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We all know some *** from penetration (rare, great if you can secure one as it makes life easy) but most need ****oral or g spot stimulation.

In relationships (none could come from penetration), I tend to make a girl *** first and then fvck them, the pvssy is swollen/tighter, wetter, just feels better for both and they see you as a guy that can sexually satisfy them. However, this is tedious and I only do it 30-50% of the time, the other half I just get head or go straight to sex.

I'm interested to see if you guys care, or put effort into a woman having an orgasm. Do you have tips/methods? I find slowly stroking the **** then changing to fast vibrating does the trick, asking what they want and just persisting. After a few go-arounds, I find their orgasm comes quicker, maybe more mentally relaxed, can get it one in 2-3 mins.
 

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We all know some *** from penetration (rare, great if you can secure one as it makes life easy) but most need ****oral or g spot stimulation.

In relationships (none could come from penetration), I tend to make a girl *** first and then fvck them, the pvssy is swollen/tighter, wetter, just feels better for both and they see you as a guy that can sexually satisfy them. However, this is tedious and I only do it 30-50% of the time, the other half I just get head or go straight to sex.

I'm interested to see if you guys care, or put effort into a woman having an orgasm. Do you have tips/methods? I find slowly stroking the **** then changing to fast vibrating does the trick, asking what they want and just persisting. After a few go-arounds, I find their orgasm comes quicker, maybe more mentally relaxed, can get it one in 2-3 mins.
Yeah, I try to make them cvm as often as possible...or until it becomes too much for them.

And my first goal is always to get them to squirt. If a woman has never done it before you become #1 on her list just from that. It's like an orgasm times 100.

Easiest way it to turn your palm up, insert one or two fingers(I usually start with one and then bring the second one in once I get it loosened up a little), and search for the spongy area on the right side of her wall... you'll know when you hit it, it feels differently. Keep hitting that area over and over again with a motion as if you are telling them to "come here" with your fingers.

If you do this right, they will have an ear shattering orgasm and most likely will squirt. Do not believe a woman who claims she can't squirt. I have made at least 12 or 13 women squirt who claimed they couldn't and their reactions were priceless.

One asked me what was happening to her and then I just kept going and it was like a geyser and she was like "Oh my God! Oh my God! What just happened...what just happened!" and was a little freaked out about it but said it felt better than anything ever...

Rubbing on their **** properly will also make most women cvm hard...rub in a circular motion with a little pressure but not too much...I tend to start a little firmer and if it gets too intense or too much she will let you know and you can do it lighter...also gives you a chance to talk sh!t in their ear to them and tell them to stroke your c0ck...

And your tongue is always good as well...I like tracing the alphabet forwards and backwards on their **** along with nibbling the inside of their thighs every so often...it drives them wild...you should be able to tell when they are about to cvm because their **** will get really swollen and then I like fingering them hard which usually causes them to squirt and sometimes spray up into the air and I tell them to catch it on their tongue
 

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@Hamurabimbi Hit the mail on the head. It’s not a mechanical thing.

My youngest ex (was 21 at the time) had a massive squirting orgasm just 20 seconds into the first time I penetrated her. Only foreplay was a couple minutes of making out. No special technique.

I had one plate that had violent orgasms through vaginal sex every single time like clockwork. Sometimes right as I was taking it out. It was fun.
 

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I almost always take the time and make sure they *** from oral stimulation. It pays dividends. You end up being the best she has ever had if you know what youre doing. Women will hold you in high regard if you rank high in the bedroom. @BackInTheGame78 explained the process very well.
 

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I almost always take the time and make sure they *** from oral stimulation. It pays dividends. You end up being the best she has ever had if you know what youre doing. Women will hold you in high regard if you rank high in the bedroom. @BackInTheGame78 explained the process very well.
While I don’t disagree completely, this has just as
much to do with her past than your performance. It’s high score theory.

One can have good technique but if she’s taken 100 dvcks your chances of being her best are nil.
 

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Yeah, I try to make them cvm as often as possible...or until it becomes too much for them.

And my first goal is always to get them to squirt. If a woman has never done it before you become #1 on her list just from that. It's like an orgasm times 100.

Easiest way it to turn your palm up, insert one or two fingers(I usually start with one and then bring the second one in once I get it loosened up a little), and search for the spongy area on the right side of her wall... you'll know when you hit it, it feels differently. Keep hitting that area over and over again with a motion as if you are telling them to "come here" with your fingers.

If you do this right, they will have an ear shattering orgasm and most likely will squirt. Do not believe a woman who claims she can't squirt. I have made at least 12 or 13 women squirt who claimed they couldn't and their reactions were priceless.

One asked me what was happening to her and then I just kept going and it was like a geyser and she was like "Oh my God! Oh my God! What just happened...what just happened!" and was a little freaked out about it but said it felt better than anything ever...

Rubbing on their **** properly will also make most women cvm hard...rub in a circular motion with a little pressure but not too much...I tend to start a little firmer and if it gets too intense or too much she will let you know and you can do it lighter...also gives you a chance to talk sh!t in their ear to them and tell them to stroke your c0ck...

And your tongue is always good as well...I like tracing the alphabet forwards and backwards on their **** along with nibbling the inside of their thighs every so often...it drives them wild...you should be able to tell when they are about to cvm because their **** will get really swollen and then I like fingering them hard which usually causes them to squirt and sometimes spray up into the air and I tell them to catch it on their tongue
A fellow connoisseur, I've NEVER made a girl squirt. They get to the "I need to get up and pee" stage from the g spot aggressive fingering, I tell them let it happen, they never want to, they've never squirted. I'm going to insist they persist and squirt you've given me a new lease of life in this aspect.

Regarding mouth on **** - I don't do any particular motion, I go based on what they like, and they all like different, my ex loved slow circular around the ****, current gf likes the sides of the ****.

Also, sucking/kissing the sides of the vag, labia, each side, each side of her inner thigh, don't go for the **** straight away, 1-2 mins of foreplay before you get to the **** = 1-2 mins until orgasm.
 
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Going down delays their inevitable loss of interest.
 
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If she's a grateful one, going down on her will net you some much needed surprise BJ's in the morning

I've read on here many many years ago to draw the alphabet with your tongue and then do it again backwards. One of the best advice I've gotten here.
 
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A fellow connoisseur, I've NEVER made a girl squirt. They get to the "I need to get up and pee" stage from the g spot aggressive fingering, I tell them let it happen, they never want to, they've never squirted. I'm going to insist they persist and squirt you've given me a new lease of life in this aspect.

Regarding mouth on **** - I don't do any particular motion, I go based on what they like, and they all like different, my ex loved slow circular around the ****, current gf likes the sides of the ****.

Also, sucking/kissing the sides of the vag, labia, each side, each side of her inner thigh, don't go for the **** straight away, 1-2 mins of foreplay before you get to the **** = 1-2 mins until orgasm.
Tell them to close their eyes and take some deep breaths...then tell them how it's going to feel like an orgasm times 100 and how they will be seeing stars afterwards and how they are going to feel more amazing than they have ever felt before...

You have to make them feel safe with you and get them to trust you to lead them through this experience
 

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I made my girl nut today only from penetration, such a fulfilling feeling.

I'm going to try the squirting tomorrow, I have told girls to relax and push through the need to get up and pee but they never do. My plan is to let her know I'm changing all the sheets so it's fine, make her squirt, blow her back out, pad my self-confidence.
 

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There was discussion awhile back on a another thread about squirting and I uploaded a couple of articles from medical websites such as WebMD explaining what squirting actually is and what triggers it.

They all said just what you and another poster described, during vigorous sexual activity (fvcking) something gets triggered in a woman's bladder and she has this urge to pee.

If she doesn't pee, she will squirt sometimes quite heavily.

What the squirt actually is is a mix of urine and ***. Sometimes it's not even *** if she doesn't orgasm, just urine and other internal material.

In porn, it's exaggerated for dramatic intent.

I'm just the messenger guys, it's what I've read from several different medical sources.
I'm fully aware it's just piss, the female anotomy doesn't have testicles for them to ejeculate.

My question to you is, is it worth it? If a guy made you squirt who you rate him more? Is it an other worldly experience like the @EyeBRollin says? Is the juice worth the squeeze is my question
 

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I'm interested to see if you guys care, or put effort into a woman having an orgasm.
Yes, I care about it and put effort into it. Approaching and seducing is a big effort. Because approaching and seducing are such a big effort, I want to have sex with a woman more than one time. I believe that I can retain a woman for a longer period of time if the sex is enjoyable for them. A woman having an orgasm is good for them. If I fucck them good, they are more likely to respond to texts after sex and keep seeing me.

I prefer it when the woman has a vaginal orgasm from intercourse. Giving a woman an orgasm via oral sex is good, but giving her an orgasm via vaginal sex is better.
 

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I made my girl nut today only from penetration, such a fulfilling feeling.
I’m curious, is this rare? I don’t give it a second thought it just happens?
 

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I also believe that you and I discussed it . It’s clear fluid, it’s colorless and lacks any scent of urea.

And don’t worry most women have said to me “holy shyt what was that?!?” “I thought that was porn bullshyte!”. The reactions vary widely, some folks get upset and cry after they stop shaking, other need an explayo what just occured, some are terrified.

Just because there are naysayers does t mean it does not happen. We know more about the surface of Mars than we do about female sexuality…

There was discussion awhile back on a another thread about squirting and I uploaded a couple of articles from medical websites such as WebMD explaining what squirting actually is and what triggers it.

They all said just what you and another poster described, during vigorous sexual activity (fvcking) something gets triggered in a woman's bladder and she has this urge to pee.

If she doesn't pee, she will squirt sometimes quite heavily.

What the squirt actually is is a mix of urine and ***. Sometimes it's not even *** if she doesn't orgasm, just urine and other internal material.

In porn, it's exaggerated for dramatic intent.

I'm just the messenger guys, it's what I've read from several different medical sources.
 

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The fluids you may encounter in the female vulva:
1) vaginal lubrication - Consistency of watery mucus from Bartholin's glands
2) Skene gland discharge - Squirt




Vaginal ejaculation begins in the paraurethral Skene’s glands, named after the 19th century Scottish gynecologist Alexander Skene. Skene’s glands lay directly beside the urethra, below the ****oris and above the opening of the vagina. Skene’s glands serve as secretory organs and function identically to the prostate, including the emission of prostate-specific antigen (PSA) and prostatic acid phosphatase (PAP), which are often found at elevated levels in people with prostate cancer.
Structurally, Skene’s glands are a smaller twin of the prostate gland and function in much the same way. Some people’s Skene’s glands are more developed than others, which can affect whether or not an external opening to the glands is present, if the glands are able to secrete fluid and the amount of fluid able to be secreted. People who experience vaginal ejaculation (perhaps more accurately called “Skene’s gland ejaculation”) have developed Skene’s glands that have direct external openings or openings into the urethra, have the ability to collect and ejaculate prostate fluid, and can become stimulated during sexual activity to release during orgasm. Contrary to popular belief, there is no evidence that the Skene’s glands are in any way associated with the G-spot or the intense sexual pleasure that can accompany stimulation of the prostate gland. When a person with developed Skene’s glands becomes aroused, prostate fluid collects in the glands, which can then contract during orgasm and cause ejaculation.
There’s a popular myth — it seems to be particularly rampant in fratboy circles — that vaginal ejaculate is nothing more than pee. The myth became so popular, it seems, that academia finally picked up on it and published an article in the Journal of Sexual Medicine titled “Female ejaculation orgasm vs. coital incontinence: a systematic review.”
Published in 2013, the article successfully informs its audience of literally everything anyone ever needed to know about vaginal ejaculation, all in the span of 10 pages. As much as it pains me to say this, the frat myth about pee is not completely incorrect.
The tidal waves of clear liquid produced by the pornographic phenomenon of “squirting” or “gushing” are indeed made up of a solution that contains urine. However, the fluid also contains prostate fluid and vaginal discharge, and the emission from the bladder is not your traditional yellow pee. Instead, prostate fluid, vaginal discharge and vestiges of urine merge to form a new ejaculated solution, which contains less urea, uric acid and creatine than urine, but more sodium and potassium than prostate fluid. Thus, vaginal ejaculate consists of what the article calls “an altered form of urine,” which combines emissions from the Skene’s glands, the bladder and the vagina itself. Typically, the Skene’s glands secrete up to 50 milliliters of fluid, whereas the liquid from “squirting” can reach volumes of up to 900 milliliters. Furthermore, chemical analysis of the ejaculated liquid reveals that PSA and PAP secretions from the Skene’s glands are present in the solution, which further disproves the theory that the ejaculate is pure urine.




3) urine from the Bladder that is expressed as the abdominal muscles contract during orgasm and force liquid out through an already constricted urethra sphincter.
 

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