This is 80% of your "competition" on OLD

[BackInTheGame78]

Guys like this...pathetic dudes with no game and no clue.

I skipped a first date with a guy – the way he responded shows I dodged a bullet

CANCELING a date can be disappointing under some circumstances, but one shell-shocked woman felt lucky that she ditched a potential boyfriend after his response terrified her. After telling her dat…

www.the-sun.com

 

[Zimbabwe]

So she cancels a date for no real reason and acts surprised when the guy flips out? Then she screenshots it to publicly humiliate him?

What the guy did was wrong, but it's not like his reaction was unwarranted.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

So she cancels a date for no real reason and acts surprised when the guy flips out? Then she screenshots it to publicly humiliate him?

What the guy did was wrong, but it's not like his reaction was unwarranted.

Of course it was. Dudes who get "mad" over this type of thing simply don't get enough dates so ones they do get take on some huge meaning to them.

Sounds like you do this type of thing on the regular.

 

[Zimbabwe]

Of course it was. Dudes who get "mad" over this type of thing simply don't get enough dates so ones they do get take on some huge meaning to them.

Sounds like you do this type of thing on the regular.

I'm pretty neutral on this subject, the guy is obviously unhinged but at the end of the day she isn't exactly innocent. If she wasn't interested in meeting the guy, why did she bother leading him on?

You can only Push these incels so far until some of them start fighting back.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

So she cancels a date for no real reason and acts surprised when the guy flips out? Then she screenshots it to publicly humiliate him?

What the guy did was wrong, but it's not like his reaction was unwarranted.

Girls do this. Block + delete is the play.

 

[DonJuanjr]

It's stories like this that make it hard for all guys. It turns us all into potential serial killer stalker rapists until proven innocent.

 

[Zimbabwe]

Girls do this. Block + delete is the play.

80% of guys don't have the game knowledge we do, nor do they have the abundance of options.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

80% of guys don't have the game knowledge we do, nor do they have the abundance of options.

+1
A dude threw a hissy on the forum when I suggested block delete. It's why sourcing volume is key. Comply or bye.

 

[Konada]

I'm pretty neutral on this subject, the guy is obviously unhinged but at the end of the day she isn't exactly innocent. If she wasn't interested in meeting the guy, why did she bother leading him on?

You can only Push these incels so far until some of them start fighting back.

Now you're projecting the woman flaked out with a flimsy excuse. She said she wasn't feeling too well, it could or could not be a valid excuse. We will never know.

But the dude's reaction is borderline serial killer vibes, not sure how you can justify that kind of reaction from being rejected.

 

[Zimbabwe]

Now you're projecting the woman flaked out with a flimsy excuse. She said she wasn't feeling too well, it could or could not be a valid excuse. We will never know.

But the dude's reaction is borderline serial killer vibes, not sure how you can justify that kind of reaction from being rejected.

I'm not defending that psychopath, but women give these excuses and expect the guy to just back off.

She was talking with this guy for 5 days only to flake on him in the last minute, what did she honestly expect to happen? The old saying "play stupid games, win stupid prizes" applies here.

This happens with onlyfans girls too, many of these simps stalk the girls. Women need to start taking responsibility for their actions, stop leading lonely desperate men on and instead just ignore them.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Guys like this...pathetic dudes with no game and no clue.

I skipped a first date with a guy – the way he responded shows I dodged a bullet

CANCELING a date can be disappointing under some circumstances, but one shell-shocked woman felt lucky that she ditched a potential boyfriend after his response terrified her. After telling her dat…

www.the-sun.com

This is what simping and inceldom gets you.
But hey its good because they absolutely wreck it for themselves which is a good thing because it makes it easier for sane people that do have game.

So actually we should thank them. Ha ha...

 

[RickTheToad]

Guys like this...pathetic dudes with no game and no clue.

I skipped a first date with a guy – the way he responded shows I dodged a bullet

CANCELING a date can be disappointing under some circumstances, but one shell-shocked woman felt lucky that she ditched a potential boyfriend after his response terrified her. After telling her dat…

www.the-sun.com

Cray cray. This is what happens when you have no male guidance in the picture. It was really hard to read..

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Now you're projecting the woman flaked out with a flimsy excuse. She said she wasn't feeling too well, it could or could not be a valid excuse. We will never know.

But the dude's reaction is borderline serial killer vibes, not sure how you can justify that kind of reaction from being rejected.

Exactly...acting like this is just super weird and I could see why women do this kind of stuff...to find out who is like this before meeting them and potentially getting killed/stalked

 

[RangerMIke]

It's okay to get ticked when a chick flakes... It's NOT okay to lose your cool and show your disappointment.

I've been flaked on so many times I've lost count. Some of these chicks I ended up sleeping with.... if she likes you she will come around. Many have told me that they found it very attractive that I didn't lose my sh1t over a cancellation. Why? Because I always plan things I'm going to do anyway, and I invite women along... if she cancels, no problem I just ring up one of my friends and keep going. I always tell the chick "Hey, no problem, just let me know when (you are feeling better... not so busy... not so tired.... you find your cat.... blah blah blah etc etc) and we can reschedule." Then I'm done, she won't hear from me again unless she reaches out.

This guy lost his sh1t because he had the whole date planned around this chick... and when she can cancelled his plans were ruined and he felt disrespected. You can't be disrespected by someone you don't know and care about it... if you lose your sh1t someone you don't know and will likely never see again, you do not have any emotional self control. He was also getting ahead of himself... he didn't know a fvcking thing about her. You date to get to know someone, if a chick cancels on you and doesn't try to reschedule, then you learned everything you need to know about her without spending a dime.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Its over for ItsNotMyFirstRodeoCels

I feel both of them are in the wrong. The girl flaked for no reason after 5 days of texting. A lot of girls do this on OLD.

I remember one time I was swiping on tinder years ago, I saw an ex student of mine there. I swiped right just for kicks and we matched. We had a laugh, started talking about the good ol days, and she told me she had never gone out with someone she met through the app, and she never would becuase "its scary going out with someone u met online". So, she´s basically just there for attention, boosting her ego and wasting everyone's time.

The guy had scarcity mentality and developed One-itis for a girl he never even met in real life. Girls flake, specially from OLD, That´s why I always tell guys to triple book girls.

 

[Robert28]

She wasn’t sick, she said she “wasn’t emotionally up for going out tonight”. Wtf kind of excuse is that?lol never heard that before. Sounds like this guy went wrong before the date during the 5 days of texting (don’t do this guys). She’s never going to give the real reason why she lost interest but it wasn’t from this text exchange, it was before that leading up to the day of the date.

 

[Robert28]

Exactly...acting like this is just super weird and I could see why women do this kind of stuff...to find out who is like this before meeting them and potentially getting killed/stalked

When they play this strategy on me they get ghosted and blocked. I wouldn’t have even texted back after she said she was cancelling.

 

[Robert28]

It's okay to get ticked when a chick flakes... It's NOT okay to lose your cool and show your disappointment.

I've been flaked on so many times I've lost count. Some of these chicks I ended up sleeping with.... if she likes you she will come around. Many have told me that they found it very attractive that I didn't lose my sh1t over a cancellation. Why? Because I always plan things I'm going to do anyway, and I invite women along... if she cancels, no problem I just ring up one of my friends and keep going. I always tell the chick "Hey, no problem, just let me know when (you are feeling better... not so busy... not so tired.... you find your cat.... blah blah blah etc etc) and we can reschedule." Then I'm done, she won't hear from me again unless she reaches out.

This guy lost his sh1t because he had the whole date planned around this chick... and when she can cancelled his plans were ruined and he felt disrespected. You can't be disrespected by someone you don't know and care about it... if you lose your sh1t someone you don't know and will likely never see again, you do not have any emotional self control. He was also getting ahead of himself... he didn't know a fvcking thing about her. You date to get to know someone, if a chick cancels on you and doesn't try to reschedule, then you learned everything you need to know about her without spending a dime.

I agree with what you said and how to handle it, I disagree strongly about giving second chances to a girl that cancels like this girl did though. It’s online dating, I don’t know her, she’s not some close friend or girl I know I’m real life so she gets less chances than anyone. When she cancels just say “I understand, hope you feel better” and then block and delete, I’m gone forever. You don’t get a second chance because you’ve already shown me you like to **** test by flaking.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I don’t consider first meetings from online dating to be flakes. The game begins after we’ve been face to face. I’ve rescheduled and banged many times with chicks that blew off a first encounter.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I don’t consider first meetings from online dating to be flakes. The game begins after we’ve been face to face. I’ve rescheduled and banged many times with chicks that blew off a first encounter.

Same...people who get so worked up over flakes are losing out on a lot of lays of they just play it cool and circle back at a later time.