where do you guys find red pilled people?

Thebestthereeveris

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Most people dont know about this and even if they do they turn a blind eye to the harsh reality of life and women. Where do you find guys who aren't pussies who are aware of this stuff.
 

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Most people dont know about this and even if they do they turn a blind eye to the harsh reality of life and women. Where do you find guys who aren't pussies who are aware of this stuff.
You should develop other habits and skills, and find groups related to that. If red pill really has influenced you then you'll naturally gravitate towards skills that have mostly red pilled people.

Imo seeking red pilled people for its own sake isn't much of a base for camaraderie, it's like putting the cart before the horse. Go do stuff you enjoy and if you happen to meet someone that's red pilled too, cool. I mean, would you not talk to someone that was a master of a skill you found interesting just because he simps to his wife or something?
 

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Gravitate to places where other strong men will be. Boxing/martial art dojos, gyms, luxury car shows, business and networking events etc..
 

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Many business executives are beta males. Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, and Mark Zuckerberg are examples of business executives who are beta males.
True, but you have a better shot of meeting worth while males at a business convention then you do at a Friday night Magic The Gathering club.

Edit: Also, even they are simps, there's loads of information (business) you can take away and learn from them. I'll befriend a loser all day if he helps me 10x my business.
 

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There is no secret spot that red pill guys hang out at. Just like hot girls that aren't crazy. These groups are small segments of society embedded amongst you already.

I've got two friends that are red pill. I met one thru a common hobby, and the other thru work. Our views on women is and still is the glue that holds these relationships together. Better to filter for personality.

Look for these traits & characteristics:

-Dated lots of women
-Probably not a guy with a family no does he want one
-Confident
-Divorced, doesn't want to get married
-Independent
-A little lone wolf
-Has his life together, and or going places
-A bit cahky, has some ego to him
-Doesn't believe everything he hears
-Doesn't fall deeply for women
 

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Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, and Mark Zuckerberg are examples of business executives who are beta males.
Yeah I dunno, Ive thought about this. With the likes of Eyes Wide Shut and Epstein's island you have to wonder if these guys beta family's are a accurate reflection of there sexual position. You reckon with that much power and wealth they settle for the one average looking girl?

I think its much more likely they have a harem off the books and use the wife/girlfriend for show or political reasons.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Yeah I dunno, Ive thought about this. With the likes of Eyes Wide Shut and Epstein's island you have to wonder if these guys beta family's are a accurate reflection of there sexual position. You reckon with that much power and wealth they settle for the one average looking girl?

I think its much more likely they have a harem off the books and use the wife/girlfriend for show or political reasons.
I think their desire to grow their business drives them more than attractive women. With all of the cameras and people willing to bust a guy like that, they take a huge risk with any side piece they might have. These guys are a constant target.
 
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I met up with someone from this forum almost a decade ago. Super red-pilled, slightly below average in looks and a little overweight. I tried to avoid any talks because I just wanted to have a good time at the bar, but he would go on and on about the manosphere. It was the first time I've ever ghosted a man.
 

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I'm a more senior member of this forum and can say less than 1% of all men I've met in my lifetime have been red pill.

I don't think I've even had a friend who was bona fide red pilled. A few purples and many, many blue pill guys. A lot of guys whom I thought were red pill, had great RP short game but then would get all wussy and beta as the relationship went on, usually getting dumped at some point.

Honestly, I don't think there's much of an advantage to having a RP friend and many can be hard to get along with. I'd honestly prefer a posse of purple and blue pill guys. I just don't give any advice on women unless they ask. Some blue pill guys have been friends of mine for 30+ years and I know they would step up if I really needed help in any way. Not sure a RP guy would do the same.
 

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Out of my group of friends, I would describe 1 guy as being red-pilled, 1 guy as purple pilled, and the rest are all firmly blue pill guys. And the red pill guy I don't think is aware of what "red pill" is and he tends to be a little off in certain ways socially. I suppose probably most "normal" disney people may describe all of us red pilled guys like that though. The purple pill guy is a normal, divorced guy who has had his eyes opened to the nature of women in the worst ways possible. But the rub is that he has a tendency to get into relationships and then get burned at the end anyway. He never learns and always ends up believing that the one he is with is "different."

To answer the original question, I don't think there is anywhere to really GO to find RP guys outside of SoSuave.
 

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Any man I befriend who is RP I always end up having a falling out with. We both tend to have big personalities and just end up clashing. Nothing worse than having to constantly be on your toes because someone else is always trying to out alpha you or take gut shots at you in front of female friends to make themselves appear cooler. It's quite exhausting, and I'd rather just be by myself honestly. Men in the manosphere usually tend to be narcissistic and quite toxic at times.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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And the red pill guy I don't think is aware of what "red pill" is
Yeah this is it, same for the "Alpha" male, the ones who try aren't and the ones who are don't try.

Since I read about red pill Ive been doing my best to be red pilled but its just not natural for me. Try as I might I earn to be plugged back into the matrix. Im not even enjoying the freedom or knowledge the red-pill has given me. Last night after I patted another girls bum out the door I lay in bed feeling hollow and completely uninterested and unsatisfied in the red-pill scene.

Maybe Im doing the red-pill lifestyle wrong I dunno. Im not migtowing though, Im not blue-pilling it, Im red-pilling it, using woman as they have used me, not committing, not being vulnerable, gaining high interest, spinning plates, focusing on myself, picking up hobbies, getting ripped.

I feel like I'm taking the prescription but its not helping..........
 

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Yeah this is it, same for the "Alpha" male, the ones who try aren't and the ones who are don't try.

Since I read about red pill Ive been doing my best to be red pilled but its just not natural for me. Try as I might I earn to be plugged back into the matrix. Im not even enjoying the freedom or knowledge the red-pill has given me. Last night after I patted another girls bum out the door I lay in bed feeling hollow and completely uninterested and unsatisfied in the red-pill scene.

Maybe Im doing the red-pill lifestyle wrong I dunno. Im not migtowing though, Im not blue-pilling it, Im red-pilling it, using woman as they have used me, not committing, not being vulnerable, gaining high interest, spinning plates, focusing on myself, picking up hobbies, getting ripped.

I feel like I'm taking the prescription but its not helping..........
What do you think makes it so hollow? What is it you aren't getting that makes it seem hollow? A deeper connection?
 

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What do you think makes it so hollow? What is it you aren't getting that makes it seem hollow? A deeper connection?
Not sure yet but I aim to find out. Ive been getting wasted and running a train through the single scene and last weekend my liver started to hurt. So ive given up drinking for now and last night I ordered in a plate Ive been seeing but now sober, well let me tell you that was a different experience. The smell and taste was way off, I think I was oblivious to it under the influence but man was it a turn off.

Meanwhile Im two months out of a LTR where the smell and taste was perfection (at least to me) and its like that movie purfume where Im looking to replicate that scent. There was some kind of low level chemistry that I havnt been able to find since being single.

Then again maybe the girls Ive been seeing arnt high enough on the SMV.......
 

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There is no secret spot that red pill guys hang out at. Just like hot girls that aren't crazy. These groups are small segments of society embedded amongst you already.

I've got two friends that are red pill. I met one thru a common hobby, and the other thru work. Our views on women is and still is the glue that holds these relationships together. Better to filter for personality.

Look for these traits & characteristics:

-Dated lots of women
-Probably not a guy with a family no does he want one
-Confident
-Divorced, doesn't want to get married
-Independent
-A little lone wolf
-Has his life together, and or going places
-A bit cahky, has some ego to him
-Doesn't believe everything he hears
-Doesn't fall deeply for women
It’s rare af to meet people like this
 

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Most people dont know about this and even if they do they turn a blind eye to the harsh reality of life and women. Where do you find guys who aren't pussies who are aware of this stuff.
Its like the movie "The Matrix"; most people are sleeping and aren't a awake.

Why do you think that 80% of the population took the so called vaccine during this "Covid crazy period" and 20% did not?

Same thing...
The people that are awake are hard to find and a rare breed.
All you can do is to vet the people you meet and see if you "click", most people you will meet are sleepers though and believe in everything and anything society tell them.
 
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