This is 80% of your "competition" on OLD

[BillyPilgrim]

That's part of the problem with all of this, the lack of options. Imagine being a decent and otherwise normal and functional individual but your only avenue to meet the opposite sex, whether you are a man or woman, is through old sites and apps. In the case of a man, imagine being totally average, which is made up of countless millions of individuals, and having little to no success with this. Imagine getting a handful of matches or responses, thoughts like "this may be the one" will begin to circle in your mind because of your lack of options. Now let's factor in experiencing a lot of time just messaging with nothing come it, or maybe last minute flakes or just getting a single date and then nothing......that is eventually going to have an effect on you, especially if you have no means of venting about your frustrations.

There are tons of people out there with no one to confide in when it comes to their personal issues that they face, which is not good for mental health. I guarantee you this guy is most likely not that bad of a person, he simply just was at a tipping point and this woman's behavior triggered him and set him off. It's really not difficult to see why and how stuff like this happens and I'm sure it's not all that uncommon, especially since COVID hit 2 years ago. I actually feel bad for a lot of men who otherwise don't know any better and have honestly no clue what to do.

This is how civilizations collapse.

 

[Robert28]

Nah...maybe she'll do it to YOU, but not to me. It's all in how you handle yourself.

I learned my lesson a long time ago about allowing a woman to come and go as she pleases. Flaking one day and making empty promises the next. My time is way to valuable to bother with that. Luckily I have experienced how interested women act and NO INTERESTED WOMAN will ever cancel or flake on a first date. Ever. Ain’t happening. You can do the Corey Wayne way and I’ll do my way. Both work but one just works better for me. I’ve never seen a pic of Corey wayne with a woman, so I would never take advice from someone that can’t show me they have clout.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I learned my lesson a long time ago about allowing a woman to come and go as she pleases. Flaking one day and making empty promises the next. My time is way to valuable to bother with that. Luckily I have experienced how interested women act and NO INTERESTED WOMAN will ever cancel or flake on a first date. Ever. Ain’t happening. You can do the Corey Wayne way and I’ll do my way. Both work but one just works better for me.

Sure. Because nobody has ever gotten sick or had an emergency come up.

I don't have to deal with it very often because my flake rate is almost non-existent, but if they seem sincere and ask to reschedule I will usually give them a chance, but I also let them know the ba is in their court.

 

[Robert28]

Sure. Because nobody has ever gotten sick or had an emergency come up.

I don't have to deal with it very often because my flake rate is almost non-existent, but if they seem sincere and ask to reschedule I will usually give them a chance, but I also let them know the ba is in their court.

I’m sure that’s happened but the probability of getting sick or an emergency coming up HOURS before on the DAY of the date is 0.00001%. And these same women wouldn’t let you or me get away with it if we pulled it on them, so why let them get away with it? I have never agreed with acting all butthurt about it or anything like that, all you have to do is say “no problem, hope you feel better or hope everything turns out ok” and then ghost. If she doesn’t offer to reschedule within the cancelling text then she gets no second chance.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I’m sure that’s happened but the probability of getting sick or an emergency coming up HOURS before on the DAY of the date is 0.00001%. And these same women wouldn’t let you or me get away with it if we pulled it on them, so why let them get away with it? I have never agreed with acting all butthurt about it or anything like that, all you have to do is say “no problem, hope you feel better or hope everything turns out ok” and then ghost. If she doesn’t offer to reschedule within the cancelling text then she gets no second chance.

Actually they would. I've had this situation come up a few times and it was no issue to reschedule.

 

[biggoal]

80% of women on OLD are exactly the same.

Travel does not equate to a personality. Just about everyone loves dogs. And literally everyone loves food.

You see the travel and pet sh*t mostly on the paid sites like Match, Eharmony where they can post a trilliong dog pics. The funny thing about those sites is "most" of the women on there last a week like when they have free 7 day trial and you never see them on there again or for a month and then when the renew time comes up they don't renew.

However you see a very select few of them with tons of dog and travel pics who are on that website literally for years. I mean you see them on there for 3 years, using the same pics, same super long profiles with 3 pages of requirements and gushing about their "kid" which is a dog.

No wonder why birthrates are low. Women just get dogs where they can afflict their affection and mother tendencies towards instead of having kids. If you're a guy it's good to have a pic of your pet on your profile. A lot of times they will use that to talk about and convo with.

 

[Mazer]

This advice is from people terrible at texting and afraid they will screw up. If you are good in that domain, that's not a rule, more like a hinderance.

I personally don’t have time to text a woman for five days before a meet up. Why would I spend five days texting a woman when I can shoot a girl 2-3 messages, set the date, and be banging her by the end of the week. To each is own. Do what works for you.