How to win in life ?

[Zincsaurav]

i know this topic is extremly vague but i am in my late teens and i want to live my life to the fullest . So any tips

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Work hard, be open to learn a lot (By yourself which promotes your progress/interest you; not what they tell you in school), don't settle for a 8-17 job or work in dead-end jobs, be your own and don't follow the sheep herd, don't be afraid to take risks and have a lot of grit:

Good luck @Zincsaurav !

 

[Anti-Simp Equation]

Study Kobe Bryant and Thanos. Their focus on obtaining the goal was insane.

 

[Xenom0rph]

If I could go back in time the number 1 thing I would tell myself is: Get everything done as soon as possible. Because you never know when life will throw you a curve ball that will set you back a decade.

Get your education done ASAP.
Get your foot in the working world ASAP.
Build an investment portfolio ASAP
Buy your first home ASAP.

 

[DoubleBarrel]

What does it mean to you to win in life? Accumulate a fortune and have as much sex as possible -- or achieve happiness and peace of mind?

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Lie about Pump and dumping girls on the internet

hold masculine frame

Hype up crypto and the trades

 

[Zincsaurav]

What does it mean to you to win in life? Accumulate a fortune and have as much sex as possible -- or achieve happiness and peace of mind?

Cant we have both ?

 

[AureliusMaximus]

If I could go back in time the number 1 thing I would tell myself is: Get everything done as soon as possible. Because you never know when life will throw you a curve ball that will set you back a decade.

Get your education done ASAP.
Get your foot in the working world ASAP.
Build an investment portfolio ASAP
Buy your first home ASAP.

That's a solid suggestion too.

Start as early as you can with your business (If you want that), or your career. The younger the better and listen to smarter people than yourself that have experience in what they talk about.

Don't go to the plumber asking for advice to bake a bread and vice versa the baker on how to fix your leaking water pipes. Talk to the right people in other words that know and have experienced what they talk about.

 

[DoubleBarrel]

Cant we have both ?

Yes, we can. However, it is rare for a rich man to be at peace with himself and the world. He invests his efforts into accumulating money instead of mastering his mind, both of which call for large investments of time. I have yet to meet a rich, peaceful man, and I've interviewed many multi-millionaires in my life. But it is possible.

Will you please define for me what it means for you to win in life.

 

[Zincsaurav]

Yes, we can. However, it is rare for a rich man to be at peace with himself and the world. He invests his efforts into accumulating money instead of mastering his mind, both of which call for large investments of time. I have yet to meet a rich, peaceful man, and I've interviewed many multi-millionaires in my life. But it is possible.

Will you please define for me what it means for you to win in life.

I think for me personally winning in life means that i have a good amount of money ( not billionaires or millkonaires but enough for me to live a quality of life ) and being healthy both physically and mentally . Building a body that i am proud of . Having success with women and enjoying life.and also have good relationship within my circle.

 

[eli77]

Never ever stop reading get rid of your loser friends and don't have a kid until at least 40 trust me when you go to your high school reunion you remember this post

 

[Travel memoir21]

Never ever stop reading get rid of your loser friends and don't have a kid until at least 40 trust me when you go to your high school reunion you remember this post

I have my 20 year high school reunion in a few years. What can I expect?

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Never ever stop reading get rid of your loser friends and don't have a kid until at least 40 trust me when you go to your high school reunion you remember this post

this loo

 

[Modern Man Advice]

i know this topic is extremly vague but i am in my late teens and i want to live my life to the fullest . So any tips

I can tell you this from a business perspective but it applies to life just the same: Start With Why

I learned this through a book I read with that same name (reading is one of my daily habits).

To illustrate my point, in business, many companies focus on the "what" aka the product or service. However, to really build momentum and have exponential and substantial growth a company cannot rely on just the what. There needs to be a vision, mission, a purpose aka a WHY.

In life, many people simply focus on the day-to-day. They merely survive, not thrive. There are various factors to this such as social conformity, engineered modern distractions (video games, sports, porn, social media, world events, etc, etc, etc, etc), among many others. Rarely are people aligned with their purpose in life, their reason for being, and even more rarely walking that path.

So simply start with WHY. Discover and know your unique purpose. This starts with knowing yourself. However, this isn't an easy task (and thankfully it is not otherwise it wouldn't be fulfilling). You being so young, the best perspective you can gain in life will be through traveling and immersing in other cultures and realities. Your growth will be significantly hindered if you keep yourself nursed in a safe bubble.

With that, you can then set and expand on life habits (reading, meditation, exercise, writing, networking, etc, etc) that over time will simply guide your life in the right direction.

Last but not least, remember this (something I learned volunteering at a nursing home): When that time comes laying on your death bed, no car, job, raise, salary, house, p***y will matter. The people in your life will matter. How you impacted those around you will matter. So think hard about what that moment might look like for you, and reverse engineer your life.

I will leave you with some of the articles that can elaborate on some of the points I made above:

Start With Why | Wellness & Self Development | Modern Man Advice

We often focus on the ‘how’ and ‘what’ of our dreams and goals but never think about the ‘why’ of what we do in life and business.

www.modernmanadvice.com

Social Conformity: Escaping Informational & Normative Conformity | Modern Man Advice

Men are social beings. It is simply in our nature. When we belong to a group we find both comfort and a sense of security.

www.modernmanadvice.com

The Art Of Hacking Your Mind | Modern Man Advice

From the day we are born, we are preconditioned to experience the world and ourselves a certain way. Discover the art of hacking your mind.

www.modernmanadvice.com

The Biggest Problem With Men Today | Modern Man Advice

We live in a world that makes comfort easy. The biggest problem for men nowadays is not being challenged. Plain and simple.

www.modernmanadvice.com

Living Life Fully - 10 Do's & Don'ts | Modern Man Advice

A journey that should be guided by our hearts and serenity in our minds. Once you can silence the mind from the day to day distractions...

www.modernmanadvice.com

Cheers

Modern Man Advice

 

[Dr.Suave]

Read the DJ bible and The Rational Male.

You are young so avoid single moms.

Plan dates you would actually enjoy regardless of company. Focus on ejoying the date, banging the girl is a secondary objective.

Find your purpose, girls are a secondary objective.

Find a girl who has a higher sex drive than yours. This is not easy but if you can find one it will make your life way easier.

Again, because you are young, its easier to find a virgin who passes the boner test. As you age, it will be harder and harder to find a virgin, so If you can land a virgin who passes the boner test, keep her.

 

[Mike32ct]

I have my 20 year high school reunion in a few years. What can I expect?

Kind of anticlimactic. The (formerly) cool people that you can’t wait to see won’t be same. Worth going but keep expectations low.

Just a quick answer. Don’t want to derail an excellent thread.

 

[Travel memoir21]

Kind of anticlimactic. The (formerly) cool people that you can’t wait to see won’t be same. Worth going but keep expectations low.

Just a quick answer. Don’t want to derail an excellent thread.

That’s a given. I keep in touch with several classmates on facebook and social media, I don’t know if I’d attend it or not. If I do, maybe your right, it be wise to keep my expectations low.

 

[Jor-El]

As above,but id add its probably worthwhile to keep your expectations low,in anything you do! Whilst of course,trying to keep positive and hoping for the best

 

[BadBoy89]

- Get tall
- Keep all your hair
- Don't get fat. Don’t have to ripped, but don’t put on weight.
- Sleep with as many girls as possible in 20s, even if 6/10. Just not fat girls.
- Unless you are super smart, get a simple degree, that way you can tell people you are a “college graduate”
- Dont do emotional things with girls or money
- Don’t pay for everything
- watch movies and tv to learn how to think quickly and on your feet.
- girls only care what they can extract from you. They don’t care if you are dead or alive.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Two words OP: find yourself.