and fetishes

3.) To soft aka not rough enough

4.) Good hygiene ( i added this one lol )

5.) Last too short, premature ejc

6.) Last too long

 

[Bingo-Player]

Sex is massively over played by both male and female society but more so by the manosphere

It's treated as if its some incredible act that we are lucky to experience

Quite frankly by the 6 month stage we are all perfectly aware of what we are getting , there is only so many positions you can physically do and how much you can hammer away before things start getting a little "MEH"

It doesn't matter how big the D*ck is , how tight her pu$$Y is or any of the other bullsh1t that gets shoved down our throats by the porn industry

Sex gets boring PERIOD ........

That is why humans have developed weird fetishes like cucking and orgies in a desperate attempt to spice things up and bring back that high

It's all very hollow , yes we all enjoy getting laid but once we are done was it really THAT amazing

80% of sex is physcolgocial

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

Pedrito already did the math, it’s completely bs even if you are a sex addict and a sex god. He just gave you a reason to not question his wrong reality.
If you weren’t easily manipulated then you wouldn’t believe it in the first place. And stimulating woman emotionally isn’t something new for everyone, the tough one is how you do it. You can have the knowledge, but can you put it into practice is the true question here.
There is also a difference with texting a manipulator and being in a presence with a manipulator.
In the latter one a healthy person can feel something Is wrong with the person. With texting you can be more careful with what you say.
With Pan I knew he is talking bs when I questioned some of his ideas, he was incongruent most of the time.

Why else do you think he deleted his account? You can’t fake it forever.

It doesn’t matter if his 1000 lay count was a myth or not. He had some great insights and understood female nature. You can tell the dude had real world experience. He was very brash at times but that was his style. He got a lot of hate for how he used to talk but the fact is he knew what the **** he was talking about, whether you like him or not you can’t lie, he’s brought us some great intel. Too bad he’s gone, because lately this forum has taken a crazy dive in quality.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Sex is massively over played by both male and female society but more so by the manosphere

It's treated as if its some incredible act that we are lucky to experience

Quite frankly by the 6 month stage we are all perfectly aware of what we are getting , there is only so many positions you can physically do and how much you can hammer away before things start getting a little "MEH"

It doesn't matter how big the D*ck is , how tight her pu$$Y is or any of the other bullsh1t that gets shoved down our throats by the porn industry

Sex gets boring PERIOD ........

Sex gets boring if the couples are just bad at sex in general. No stimulating activity gets boring. No guy gets bored of masturbating, drinking, football, and etc. If your sex game is trash then of course you will need to resort to other things. Otherwise, little sex or bad sex kills relationships, so idk how you can make it seem so unimportant lol.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Sex gets boring if the couples are just bad at sex in general. No stimulating activity gets boring. No guy gets bored of masturbating, drinking, football, and etc. If your sex game is trash then of course you will need to resort to other things. Otherwise, little sex or bad sex kills relationships, so idk how you can make it seem so unimportant lol.

No it doesn't it gets boring because over indulgence very quickly wears the novelty out of couple sex

Why do you think the sex toy industry is so big !?! if everyone was having such incredible sex it would barely be able to exist

Its a dirty little caveat nobody wants to think about because it removes a lot of meaning from "the endless pursuit of satisfaction" which most humans are obsessed with

I suggest anyone who is obsessed with sex ( or any other vice ) study the philosophy of the samurai

You will very quickly begin to understand pleasure is in limitation not abundance and over indulgence.

 

[DonJuanjr]

Why do you think the sex toy industry is so big !?! if everyone was having such incredible sex it would barely be able to exist

I think sex toy industry conincides with cam girl industry...

 

[DonJuanjr]

I suggest anyone who is obsessed with sex ( or any other vice ) study the philosophy of the samurai

You will very quickly begin to understand pleasure is in limitation not abundance and over indulgence.

Into Bushido I see....

 

[sangheilios]

But earlier you said "a woman's enjoyment of a sexual interaction is entirely based on how attracted she is by you. Now you have mentioned things that are related to technique/skills.

Fyi, she married the guy, together several years, he was in great shape, You know what she told me? His dihk was average, but He really didn't know what he was doing and he was done in 15min, and He had no idea how to eat pu$$y. Hey, maybe it's all b.s.

It's about, attraction, emotions, and the physical aspect. That's why bedroom skills matter.

Your theory has some leaks.

I'm saying that it's heavily based on how attracted a woman is to a man. Most men that women will fool around with aren't going to have their sex skills and natural talent be substantially different than one another. It's not like she's been with one guy who is completely terrible in bed and then the next guy is god's gift to women, most are going to be fairly comparable to one another. I believe that when you factor out negative variables that are more extreme; (small penis, erectile issues, early ejaculation, complete cluelessness, etc.) it's ultimately based upon how attracted she is to the man she is with. Now, if a woman is initially attracted to you and you whip out some big **** or are above average with your sexual ability that will definitely give you added points. With that said, I guarantee most men, including those on here, greatly overestimate their sexual capabilities.

Side note, I can personally cite a couple examples of women I've heard talk bad about the poor sexual capabilities of men they were with. If they are talking down I got the feeling that they were saying these things in order to tear the man down or perhaps come up with some sort of internal reason as to why they cut them out. What I'm saying is what women might be saying about things like this may be complete nonsense, thus the response should be to not take it seriously.

 

[sangheilios]

Also, to add to the @sangheilios attraction argument and why you should always work to improve your looks/status...Some girls won't get wet enough for guys she doesn't find over an 8, so this will affect your performance. I had one girl that obviously saw me as a 7 or something and her pvssy would not get wet enough which greatly affected my performance lol. I ended up dumping her for other reasons, but I'm glad I didn't wait that out lol.

Almost 5 years ago I went on a date with a girl I had met when I was out with some friends on a Saturday night. I wasn't quite as mucular back then, around 220 at 6'4", but I was very lean and looked great. Anyway, I took her mini golfing and we were just sitting down on a bench waiting for the people to be down with the next course. We were just sitting there chatting and then I noticed she was stroking the handle of the golf club like she was giving a hand job, so obviously she was aroused. She was literally aroused by just being around me because she found me very attractive. In a situation like this, it wouldn't take much to get a girl going and there'd be very little resistance.

 

[sangheilios]

To turn a woman on you don’t need looks. Someone who is a 2 but knows how to turn her on smoothly will get her wet than a 9 without knowing how to do it

You are completely delusional if you believe this or are just coping to an extreme degree.

 

[pipeman84]

Why do you think the sex toy industry is so big !?! if everyone was having such incredible sex it would barely be able to exist

You bring up an interesting point. Sex toys in the bedroom have been portrayed as some form of advanced sex, etc but I feel that it's masking what in essence is poor sex and is an affront to the man....I mean, I couldn't bring a fleshlight or a sex doll and feel proud and advanced about it...why are vibrators and dildos treated differently?

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Yup it’s easy enough to find plagiarism and his posts were replete with cases of it.

I’m sure his count was embellished as well, he’ll I get Shiite for mine, most people don’t believe it and it’s a fraction of his purported one at 30.

Yes he had some spot on things to say about seduction and what most women desire.

The issue is you can have excellent information to share, but if you cannot communicate it’s worthless.

He actually didn’t when I challenged him and when few others did. Thats where I found out he copy pasted few insights and called him out on it.
Majority of the People are easily manipulated anyways, majority of People are followers not leaders.
And it does matter, because I have morals I don’t let anyone manipulate me or want others to get manipulated.

I believe 1,000 by 30 is maybe a wee bit embellished? Just a teeny bit if you’re not a hooker?

1,000 in his 30s, lets say he started at 15 and he is 35, that was 20 years of body count.

1000/20= 50 per year = 4 per month = 1 new girl every week for the next 20 years without failing.