Female orgasm

[2Rocky]

I thrive on positive feedback in the act. and a technical ability certainly helps.

There is truth to this. Many believe, including myself, that the largest sex organ IS actually the brain.

Perhaps more so for women than men.

This is why Vacation sex is better than midweek at bedtime...Mind is present and there is less cortisol from stress.

 

[Murk]

I’m curious, is this rare? I don’t give it a second thought it just happens?

For my girl yes, all women are different.

open honest convos surrounding sex and orgasm and requirements are needed in a relationship.

outside Idgaf unless she’s hot af and I wanna make an impression

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Then I'm a beta. It's my stance that sex is both parties' responsibility. Men with the "the devil could care less" attitudes are why I've widowed so many.

Caring about female orgasms is beta (ironically, not caring about making her cvm makes her cvm).

 

[Bigpapa]

We all know some *** from penetration (rare, great if you can secure one as it makes life easy) but most need ****oral or g spot stimulation.

In relationships (none could come from penetration), I tend to make a girl *** first and then fvck them, the pvssy is swollen/tighter, wetter, just feels better for both and they see you as a guy that can sexually satisfy them. However, this is tedious and I only do it 30-50% of the time, the other half I just get head or go straight to sex.

I'm interested to see if you guys care, or put effort into a woman having an orgasm. Do you have tips/methods? I find slowly stroking the **** then changing to fast vibrating does the trick, asking what they want and just persisting. After a few go-arounds, I find their orgasm comes quicker, maybe more mentally relaxed, can get it one in 2-3 mins.

moan slightly yourself , and tell her how good you feel

you stimulate her mind . The mind is the key to orgasms

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

moan slightly yourself , and tell her how good you feel

you stimulate her mind . The mind is the key to orgasms

A+++

I cannot tell you how many first time partners have told me “your so expressive and encouraging, the feedback I get from you makes me want to do things with you I’ve never cared to do or have done.”

Say what you will guys, I get laid like tile. YMMV.

 

[DonJuanjr]

A+++

I cannot tell you how many first time partners have told me “your so expressive and encouraging, the feedback I get from you makes me want to do things with you I’ve never cared to do or have done.”

Say what you will guys, I get laid like tile. YMMV.

My ex-fwb said, "I like that you moan. Most guys are quiet as a mouse. I'm like, "are you having a good time" haha."

 

[DonJuanjr]

Don’t fall into that. If she says “I like how you moan” - she’s focused on how her femininity is turning you on. You actually need her to be asking you if you like her etc.

When a woman really likes you then she starts to worry that her pvssy isn’t good enough for you. You need to flip the frame when she says “I like how you XYZ (perform for me)” - you need to take the frame away and say “shut your child mouth. Daddy says No Talking”

If you let the woman have the frame during sex, she tends to enjoy it less. Dun ask me why. But when I’m lazy I sometimes let women run the frame and “talk” during sex. It never leads to anything good. You need to write the fantasy that she inhabits. It sounds hell strict but if you want to be good in bed you have to be a bit psycho by mainstream standards.

To be clear, this wasn't during sex. She said that during a break. I had frame during all sexual interactions with her.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

I appreciate that that is your experience, it’s just not mine. And I have been with myriad women who have not, before me been capable of PiV orgasms, and many other things. Our experiences do not need to be the same.

I’ve widowed my share, and that’s ok for me, whether or not you believe it to be the case.

And trust me I enjoy the hell out ofthe act, even more so than my own culmination.

That’s what we like to think. But unless you’re the first guy to make her cvm, giving a woman an orgasm doesn’t give you nearly the power or alpha-widowing you desire.

My point actually is that, if a woman really likes you, she tends to have orgasms without you doing much. This is because the entire idea of you really makes her hot.

It’s just a nicer experience for her, rather than a guy who’s like “imma make you cvm, baby. Dats right. Cvm. You ever felt it baby? Da orgasmz? Dats right. I make-y you orgasm.”

She’s like “cool” and rolls her eyes inwardly. And she might enjoy it. But making a woman cvm, before focusing on whether she likes you or not, isn’t the best approach.

I’d recommend to just focus on enjoying the sex when you’re having it. Focus on your own d1ck. I find that focusing on whether the other person enjoys it makes my performance weaker. It’s more self conscious. The key is - enjoy the sex, bang her how you want to and be free about it. If she like-y you then she’s going to have orgasms directly onto your chode. No toys, tongues or g-spot tickling needed.

 

[derby1]

I almost always take the time and make sure they *** from oral stimulation. It pays dividends. You end up being the best she has ever had if you know what youre doing. Women will hold you in high regard if you rank high in the bedroom. @BackInTheGame78 explained the process very well.

this hits the nail on the head, I can only presume Ive watched too much porn, and most men are actually useless in bed. (I imagine women being railed out, but its simply not true)

I have concentrated on the woman first for the last 3 plates, they all blow my phone up, its a very good feeling.

I took one in my bathroon the other day, and she peed on my **** in the shower, which is extremely erotic, and gives her a bit of a power trip.

then she started to ride me, and squirted twice, I havent really experienced this much it was a good feeling to see her enjoy it.

Ive also introduced a budget pair of bed restraints, and using eye liner to write on their body, you must excite them to write on yours too.

they love it

 

[derby1]

My emotions also play a huge role.

this is important i know a guy hung like a wilderbeast but the women dont return to him much, even though they sound like theyre having the time of their life ( he used to flat share with me)

getting her soul is the true 12"

 

[Murk]

OP - Female sexual enjoyment is primarily psychological. Something men often can’t relate to because we love the actual act of sex, minus context, more than women do.

Figure this out. Why is it that a girl who really likes you apparently cvms really easily, without needing to tickle her g-spot on use a buzzsaw on her cl1t?

The answer is - female orgasms are mostly in her brain.

It’s why the slvt with an angle grinder on her pvssy can’t cvm for simps. But she meets a guy she likes and suddenly cvmming is very easy for her.

Moral of the story:

Learn Game and learn how to turn women on and they will have orgasms very soon after you put your d1ck in her. You don’t need a suitcase full of toys and simping g-spot obsessions.

I’m fully aware of this, I know mental connection is a massive factor, because I feel it myself. I know after I’m fvcking a b1tch for a while I can make her nut in 1-2 minutes.

I’m just curious and asking for opinions. Deep down it’s not that important to me. I’ve smashed 26 different women in a calendar year, I’m not on this forum for pick up or game advice, never have been.

 

[Murk]

this is important i know a guy hung like a wilderbeast but the women dont return to him much, even though they sound like theyre having the time of their life ( he used to flat share with me)

getting her soul is the true 12"

There is such a thing as too big. If your massive then it hurts girls and takes the relaxed pleasure of sex away. I know because I’ve asked girls and had this convo. My d is described as big and thick but not so big it constantly hurts, that’s perfect for me. 9” horsecock ain’t all it’s cracked up to be, imagine going balls deep and hammering away and the b1tch is wincing in agony. I’ve experienced hurting girls myself when I’m hitting the back and it’s really off putting. Or maybe huge d1cks are great and I’m just trying to make myself feel better

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

It takes all types, and the woman dictates a portion of the equation as well. The vaginal canal can vary significantly in internal diameter and length. Unfortunately, there are no quantitative markers for this externally; it must be experienced firsthand. Age, number of children, and ethnicity have no real bearing (although Asian girls tend to be squeaky sometimes). I’ve had three lovers that were close to painful (for me) to penetrate - one was in her 50’s, natural blonde, had two kids, and was 5’11”, and her partner count was in the mid-teens, one was her late thirties, 5’2 and Japanese - very voluptuously built, two kids, had only had three previous sexual partners and the last was 19 at the time, 5’10”, blasian, very curvy and a body count of around 20.

If you have enough experience, you can adjust to long or short and still deliver an outstanding rogering. If one is on the more generous side size-wise, teasing foreplay can make things work well for a female because, during arousal, the mouth of the cervix moves upwards (superiority) and makes room to the point of being able to accommodate a more sizable male. Also, as arousal intensifies, so does a female's pain threshold.

I cannot imagine that being ridiculously bigger than the lion's share of men would be advantageous for PiV sex, and how boring would it be not to be able to thrust to one’s pubic symphysis - at least for me. It’s the easiest way to impress if your pubic bone is smashing or grinding into hers; it makes her feel like you’re turning her inside out, and many women love that. Most generously endowed men learn to manage things if they care about a partner’s comfort. Some females love getting their cervixes hammered- others will get up and walk away or power through it. It can put them out of action for a week if you’re not mindful.

I’m sure plenty of folks will start attacking what I’ve said so far, and that’s fine; it’s a cope. Men who don’t care about a woman’s experience abound. Frankly, I believe that it’s because they don’t have what it takes in terms of analytical thinking, the ability to adjust, or the will to make changes to improve. I speak of what works for me and should for most. If that’s you, I want to thank you, you’ve helped me achieve legendary status among my partners, and they always circle back even once partnered up because no one else can deliver according to them.

There’s been much said about the subject, and I’m sure most men are versed on it in some ways.

IME, learning how to angle, rhythm, and pitch can make you the best a woman has experienced; yes, there needs to be a minimum threshold of size achieved. I’m a good 20% better than what is considered average, so it’s a starting point, but I’ve proven through trials that I could achieve most of what I do being of average size. Let’s say I’m somewhere between “that’ll work” and omg get the hell away from me!”.

Call me Beta all ya want bro’s. It’s a good thing it’s my life and not yours. Learning female anatomy is a game changer. When you hear her say “omg you know my body better than i do!”, you’ll know you’ve arrived.

There is such a thing as too big. If you are massive then it hurts girls and takes the relaxed pleasure of sex away. I know because I’ve asked girls and had this convo. My d is described as big and thick but not so big it constantly hurts, that’s perfect for me. 9” horsecock ain’t all it’s cracked up to be, imagine going balls deep and hammering away and the b1tch is wincing in agony. I’ve experienced hurting girls myself when I’m hitting the back and it’s really off putting. Or maybe huge d1cks are great and I’m just trying to make myself feel better

 

[Bigpapa]

Have you ever considered that she’s lying?

“You’re the first guy to ever make me cvm”

It’s on par with “you’re the biggest d1ck I’ve ever felt in my pvssy”

Women are great actors. And they know that men are hugely egotistical when it comes to sex - “huge d1ck” and “I’ve never cvm before meeting you” are standard female PUA lines.

plus , by telling this women also subcommunicates that she slept with a few guys only

 

[Bigpapa]

It’s unique to sex. I generally enjoy talking with women and having balanced discussions outside sex.

But during sex, to ensure she’s having a good experience, you have to run the fantasy (as the guy). All women want to be heavily dominated during sex if it’s the right guy whom she admires and respects.

What happens is the woman fully submits during sex and goes into a sex trance. She’s not really capable of saying “I like how you moan” or pillow talk etc - she goes into ga-ga baby talk jibberish. This is where, like a strict parent, you take her back to her toddler years by running a strict sexual frame.

I think it’s often been said that women are like children. I regularly see that during sex women will turn into a baby.

very well spot with the domination

never met a girl that did not like being chocked

 

[Bigpapa]

Yes. Women have Game too. Female games usually revolve around lying to you, inflating your ego, and laughing at you quietly. Women are extremely mischievous - that’s why Dark Triad Men and Women get along so well.

If you think about it , this is also how male game works too . Inflating her ego , lying about different stuff , etc

I think that women actually believe when they say it , while guys do it knowing exactly what they do

women are not Machiavellic , I think that they are more chaotic and can easily change their mind based on the emotions they feel

 

[Bigpapa]

Here’s what I’ve discovered - Women are just amoral. They will do things like lie if they think it’s benefits their position. They do know that they are lying, but they don’t care if it benefits them. That’s what amoral is

It’s just how they are. I run experiments on it all the time. One experiment is I like to tell women that all men should pay a tax that goes directly into women’s bank account. This will address the gender inequalities in the world.

99.9% of women will agree with me (all Men should pay tax directly to Women). And they are not agreeing because of “gender inequalities” but because “more money” - women are amoral and, thus, have a huge advantage over moral men. Women are not fair, they choose what’s best for them and their kids always. Complete rational solipsism. Men don’t understand this.

Dark Triad Men run the world. Below them is a matrix of amoral women and moral men who are getting gutter-stomped by them. That’s why you don’t let women talk during sex. Women’s words are utterly meaningless in relationship to sex - she’s too dark triad by nature.

yeah ,female are amoral for sure . But more as they get older . When they are younger they are naive

just like men are

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Of course I have, but when she’s flustered, crying and or otherwise incapacitated or freaked out it’s probably not the case.

it’s all good man I know how you feel about this. And as I read more and more of your postings I’m finding more in common with you but we have some fundamental points that we disagree on and that’s just fine.

Have you ever considered that she’s lying?

“You’re the first guy to ever make me cvm”

It’s on par with “you’re the biggest d1ck I’ve ever felt in my pvssy”

Women are great actors. And they know that men are hugely egotistical when it comes to sex - “huge d1ck” and “I’ve never cvm before meeting you” are standard female PUA lines.

 

[Bigpapa]

I’ve been told, and observed myself, that women actually develop their dark triad manipulation abilities from quite a young age - she will start by trying to manipulate her father.

Women are vulnerable when they are young to being pumped and dumped because they don’t know what being pumped and dumped feels like, and the residual sadness and emotional scars. But after she experiences it a few times she usually tries her best to avoid it again.

All children try to manipulate their children

the thing with women if you really want to know what they actually find attractive , you have to observe the high school - college girls

they value mainly looks , dominant and a protective guy ( as they try to find a daddy substitute )

Anything else kinda is nice to have , not necessarily mandatory

Sure , other girls might value brains over the athlete , but both guys have to be dominant in whatever they do . Either socially like the athletic guy or in the classroom like the smart guy

then as she grows older she realizes that money and other stuff are important for survival . But this are not turn on

 

[Bigpapa]

Excuse me @Pan but haven't you admitted to doing same?

Lying to women to achieve your goal of getting them into bed? Telling them you're seeking a relationship? When you know it's only gonna be a ONS?

You've admitted to it, you've also admitted to being a narcissist and sociopath.

Like attracts like, so it's no wonder the women you encounter are also amoral.

Look, I'm gonna leave this thread because I do like you (as you know) and don't want to start a war.

But that's why I said it sounded like you were projecting.

If I misunderstood, I apologize.

Ciao.

most women are amoral . Not from the get go though , just that the more they live the more they become more orientated towards the objective .And they would do anything to achieve that , including lying . Guys are the same