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BackInTheGame78

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Re talking during sex, a few months back on a different forum there was a thread discussing talking during sex and women voicing their likes/dislikes to their partners during the sexual act.

Literally instructing their partners/boyfriends/husbands what to do, what feels good, where to touch her, do this or that, etc.

Now I can understand a man NOT going for that. One man in particular described it as her bossing him around and THAT was real turn off for him.

Other men said they loved it when “bossed” around in bed, that they’re not mind readers and appreciated being told what feels good, how to touch them “properly,” etc.

I will admit that as a woman THAT is something I have NO desire to do. “Boss” my boyfriend around in bed, telling him how to touch me "properly," where to touch me, I can’t think of a bigger turn off actually, for both of us.

To me that is HER dominating in bed and personally I prefer being dominated.

BUT, what I posted earlier and what @BackInTheGame78 posted is a whole different thing and is a total turn ON!

It’s sexy and erotic, it stimulates the mind, the brain, in elicits fantasy. I cannot imagine NOT talking or worse not being "allowed" to talk during sex.

I don’t mean nonstop chatter the entire time but a sexy, erotic word or phrase said at the appropriate time, can add so much to the experience and connection.

Like I said, when I’ve done (which is never a lie, I don’t say things if not from a genuine place) he’s turned into a sexual caveman and GOD and when HE does, my responsiveness goes through the roof as well as my ability to cvm.

It’s a mental thing, an emotional thing, a physical thing, even a spiritual thing if you believe in that, all combined into one amazing sexual experience.

Just my $.02. :)
I like to touch them in ways that nobody has touched them before which causes their body to do things it has never done before...I have had several women tell me I taught them things about their own body they didn't know. They told me that it both freaked them out and really turned them on that I knew those things.

That creates an almost obsession with me at times so I am careful to only do this with women that I want to foster that in.
 

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You clearly value things differently than I do, I said “my Benz” because it differentiates it from my truck in normal conversation. A Benz means nada, at least around here. It might as well be a Toyota Corolla.

I read to that point and stopped. No need to continue.

Anyway enjoy being you stud. You really honor me by paying such attention to all my posts. Wow. Like a model dude, I’m not worthy.

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you said “my Benz” because you clearly value it and means a lot to you . You know who value a lot depreciating things , the not rich people

Unfortunately for you , I know a lot rich guys . Most of them do not even know the model of the car they have . They rarely even drive a car , especially in the big cities

But guys who want to impress are totally different . Also , if you ever will have money to buy a Ferrari or something , and I really hope you will , you will notice that mainly you will have the children looking after you and the guys who are envious

I wish you to have all the richness in the world not because I am a kind soul , but because this will be a big lesson for you . That money alone will not get you laid

a luxurious and interesting lifestyle that rich people can buy , that is a total different thing . But rich people rarely buy this :)
 

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Ok I’ll bite haha.

Never said I was rich. You can buy a used Benz for less than a Corolla. I think you’re imagining things. Can you quote where I said I was affluent?

Are you OK? I’m genuinely worried about your mental status. You’ve repeatedly claimed I’ve said things I haven’t so I’m concerned.

For the record, I’ve been in the 6% category before in my life and left it behind for happiness, something you will learn is important when you mature a bit. In the meantime, check your premises.

I’m sorry your dating success is not making you happy too. I would help if I could, but you routinely reject what I’ve posted so no joy there.

I wish you peace man. I’m sure things will get better for you, after all you’re a model that knows a lot of rich people and drives a Benz - right? You’re set man. Someday it will all be yours.


you said “my Benz” because you clearly value it and means a lot to you . You know who value a lot depreciating things , the not rich people

Unfortunately for you , I know a lot rich guys . Most of them do not even know the model of the car they have . They rarely even drive a car , especially in the big cities

But guys who want to impress are totally different . Also , if you ever will have money to buy a Ferrari or something , and I really hope you will , you will notice that mainly you will have the children looking after you and the guys who are envious

I wish you to have all the richness in the world not because I am a kind soul , but because this will be a big lesson for you . That money alone will not get you laid

a luxurious and interesting lifestyle that rich people can buy , that is a total different thing . But rich people rarely buy this :)
 

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Ok I’ll bite haha.

Never said I was rich. You can buy a used Benz for less than a Corolla. I think you’re imagining things. Can you quote where I said I was affluent?

Are you OK? I’m genuinely worried about your mental status. You’ve repeatedly claimed I’ve said things I haven’t so I’m concerned.

For the record, I’ve been in the 6% category before in my life and left it behind for happiness, something you will learn is important when you mature a bit. In the meantime, check your premises.

I’m sorry your dating success is not making you happy too. I would help if I could, but you routinely reject what I’ve posted so no joy there.

I wish you peace man. I’m sure things will get better for you, after all you’re a model that knows a lot of rich people and drives a Benz - right? You’re set man. Someday it will all be yours.
what you are saying has nothing to do with what I said

the reality is that gaming good looking women is a total different ball game than banging average and ugly women

when You come and say that you act like a simp or whatever along this lines you were saying in other threads works , and then you also claim some crazy numbers . Ofc will call you on it , as I would call any other guy who claims like that . You either know something that the rest do not know , either you are full of sh1t ( like you are )

the reality is that even if a girl likes you , if she is a quality girl it is very likely to be in a relationship already . That is why it is important to have a large social circle , especially when it comes to the really good looking girls

the only way for a girl to stray( unless the relationship is almost over ) is to be super attracted to you . This rarely happens though , and when it happens it is something called love at the first sight

that is why the advice “ she either is super into me from the get go , otherwise I am gone “ is a stupid one . Because it rarely happens and you would loose a lot of opportunities

this is also why being a sexpat really works in terms of quality , because the high quality girls already have a strong social circle with guys way above your SMV . Every country no matter how poor it is will have its elite

who do you think a high value Columbian girl would prefer , a gringo that can only f8ck ugly and fat women ( if even those) and travels on budget , or some local high value guy ( who for sure would be high value in your home country ) ?
 
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You clearly lack reading comprehension skills. You’ve missed some important points. But just to start: I’m a native Spanish speaker and did not grow up in the continental United States.

Ok,ok this is way too rich for me…

You provide waaay too much entertainment for someone with some extra melatonin.

I love you man, even if you are a pendejito. I don’t care what others say about you, you’re OK in my book.



what you are saying has nothing to do with what I said

the reality is that gaming good looking women is a total different ball game than banging average and ugly women

when You come and say that you act like a simp or whatever along this lines you were saying in other threads works , and then you also claim some crazy numbers . Ofc will call you on it , as I would call any other guy who claims like that . You either know something that the rest do not know , either you are full of sh1t ( like you are )

the reality is that even if a girl likes you , if she is a quality girl it is very likely to be in a relationship already . That is why it is important to have a large social circle , especially when it comes to the really good looking girls

the only way for a girl to stray( unless the relationship is almost over ) is to be super attracted to you . This rarely happens though , and when it happens it is something called love at the first sight

that is why the advice “ she either is super into me from the get go , otherwise I am gone “ is a stupid one . Because it rarely happens and you would loose a lot of opportunities

this is also why being a sexpat really works in terms of quality , because the high quality girls already have a strong social circle with guys way above your SMV . Every country no matter how poor it is will have its elite

who do you think a high value Columbian girl would prefer , a gringo that can only f8ck ugly and fat women ( if even those) and travels on budget , or some local high value guy ( who for sure would be high value in your home country ) ?
 

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You clearly lack reading comprehension skills. You’ve missed some important points. But just to start: I’m a native Spanish speaker and did not grow up in the continental United States.

Ok,ok this is way too rich for me…

You provide waaay too much entertainment for someone with some extra melatonin.

I love you man, even if you are a pendejito. I don’t care what others say about you, you’re OK in my book.
you are the one who stared throwing insults when you could not actually say anything to argue what I am saying

the More you comment , the more you look like an impostor even for the newbies

if you want to comment retarded things , you can always go to Reddit . Really doubt that anyone there will even notice it
 

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Textbook Dunning-Krueger.

Have fun man.

you are the one who stared throwing insults when you could not actually say anything to argue what I am saying

the More you comment , the more you look like an impostor even for the newbies

if you want to comment retarded things , you can always go to Reddit . Really doubt that anyone there will even notice it
 

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And whisper dirty things in their ear like "you are so fvcking wet...I am going to make you cvm so hard on this big c0ck baby" and then nibble and lick their ear...most women love it when you talk to them while fvcking them...even the ones who look "wholesome"
LOL this is exactly what I do re dirty talk, that's how my role plays begin, sir, master, restraining, can't go wrong, everybody wins.
 

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It’s good to be confident in this way, but it’s also a dangerous ego trap that women can use to their advantage. They tell you that you’re the best and you believe it. Meanwhile, they are massively punking you and wasting your time with fantasy-creation. Women can be expert manipulators of male narcissists
That's when experience kicks in and you separate fact from fiction. I don't even believe 100% of what my LTR girlfriend tells me and she is a solid chic. Women in general like to appease and care what others thing, this is why you can't trust them 100%. They lie to the best girlfriends all the time. Their desire to please others can be stronger than their desire to tell the truth. This is a fundamental difference between men and women. Morals and values, truth are more important to men. @Pan87 has pointed out about women being amoral.
 

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That's when experience kicks in and you separate fact from fiction. I don't even believe 100% of what my LTR girlfriend tells me and she is a solid chic. Women in general like to appease and care what others thing, this is why you can't trust them 100%. They lie to the best girlfriends all the time. Their desire to please others can be stronger than their desire to tell the truth. This is a fundamental difference between men and women. Morals and values, truth are more important to men. @Pan87 has pointed out about women being amoral.
100% dead on.

Women lie as often as breathing. In their brains it isn’t even a lie. They try to twist reality to what they want it to be rather than what it is.
 
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