A Woman Can't Flake On You; If You Do This...MODE ONE!!! Part 2

[Gamisch]

Did you get the impression from mode 1 that it was only casual? Alan Currie simply said, tell them what you want to see happen. What if that guy came to Cat and said on day one, my intent is to find someone I can have a life long fulfilling relationship with and get married. That’s his mode 1.

Makes sense. I get it.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Oh man, I had this big long response typed out to @Gamisch but then read this^ post and it became totally moot!

So yeah I thought Mode One was for only casual hookups to avoid the whole "going out on a date and spending money" sort of thing.

But since you explained what it really means, then yeah my hubs Mode One'd me from the very beginning when we first started chatting on line (we met on a high quality paying website).

He very directly told me he was seeking a relationship/marriage/children as he was totally done with hook ups, ONS, casual sex and the like which he had been engaging in for YEARS! He was very direct, very matter of fact and I really liked his style and approach and it totally drew me to him in a big way!!

He even told you how much pipe he was laying and that you were going to be the lucky one who broke him away from all of it. Alan Currie is smiling.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Now with that said…

 

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[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Do you think that Leo Di Caprio goes mode one when meeting women, or that he rather just invites her and if she agrees assumes its game on? In other words, do you think top players dont play it subtle and smooth?

Difficult to tell.

Behind (or without) his celebrity status, he may be a beta male.

For example, Will Smith has celebrity status and arguably good looks, but he is king of the beta males lol.

As for being subtle and smooth...remember, I'd rather be direct, and quick.

I need quick answers.

I will share my entire methodology soon.

 

[Divorced w 3]

OMG you are hilarious! I might have even fallen for you, lol, you would have gotten me laughing anyway, in a good, fun playful way.
What was the outcome of this?

LOL @ tell him to hit the bricks.

Frankly she sounds like a bit of a stick in the mud. No fun at all.

Coming from you….

 

[Divorced w 3]

I know right? Who'd have thought....

I’m free… come over … i hear your kitty purring

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Now with that said…

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Hmm. I have some info for you about situations like that. Stay tuned.

 

[Divorced w 3]

 

[Divorced w 3]

Hmm. I have some info for you about situations like that. Stay tuned.

Keep reading

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Keep reading

Fa sho.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Did you get the impression from mode 1 that it was only casual? Alan Currie simply said, tell them what you want to see happen. What if that guy came to Cat and said on day one, my intent is to find someone I can have a life long fulfilling relationship with and get married. That’s his mode 1.

Indeed. That is his Mode One.

And I had stated in the OP that Mode One is not just limited to potential sexual requests, and can be used on someone REGARDLESS of the nature of the request or the relationship.

You can use Mode One at work..

"Hey boss, I been working here for 7 years and surpass my quota every quarter...can a brotha get a raise?".

Mode One.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Well I’m gonna give her most of the week to hit me back. I have my kids Weds, Thursday so that’s a built in constraint. I don’t like chasing period but I didn’t come out playing Mode 1 and until this point I’ve been pretty short, direct and only every couple days anyway so I want to see this new tactic.

May hit her up Friday on text and say something to the effect of, “Hey, LinkedIn’s finest….… just so we’re on the same page, the intent here is fun and casual. If you want to have a good time, keep it casual and get the juices flowing, that’s what I’m going for. I’m not against something more than that down the road. Let me know”

So awkward

 

[Divorced w 3]

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shot taken…….

This was chat was closed by the other party lol

 

[Divorced w 3]

You have to have her hooked before you can venture into that direct suggestion. If you work in some innuendo and get her playing along, then drop the hammer. As in Poker, if you raise too much too early she's going to fold. Let her invest in the pot before you go all in.

That poker analogy changed it for me.

 

[Epicwinguy]

So you still have to be pretty smooth with this ****.

 

[Stanley]

This thread is a ****ing goldmine honestly. Just grabbed mode one on kindle, worth it?

 

[eli77]

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Yeah man, back at it. I will make Part 2 short and sweet (uncharacteristic of my posts) lol.

Now, Mode One was defined in part 1...and it was stated that Mode One is best served for guys and their purposes of..

1. The purpose of having casual sex with a woman (friends with benefits, or f#ck buddy relationships).

2. The purpose of preventing a woman from wasting your time and money.

Now, before we get into the good stuff, lets talk about how most guys think...we tend to think the old fashion way..

"This woman is attractive and I want to have sex with her. But she will only have sex with me after we get to know each other better. So I will go out on a date with her (or two), and we will see if we can get to know each other...and then maybe, just maybe, things will progress to sex".

So basically, we are taking gambles. We are wining and dining women, with the hopes of smashing them.

But, here is where we have to change our mentalities.

Think of it this way...

Woman: Why would I have sex with you? I dont even know you. I have to get to know a man first before I give have sex with him.

Now, guys, we've accepted this as how most women think.

We've accepted it, and we go with the flow.

But what if we match their mentality with...

Man: Why would I spend money on you for a date? I don't even know you. I have to get to know a woman first before I spent money on her.

BAM.

Did you feel that? That kind of mentality goes against EVERYTHING you've ever known or have come to know about dating, doesn't it?

By simply changing your mentality to reflect those sentiments, a woman can never flake on you again.

How?

Back to Mode One.

If you spend $70 on a date with a woman that you were trying to smash, and you never smashed her (for whatever reason, she never gave up the puzzy), you feel like it was not money well spent, because you did not get what you wanted in the first place.

So, you feel like you wasted money. You took a gamble. You played the lottery and did not "hit" (pun intended).

Or, lets say you got the number of a woman that you found extremely attractive, and you set up a date with her but she canceled or is showing signs of flakiness.

How can you prevent this?

You go Mode One.

So, what does Mode One look like in this scenario? It is simple. It is easy as 1-2-3.

It is so simple that by the time you see how simple it is, you will receive so much enlightenment that you will think you are Buddhist.

Mode One is simple...it goes a little something like this...

You: Hey miss, you are cute. I want to share your sexual companionship tonight. May I have your number?

Her: *She declines, regardless of what kind of answer she gives*.

Do you see what happens? She can't flake on you, can she?

You know where you stand with her, without spending a DIME on her.

Do you see how easy/simple that is?? No money spent....and because you have closure, you actually feel good!!

Because you see, when we go out on a first date or before we send the first text (or phone call) to a woman, we don't know where we stand with her.

So, we are diving into unknown waters...and we simply have to wait and see how deep those waters are. It is a gamble.

But, by going Mode One, we don't have to wait.

We KNOW exactly where we stand, immediately. And we didn't have to time or money to know, either.

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Sounds like something straight from the movie the tao of steve