Did you think that it was just you who had a problem with women you couldn’t identify, or you aware that most men were experiencing the same thing?
No, because I somehow found fortune in misery. When I was 8 my parents divorced and through that chaos I became a shut in for a time, watching a lot of TV. At one point the kid shows became boring and I consumed a massive amount of documentaries abut science, culture, art and history. I developed a love for knowledge and while this knowledge lead me down the wrong path in my early teenager years(after all the source and framing of the knowledge was poisoned) I stumbled about some historical facts that let me see through the bull**** in the end.
Interesting for you should be, that we are not the first generation of men that have these problems. I stumbled upon it when I saw the picture "
Der Hagestolz" by German painter Carl Spitzweg and began to wonder what a "Hagestolz" is. Directly translated into English a "Hagestolz" is a confirmed bachelor, but there is more to the name. A Hagestolz was originally the second born sons of German farmers, who because of the law of inheritence at that time didn't inherit a piece of land and were forced into poverity. Without inheritence, they had no marriage prospects, nobody wanted them and they were forced living in little shacks on the farm, becoming the slaves of their older siblings. These little shacks were usually surrounded by hegdes so you can't see them. The word "Hage-stolz" directly means "hedge proud".
Things changed when the industrialisation came to Germany, the Hagestolze could leave the farm and become successful workers in the growing German cities, however once they became successful the Hagestolze didn't marry and that caused German society in the 19th century to panic and a lot of art(like the paintin by Spitzweg) and written articles were created to disparage them. For the Hagestolz however marriage was a bad deal, nobody wanted them when they were poor and only now that they entered middle class did women take an interest in them. If a Hagestolz neeeded somebody to clean and cook, they could hire a maid. If a Hagestolz needed sex they could find a prostitute, even if it was illigal and frowned upon in Germany at that time. Also if they desired an heir, they easily could adopt an orphan or sire a bastard and get the custody for the child. Not only that, but middle class families at that time were expected to have servants. The women of a middle class household wouldn't work, their job was it to command the servants of the house. So a Hagestolz would gain nothing from marriage, but he would be bound to a women who is a gold digger in the truest meaning of the word and lives on his cost.
This inspired me, if the Hagestolze could lead an awesome and good live in the wake of the industrialisation regardless of the pressure society put on them so could I in the wake of the digitalisation. Still, it took some more years until I found the red pill.
