Also I’m pretty certain models responding to me on IG has to do with my status as a DJ. I mean come on, they have too many options and guys trying to DM them, why would they consider responding to some random dude? And also not all models I message respond to me on IG, my response rate is usually 2 out of 10 girls I message.
So clearly there has to be some kind of attraction or intrigue. I’m just really curious that’s all.
And to clarify these aren’t just wannabe instathots, they are actual agency models, some of them with well over 10k followers.
Maybe yes, maybe not, I'm sure those girls also reply to random guys (not DJs), because they are validation junkies or/and they have time to waste while they sit on the toilet. Why do girls use Tinder, why do they chat with 489274923 guys and meet none? It's entertaining, they get their validation fix and that's what they need. They are completely addicted.
2 out of them reply but you meet 0 out of them. What's the point? I understand the feeling of validation you get when they reply but trust me it's toxic.
I don't see why they would reply if it's not for the these 2 reasons. You message girls that live in other cities and countries/continents. Ok you're a DJ, then what? She is going to book a flight and travel to Chicago to go on a date with you because you're a DJ? I don't think so. You're entertaining them, it's fun that's why they reply. And not all girls are into DJs, and the ones that date DJs are the ones who party a lot, club girls, not the best quality in my opinion, but that is another story..
Instathot or signed model, no difference in terms of "seeking validation", being entitled, etc. Same thing. A signed model is just a girl that is signed in a model agency, she doesn't have to show pictures of her a$$ to be a thot, just the fact that she posts pictures of herself all the time and that her only goal in life is to gain more followers prove that she is a thot, thot but subtle thot. The fact that she is signed prevents her to show her a$$ like the instathots because it would play against her (bookings), model agencies have rules for that since the instagram of the girl is shown on her comp card, they represent the agency and the agency wants to preserve a "clean" image.. They're full of sh1t.
You put models on a huge pedestal, not good. I've dated a lot of models as I worked as a fashion photographer and lived in NYC and Moscow. Most of them are super boring, they have nothing interesting except their beauty. They are obsessed with eating salads and chia seeds, buy clothes and try to look cool, they have no personality. A lot of them do cocaine, it helps to stay thin and and give them a temporary purpose in life. Some become high end prostitute/escort. The typical model is full of herself, they are really superficial, they only date super tall guys (I'm lucky 6.2). Dating models is an ego trip, nothing more.
As a DJ you might meet a few but they will probably use you to take pictures in the DJ booth (instagram), get free tickets to cool venues, free drinks, etc, unless you look like Cedric Gervais.. he's always with super babes, I met him once while I was working in a huge club (busboy) and trying to make it as a DJ, I shook his hand after his set and 10 seconds later he was leaving with 2 HB9s, ready to fvck him.. Life is not fair. He looks like a douchebag though.
Don't put them on a pedestal, just saying. Focus on your music, it's time consuming enough, but I think the main focus should be your education and go somewhere in life, I think you're in college? That is good, smart. Don't make the mistakes I made.
Anyway, what you do is not my business, but when I read your posts it reminds me how dumb I was when I was your age, I had a good time but I pay the price now.
