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Man if you guys really want hot women leave the USA

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Food for thought.... I’ve got friends in costa Rica and Brazil making 1/8th of the money my American friends make that have better sex lives than my friends in the states. They have girlfriends most of my friends would dream of. Come to think of it, Over half my friends literally don’t get laid and they make great money. 150-300k a year. I’ve been blessed to have traveled the world and I will go ahead and say it , the USA for dating and women is overrated.Hate to break it to you fellas but if years have gone by and you haven’t gotten a hot girlfriend and aren’t banging chicks on the regular it probably isn’t going to happen. Just got back from Costa Rica and was amazing for me to see some of the drop dead gorgeous women with guys working in coffee shops etc. they made most American broads look like ****
 
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The problem is once you travel there, you will never want to come back. After dealing with hot Brazilian women with great bubbly personalities you would face depression once back in America. You qlso can never bring these women back since American simps would swamp her DMs.

My dream would be to find a woman like Adrianna Lima or Ana de Arnus
 

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The Philippines is a good spot as well. It's great for shorter men as the average woman is only 5 ft tall so a 5 ft 5 guy, who may be at a mild to moderate disadvantage in the west because of his height, wouldn't have the same disadvantages. The women there also speak good and fluent English. Also, you will find that many of them are open to dating outside of their culture as they are typically not close minded.
 

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One of my dreams is to game, pull, and close women in Colombia.

I need to make money over here first(to finance the trip), get a good grasp over the Spanish language, and fix game issues at home before I start trying to take my game abroad.

Hey, if I like it, maybe I’ll pull a Roosh V. Maybe I’ll go to Europe as well.
 

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I agree with this sentiment wholeheartedly, but there are a few things to consider.

As a gringo in Latin countries, you will be popular but not for the reasons you want. You are an escape plan for most of these women - don't get it twisted. And like Snag87 said, don't bother bringing them over here. American society is an absolute poison for the mind and it will inevitably corrupt her.

This doesn't mean you can't meet a good woman out there. In my experience, particularly in Latin America, women are much more traditional and respect a man's role. You need to be a MAN, though. That means initiating, leading her, etc.

Sex is also not as taboo in Brazil as it is in the states. In the states I have to sit here and play pretend and act like I'm not doing this for sex. Whereas in Brazil, if it's not clear you're trying to **** her, she thinks you're wasting her time. They'll think your gay or something. In my blue pill days, I absolutely blew it with some fine hunnies because I was trying to be your standard American "good guy".

Women are Women, but I have fortunately not experienced your typical American mindset here in Brazil, and it's very refreshing. Personally, It just feels like women in the states hate men. Everything said about men is so nasty & negative - it's a terrible energy to be around. I can't believe I was lectured at work by a fellow female coworker on how "Men are so garbage, they aren't worth much these days".

Like seriously, that is what the workplace has turned into in 2022. The corporate route absolutely eats your soul

I'm talking completely out my ass here, but I believe you can take a dude out of the states, and he'll be super successful overseas. Take an American corporate woman overseas, and I doubt anyone can tolerate them other than Indian simps begging for bob & vagene photos.
I can testify to this being true. Going to a latin country with an OLD profile in english will get you a ton of matches, but those matches are women fishing for a green card or a golden ticket. If you want to date these women long term and not be taken advantage of, you have to move to that country and stay there. And you will STILL get more women that way than you will if you lived in the US. Even if you're an expat and not a meal ticket, you are still a status symbol, or something different from what she's used to. Women in south america love foreigners. FYI, this is also a really bad idea at this time, most south american countries are going down the socialst sh!tter. If you move your finances there, you'll regret it.

Zim, your incredibly obvious hatred for the states is getting a bit ridiculous. It’s evolving to borderline hate speech. Why does the US piss you off so much?
The US is circling the toilet right now. People are at each other's throats like I've never seen, and it's all thanks to wokeism and people who think that it's OK to destroy the lives of people who have a different opinion than they do. Zim is right to be critical of the current zeitgeist.
 

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Food for thought.... I’ve got friends in costa Rica and Brazil making 1/8th of the money my American friends make that have better sex lives than my friends in the states. They have girlfriends most of my friends would dream of. Come to think of it, Over half my friends literally don’t get laid and they make great money. 150-300k a year. I’ve been blessed to have traveled the world and I will go ahead and say it , the USA for dating and women is overrated.Hate to break it to you fellas but if years have gone by and you haven’t gotten a hot girlfriend and aren’t banging chicks on the regular it probably isn’t going to happen. Just got back from Costa Rica and was amazing for me to see some of the drop dead gorgeous women with guys working in coffee shops etc. they made most American broads look like ****

Anyone who only dates westernized women is cucked and they don't even realize it. American women are some of the least attractive and dress/act very poorly compared to many other countries. I legit feel sorry for guys who haven't experienced anything else. Whenever i fly back to Atlanta from Panama the first thing i notice is how much ****tier on average the women in Atlanta look compared to Panama on average. It's not even a contest.
 

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Dudes who hype up foreign countries are clearly misled. For one, America has its gems. Yeah, the typical Jersey or San Fran girl sucks but you have other places in the country with amazing women. Other thing? Foreign women are no longer the same anymore. Seriously, if she is nice, it's because you got the cash and she needs a way out.
 

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More and more American chicks are getting infected with this hyper-feminist, woke, SJW bowlsheet every single day. Best to just buy some land in the sticks somewhere, get a bird dog, and enjoy life out there.
 

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People whine about American women being infected with the woke stuff but here is the reality, any ethnic girl that comes to the US and gets assimilated into American culture is 10x worse than her Anglo American counterpart. Yeah sure Asian women are chill but Asian American women are usually bigger kunts than their white counterparts. I can say the same for the Indian, Middle Eastern, and Latin women I have known who assimilated into American society. Yeah, she is all nice and feminine when she is in a sh1thole country without running water but give her white girl privilege and she'll be the wokest SJW around.
 

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People whine about American women being infected with the woke stuff but here is the reality, any ethnic girl that comes to the US and gets assimilated into American culture is 10x worse than her Anglo American counterpart. Yeah sure Asian women are chill but Asian American women are usually bigger kunts than their white counterparts. I can say the same for the Indian, Middle Eastern, and Latin women I have known who assimilated into American society. Yeah, she is all nice and feminine when she is in a sh1thole country without running water but give her white girl privilege and she'll be the wokest SJW around.
I know. Unlike some on this forum, the answer isn't to avoid women altogether, or to move to Croatia. I mean, I don't think anyone should be using SoSuave as a guide for living their lives. I look around, thread after thread, and I see guys at one extreme or the other.
 

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Zim, your incredibly obvious hatred for the states is getting a bit ridiculous. It’s evolving to borderline hate speech. Why does the US piss you off so much?

Probably had one too many bad experiences with american women and as a result, has sworn off American women as a whole, because he thinks women from other countries are less likely to possess the traits that he heavily dislikes.
 

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OP is logically incorrect.

Hot women are everywhere, USA included.

It's just that, in the USA, the value of women in general (let alone hot ones) has been terribly inflated to the point the investment (be it time, money, or energy) in them is not worth it anymore. Therefore you Yankees should leave for other countries with lower income and GDP, where your dolllar bills can give you a much bigger boost for your value.

So, to correct OP's argument: You should leave USA not because there are not hot women, but because the hot women in other countries are much more worth it.
 

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I think American girls are pretty hot. Ive been to Seattle and Los Angeles and a lot of them were good looking and nice. My country has nothing like that.

As for their attitudes, yes obviously some can be b*tches, but a lot of girls in other countries can too. Just treat them nice, with respect, and try to get sex from them.
 

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Anyone who only dates westernized women is cucked and they don't even realize it. American women are some of the least attractive and dress/act very poorly compared to many other countries. I legit feel sorry for guys who haven't experienced anything else. Whenever i fly back to Atlanta from Panama the first thing i notice is how much ****tier on average the women in Atlanta look compared to Panama on average. It's not even a contest.
And Atlanta being a large city the women are probably better looking than most smaller towns.

The thing about the West, especially the US and Canada is yea the obesity rate is higher. More tats and other crap too and nasty women, but the minority of women that are super attractive in the US dwarfs any other country. I mean like the top 10 percent of women. We have better dental care, teeth, workout equipment, cosmetic stuff. But yes, the majority of North American women are crap.
 

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Probably had one too many bad experiences with american women and as a result, has sworn off American women as a whole, because he thinks women from other countries are less likely to possess the traits that he heavily dislikes.
I'm just sick and tired of all the woke globohomo nonsense that comes from America, everytime some bullshvt woke "issue" comes up it is always from America.

Liberal Americans keep spreading this poison to the rest of the world.
 

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Food for thought.... I’ve got friends in costa Rica and Brazil making 1/8th of the money my American friends make that have better sex lives than my friends in the states. They have girlfriends most of my friends would dream of. Come to think of it, Over half my friends literally don’t get laid and they make great money. 150-300k a year. I’ve been blessed to have traveled the world and I will go ahead and say it , the USA for dating and women is overrated.Hate to break it to you fellas but if years have gone by and you haven’t gotten a hot girlfriend and aren’t banging chicks on the regular it probably isn’t going to happen. Just got back from Costa Rica and was amazing for me to see some of the drop dead gorgeous women with guys working in coffee shops etc. they made most American broads look like ****
money is not as important when you are still young

sure , being dirt poor is major disadvantage ( especially if you are 25+ ) , but after slightly bellow average salary ( and you being 25+ ) it should not be a disadvantage neither an advantage . Is neutral

money becomes more and more important as you grow older . So it becomes a disadvantage when you are over 30 and still barely afford paying your monthly phone subscription ( as an example )

This view is mainly because society will just categorize you as a looser , and no one likes losers . Not even other guys

so makes no sense to compare guys solely on how much money they make , and thinking that this is the only thing that separates guys

it is not . I bet that most of the guys who indeed are doing very well financial wise are annoying people to have around

take look into the corporation , the directors treat like crap people bellow him and expect to always be right , while they gag their superiors Till they have tears in their eyes

that is not a sexy behavior
 

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The problem is you can't bring them back. They'll morph into your typical American woman. Furthermore, most people have location dependant careers.
I've had a location dependent career for the entirety of my working career. I did look into getting work authorization to expatriate to Latin America in the late 2000s while in grad school and around the time I graduated. It didn't go too far. 2008 was hitting as I was graduating as well, which was making expatriation even more difficult than it would have been in a more stable economic environment.

If you want to mate with a non-Western woman, it is best to do so in a non-Western environment. It's way too risky to bring a non-Western woman back to a Western nation, especially the USA.

OP is logically incorrect.

Hot women are everywhere, USA included.

It's just that, in the USA, the value of women in general (let alone hot ones) has been terribly inflated to the point the investment (be it time, money, or energy) in them is not worth it anymore. Therefore you Yankees should leave for other countries with lower income and GDP, where your dolllar bills can give you a much bigger boost for your value.

So, to correct OP's argument: You should leave USA not because there are not hot women, but because the hot women in other countries are much more worth it.
I have seen enough physically appealing women in the USA. The value of USA women has been inflated due to an oversupply of males in the USA and thirst levels in the USA are ridiculous.

People whine about American women being infected with the woke stuff but here is the reality, any ethnic girl that comes to the US and gets assimilated into American culture is 10x worse than her Anglo American counterpart. Yeah sure Asian women are chill but Asian American women are usually bigger kunts than their white counterparts. I can say the same for the Indian, Middle Eastern, and Latin women I have known who assimilated into American society. Yeah, she is all nice and feminine when she is in a sh1thole country without running water but give her white girl privilege and she'll be the wokest SJW around.
There's some merit to this. Indian women in the USA (both women born/raised in India and Indian-American women) have been known to be extremely into careerist/feminist/SJW ideology. For me, this isn't a big issue because I've never found the vast majority of women with Indian ancestry to be attractive.

I've had the misfortune of interacting with a few Hispanic women in the USA who were big time careerists. That was so annoying, even more annoying than the typical white woman careerist. With white women, careerism/feminism is expected. With Hispanic women, a career-centered woman is extremely annoying because Hispanic women are not supposed to be career oriented or big time feminists/SJWs.
 
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