BackInTheGame78
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I like to touch them in ways that nobody has touched them before which causes their body to do things it has never done before...I have had several women tell me I taught them things about their own body they didn't know. They told me that it both freaked them out and really turned them on that I knew those things.Re talking during sex, a few months back on a different forum there was a thread discussing talking during sex and women voicing their likes/dislikes to their partners during the sexual act.
Literally instructing their partners/boyfriends/husbands what to do, what feels good, where to touch her, do this or that, etc.
Now I can understand a man NOT going for that. One man in particular described it as her bossing him around and THAT was real turn off for him.
Other men said they loved it when “bossed” around in bed, that they’re not mind readers and appreciated being told what feels good, how to touch them “properly,” etc.
I will admit that as a woman THAT is something I have NO desire to do. “Boss” my boyfriend around in bed, telling him how to touch me "properly," where to touch me, I can’t think of a bigger turn off actually, for both of us.
To me that is HER dominating in bed and personally I prefer being dominated.
BUT, what I posted earlier and what @BackInTheGame78 posted is a whole different thing and is a total turn ON!
It’s sexy and erotic, it stimulates the mind, the brain, in elicits fantasy. I cannot imagine NOT talking or worse not being "allowed" to talk during sex.
I don’t mean nonstop chatter the entire time but a sexy, erotic word or phrase said at the appropriate time, can add so much to the experience and connection.
Like I said, when I’ve done (which is never a lie, I don’t say things if not from a genuine place) he’s turned into a sexual caveman and GOD and when HE does, my responsiveness goes through the roof as well as my ability to cvm.
It’s a mental thing, an emotional thing, a physical thing, even a spiritual thing if you believe in that, all combined into one amazing sexual experience.
Just my $.02.
That creates an almost obsession with me at times so I am careful to only do this with women that I want to foster that in.