This is pure anecdotal bs tbh. Every time I go out I don't look interested...even to bars with friends...naturally bc I have rbf and I'm really laid back and aloof. And women literally never notice. Women can sense if they think you're attractive. That's it. They don't have some magical sense....if they did they wouldn't even up with abusers, *******s, wife beaters, etc. They just have eyes and want what they find attractive, whether you look interested or not.
I identify. There have been times I've felt that way.
I'm probably in the 6-7 range overall. Definitely above average in looks but not top tier. I'm not a 6'4" guy with big muscles. I'm not an acne ridden neckbeard omega. I'm a guy with normal weight and not with gigantic muscles. 5'10" too, which is meh.
That's the thing...it feels like if you're not at least an 8 you might as well be a 4 or whatever. I'm 6'3 with a lean, trim frame and I accenuate it with the clothes I wear as I take fashion and grooming very seriously. From the neck down I look great in anything I wear, but my face is nothing to write home about, I'm not buff AT ALL and my personality doesn't match my clothes bc I'm an introvert.
Wow! You're 6'3". That's a huge advantage.
If you have good facial aesthetics it doesn't matter if you're 5'8...that's physically more important than anything. I would easily trade inches of my height for a better face. I say that as someone who's tall and in shape and dresses like a rock star and it's still moot...let a lone for a dude that's tall and fat and/or ugly.
People seem to think I am pessimistic when I say this and maybe this is worthy of its own thread but very few guys are actually a fit in doing well with game. It is tough as hell to be that guy who somewhat regularly gets laid with decent looking women. You have to be in shape, financially well off enough (a job that can grant you a decent pad with good logistics in a big city and some disposable income), and then on top of all of that, somehow dedicate time during your week to approach.
Before my wife, I dated plenty of white women.
Wrong. Every woman I know wants 6'0 tall dude or taller. It's literally a requirement. Being tall is a cheat code.
Umm...no. im tall, so I would know. How many of those women are actually with a tall guy? It's only a requirement for superficial IG models. Also they don't speak for women collectively. Being tall is like being a woman with a big rack. Everyone says they want it, but in most cases it's just a platitude. It's a cheat code if you're good-looking and tall. Or shredded and tall. Or rich and tall. Not just tall. It's just a buffer. Nothing more. Having a great face or being rich is a cheat code. The only people who think it's some huge advantage are people who aren't tall.
Of course it's part luck, but to say being more fit, better dressed, more charming, don't increase your chances is an obvious mistake. Those things make or break interactions. I know what you mean about women being jaded and acting like royalty, but you simply skip over these women as lost, not waste time biitching about it on public forums like a cuck.
Im willing to bet you have no social networks to meet women through. And when i say social networks, im not talking about the stuff that guys parrot on the internet for you to "do". Im talking about the way people actually meet - acquaintances who simply invite their male and female acquaintances to social gatherings, you being one of those invited.
As we know there's a power imbalance in the dating world between men and women. One of the causes is male thirst and how it manifests, in the form of simping, both online and in the real world. Simping behaviour is extremely detrimental to men because it causes women to have overinflated self-esteem. This is partially why women try to shoot out of their league, online and in the real world.
Most simps are mentally ill. They're exploited and brainwashed and they don't really have shame...they're simps lol. They can't be reasoned with. Too much first world feminism and isolation has caused this. It's going to take wayyyyy more than insults. They're indoctrinated. It's like shaming a religious person or a different political party. It's pissing in the wind....tbh they need to be culled.
Women do love attention....from men they find attractive. If not, they abhor it. Just like guys...but much more so bc they get it so often. If you're hitting of a chick at work you'd better be pretty high tier. If you look like Harry Styles or something you're all set. If not? Lol.
