A lot of evil things are normalized in this world. But we can always have a choice and we have to live with that since it's done.
So what did you end up doing?
I agree. I never ever said it was right. I don't promote it. I am saying that as a man you need to come up with a strategy to cope with the reality that this behavior is prevalent. In my original post I gave 2 strategies that a man can employ.
Exactly! This is what I was trying to explain. I was not as eloquent. This is the point of the original post. We cant own them via a social construct. It will never work. Its probably best to have a " live and let live attitude". These friends that are in the " live and let live group" seem to be more successful. They dont go looking for trouble unless its totally obvious. They are also cultivating options on their side just in case.
The problem with this line of thinking is that “Group 1” creates a self-fulfilling prophecy. It’s like saying that people will commit crimes anyway, so let’s get rid of laws that prohibit murder and theft.
I hear ya man. But whats the alternative to group 1 thinking? There is no good alternative if the culture itself does not back you up. The culture does not back you up, the government does not back you up, the girls own parents dont even back you up. So enforcing strict boundaries on modern American women is almost futile ( if they are hot). It works until it does not.
Newsflash you silly nerd. Suburban girls are the sluttiest of all the girls. Its not a race thing. Its just that the suburban girls have totally been indoctrinated with this progressive " my body my choice" sex positive culture. You keep saying only traphouse ( aka black women) cheat. If you actually had real world experience you would know that black chicks are actually very difficult to sleep with unless you are a specific type. Your game has to be air tight to get a hot black girl. They are very mean if your game is not tight. But again you dont actually talk to women so this is new to you.
I don’t think it’s quite that extreme. Cheating is still not considered socially acceptable even if it is more common. I don’t think it’s healthy to approach every relationship thinking that she’s going to cheat anyway. But you MUST be willing to walk away immediately if you find out that you can’t trust her.
With the hot GenZ and millenial girls it is pretty extreme. Ask them to see their phone if you dont believe. They will rather die than to give you the phone. But yeh i agree with you bro. All im saying is that its more common then men want to admit. Its because we are the true romantics. Not women.
You are arguing straw men again.
I think you're a bit too doom and gloom. No b!tch is going to cheat unless they don't care about you or they will think you'd put up with that type of behavior. In either sense, you should just get a better picker.
Ok lets say you are bro. You may be right. But what do you make of the 53% infidelity self reporting of women?
53%... That's a bit high. Most females would not take a chance if they have something that is good and secure. However, the failure rate of relationships and cheating is significantly higher with black females than any other race. If you are dating black females, then I can see why you would be having the issue.
Yes black men do cheat a lot. Our culture as black men is one that uses women to validate our manhood. Look at how hypersexual hip hop is. We also come from polyamorous African tribal roots.
I have never explicitly been cheated on. I dont usually stay in relationships past 1 yr. I did have a BPD chick make arrangements to cheat on me that ultimately failed.
Women are monogamous to a guy she loves and respects. She is not going to look for other options unless she thinks your're not the best she can get. If you show unattractive traits, she is more likely to look for others.
