Ghosted after girl says she’s “down”

[Barrister]

OP,

There is just zero finesse to your game every time you post these texts. Being direct is not necessarily bad quality, but it needs to be tempered with some playfulness and charm. Using your second DM to tell a chick she looks like “your next FWB” is just beyond cringe.

Most chicks are at least going to want a drink somewhere on Date 1. You will be scraping bottom of the barrel in looks and otherwise even if you find a chick who actually comes directly to your place or vice versa with nothing else without ever meeting you.

 

[SargeMaximus]

OP,

There is just zero finesse to your game every time you post these texts. Being direct is not necessarily bad quality, but it needs to be tempered with some playfulness and charm. Using your second DM to tell a chick she looks like “your next FWB” is just beyond cringe.

Most chicks are at least going to want a drink somewhere on Date 1. You will be scraping bottom of the barrel in looks and otherwise even if you find a chick who actually comes directly to your place or vice versa with nothing else without ever meeting you.

I tried the dating method, never got laid. How many times do I have to tell you guys? Post a banner on the forum “Don’t give Sarge advice he’s already tried and proven doesn’t work!”

 

[DonJuanjr]

I mean, the "you look like my next fwb" line can't be that bad... The women always seem to show some interest in the following texts.

 

[Barrister]

I tried the dating method, never got laid. How many times do I have to tell you guys? Post a banner on the forum “Don’t give Sarge advice he’s already tried and proven doesn’t work!”

Don’t take this the wrong way, but if that is true you must have just no social skills in general - not just with dating. This seems hard to believe considering you had said in another thread you were in sales.

Getting women is easier than work. Spamming chicks on OLD with invites to your place or you to theirs is just brutal because it basically guarantees you will never get a hot chick.

 

[Barrister]

I mean, the "you look like my next fwb" line can't be that bad... The women always seem to show some interest in the following texts.

That is a line that could work IRL with cold approach depending on c0ckiness and delivery. In a DM as the second line sent — brutal.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I mean, the "you look like my next fwb" line can't be that bad... The women always seem to show some interest in the following texts.

Exactly

 

[DonJuanjr]

I'm glad there are no other women here to beat me up for saying this, but make her wonder, and work for it a bit.

For sure... OLD women don't count.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Don’t take this the wrong way, but if that is true you must have just no social skills in general - not just with dating. This seems hard to believe considering you had said in another thread you were in sales.

Getting women is easier than work. Spamming chicks on OLD with invites to your place or you to theirs is just brutal because it basically guarantees you will never get a hot chick.

We’ve been over this, I’m borderline autistic, yet I still get laid more doing this than using your fancy pua sh!t.

 

[Barrister]

We’ve been over this, I’m borderline autistic, yet I still get laid more doing this than using your fancy pua sh!t.

You do you. But if you aren’t going to give anyones advice the time of day why continue to come here and post these things?

 

[DonJuanjr]

Spamming chicks on OLD with invites to your place or you to theirs is just brutal because it basically guarantees you will never get a hot chick.

For some it may be better to have a mediocre chick once every few weeks vs. a hot chick once every half year.

 

[SargeMaximus]

You do you. But if you aren’t going to give anyones advice the time of day why continue to come here and post these things?

I’m hoping people can help me work with the cards I was dealt instead of trying to get me to magically have new cards

Edit: @DonJuanjr gets it

 

[DonJuanjr]

Why not? Women are women, whether on line or in real, no?

I am anyway..

I wasn't using all caps for abbreviation. I was emphasizing old women on the site.

 

[Barrister]

Every time you offer this self-confessed autist advice he always responds with “I tried that and it didn’t work”.

…And then continues to repeat his same failed method.

It’s literally the definition of insanity.

This has been an on going problem with this guy. If you try to help Sarge it will end up with him reporting your profile and you’ll be issued with a temporary ban. That’s what happened to me.

Some guys literally can never be saved.

I think for the most part this community does a good job of being open to listening to each other for advice. There are a few posters though who always have a mindset that they know what is best or refuse to believe proven things can work for them despite their failure to use it correctly. Sarge seems to be one of those guys.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I think for the most part this community does a good job of being open to listening to each other for advice. There are a few posters though who always have a mindset that they know what is best or refuse to believe proven things can work for them despite their failure to use it correctly. Sarge seems to be one of those guys.

Explain to me how trying “what’s proven to work” for over 2 years with hundreds of approaches and staying a virgin proves it works?

conversely, explain how I’ve gotten laid several times over the last few years doing “what doesn’t work”?

 

[bat soup]

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She's probably just online looking for attention. She got some from you, then she got bored and moved on to the next sucker.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Sometimes you fail. There's no deeper meaning to it. #next