WTF is going on with the world and this non-binary crap??

[Magic8ball]

Hey guys.

I am a transgender man. FtM. I am a "straight" male so to speak.

I appreciate the openness and acceptance I see here. I gotta story to tell you guys

Dating life is hard in general. In my opinion transphobia and homophobia seems worse in women than men. You know if a woman really accepted such a person like myself, and IS attracted to me but rejects me because I'm trans. That's a problem. I understand being let down for practical reasons like wanting kids or not really attracted to me in general but using the trans against me is absolute bull****. Basically it just boils down to they see themselves nothing more than a person with boobs and a vagina and see men just walking sticks. That's extremely shallow and denying all aspects of a person.

These transphobic women are just bad as a man who can be rigid in his sexuality especially if he thinks he should rule over women or be an ******* based on religion like Christianity or Islam. They like I said even before even I tell them I'm trans, act like the most selfish women very closed off from their true selves. Treat men like ****. I completely understand one needs to be an ******* or douche to get anywhere with women. So guys I'm on YOUR side. I'm hoping one day things will get better, can't hurt to be optimistic.

So men, trans men like myself can be a great ally when experiencing awful things that you guys go through it benefits me as well because of who I happen to be.

 

[DonJuanjr]

Dating life is hard in general. In my opinion transphobia and homophobia seems worse in women than men. You know if a woman really accepted such a person like myself, and IS attracted to me but rejects me because I'm trans. That's a problem.

Have you considered looking for trans MtF women? I'm sure they'd understand.

 

[Magic8ball]

Have you considered looking for trans MtF women? I'm sure they'd understand.

Actually I have dated them before. Still acted self entitled BITCHES who threatened to kill themselves and acted absolutely ridiculous.

I'm actually going my own way. I'm done with dating. PERIOD.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

There are only two genders. Period.
//End forum thread.

 

[logicallefty]

I am a straight man and I love gay men because they leave more free women for me to pick from. It's a mathematical certainty.

 

[DonJuanjr]

I am a straight man and I love gay men because they leave more free women for me to pick from. It's a mathematical certainty.

Do you agree with this @Pan87?

 

[Magic8ball]

I'm aware there are going to be ignorant individuals as well as to my reply on this post. I knew what I was getting into. My reply is directly to those who seem open minded and not to douche bags because trying to argue with me what's what isn't gonna happen, I'm NOT going to engage in any argument because it's like talking to a brick wall.

You know why I'm calm and confident because I have knowledge of things one would not know about, science or otherwise. So that's why. Also it puts me in the position that I don't need approval from other men either (or women for that matter).

I personally think people find it threatening to their position, and ego. Oh well... Ain't my problem.

Guys one message I want to deliver to you, do not ever put a woman first making your life about pursuing women is just sad because we are taught that to measure to a man is how many women we can sleep with, I mean really. Basically it's the need for approval. There's more to life than sex. I know from experience, I been a miserable simp at some point in my life myself. If you have sex but put yourself first all the more power to you.

This non-binary stuff well I'm gonna be honest, I get it. It's not the social norms it's outside of your pre-conceived notion of only two genders. There are not just only two, there are hermaphrodites, intersexed individuals and other complicated science studies on trans individuals that show we have the opposite sex brains,and opposite "sex" hormones at birth and other complicated sequences that makes us who we are. That's a FACT because I'm living proof of that. I understand it seems like a trend because it's shown on media and a lot of men want to be women because they think it's easier to be a woman. **** feminism. There are those of us who are real and this trend tends to snuff us out. This will be the last post I ever say anything about trans individuals

But I dont expect anything to conform to that reality. Not everyone is going to accept that. So I am on with that and moving on.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

It's not the social norms it's outside of your pre-conceived notion of only two genders. There are not just only two, there are hermaphrodites, intersexed individuals and other complicated science studies on trans individuals that show we have the opposite sex brains,and opposite "sex" hormones at birth and other complicated sequences that makes us who we are. That's a FACT because I'm living proof of that.

I stand firm.
All these imaginary sexes are phantasy mind constructs, social ideas and wishes and are not real.

Just because I want be a U-boat or a cat - it still doesn't make me so, because I am born a human. Not born as a cat or a U-boat.

Nature has created two sexes and if you are unsure which gender you belong to then look below your legs...
That's is it and nothing else.

Now what you feel is on individual level is a whole other thing and what you wish/want.

Just because you feel like you are women that doesn't make you one. A mans body is hugely different build from a women's body and that is just a fact that you never can change. So you can never be a real women no matter how much you wish for it and how much you change your body by plastic surgery. Pure science and biology.

So there are only two genders. //end thread.

 

[Jack22]

I think it stands to reason, that if these topics were left out of the light by the media as @Magic8ball had said, no one here would care. It's an uncomfortable topic that challenges our ideas of what is normal, and people need to feel some sense of security. It could very well be some sort of imbalance in the brain like you believe @PowerQuest, or it could be a factory defect that's just something they have to live with like a cleft lip. It's not the ideal, but it doesn't make them any less of a human being.
Should we compromise pre-established etiquette for a small minority of people? Of course not, but I think the existence of these types serves to establish something greater. Mainly, that the exception proves the rule, that there are fundamental differences between the sexes. If there is anything I've learned in life, there is nothing that can be expected with 100% certainty.

I don't want to label @Magic8ball as a "defect" because they're a person capable of setting their own goals in life and meeting them, and the playing field has never been level for anyone. If it were, there wouldn't be so many incel posts about not being born 6'4 with a chiseled jaw line and natural game. Henry Cavill is the apex of physical alpha, but if it weren't for his rugged good looks it's unlikely he'd be doing so well for himself. There's probably an ugly man out there that is his complete opposite but has the best natural game in the world. There is no "perfect" person, it's an ideal that we set for ourselves to strive towards in order to improve our own circumstances. Read up about the "theory of forms" by Plato.

Plato explains how we are always many steps away from the idea or Form. The idea of a perfect circle can have us defining, speaking, writing, and drawing about particular circles that are always steps away from the actual being. The perfect circle, partly represented by a curved line, and a precise definition, cannot be drawn. Even the ratio of pi is an irrational number, that only partly helps to fully describe the perfect circle. The idea of the perfect circle is discovered, not invented.

Why do we have such rigid ideas about sex? Because for the vast majority of people, it is the truth. Male and Female. However, there do exist an extremely small minority that are the exception, but as I had said, the exception only proves the rule.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

t could very well be some sort of imbalance in the brain like you believe @PowerQuest,

Never said that it was an imbalance in the brain.

I'm just saying that simple facts that thinking/believing that there is more than two genders is a wishful thinking mind construct; just like believing in fairy's and elves.

But just because you feel and believe in that doesn't mean that it is a true reality.

However it is a true reality that nature have produced only two genders for homo sapiens: male and female and if you are born a human you will by birth belong to one of these two.

Nature doesn't give sh|t about your feelings. It just is what it is.

 

[Jack22]

You say

Never said that it was an imbalance in the brain.

and then you end with

Nature doesn't give sh|t about your feelings. It just is what it is.

So yes, you do believe it's a chemical imbalance, because "feelings" or emotions are chemicals firing off in the brain to stir you towards certain actions and outcomes.

I think we're talking past each other here, because I'm not approaching this from an emotional standpoint, but with reasoning. For a moment, I'd like you to think about an idea, without accepting it. Is there a 104 genders like the crazy, attention seeking, 14 year olds on tumblr believe? Definitely not. There's only an X and Y chromosome, but there are people born with variations like XXY or XYY. They're real, and can be scientifically proven. Is it the norm, and should it be treated as such where a scummy psychotherapist prescribes hormonal medication to children? No, honestly such practitioners of therapy should lose their license and figuratively (in minecraft) face the wall. Such people will never constitute a sizable enough part of the population to be considered normal.

I agree with @Pan87 in his last post, this has been my experience with them as well.

 

[Jack22]

controversial fact - children who are victims of sexual abuse have a very high chance of growing up hyper-sexual and bi/gay.

some anti-gay protestors say it’s why gays want access to children. It’s the only way they can reproduce themselves

I think Gays act the way they do because they're men and naturally have a high sex drive.They have an open market to f*ck each other so they go down the rabbit hole towards more extreme behavior because they're no longer receiving the same high they would have otherwise gotten from normal sex, where a woman would naturally constrain the access to sex because of her lower sex drive and the risks involved that come with carrying a child term, which follows along her cycle.

Testosterone is linked to sex drive, and healthy men have 12-15 times that of women. Women's test also peaks before they ovulate and are at their most fertile, but because they take on more risk than men carrying a pregnancy they are more picky when to hand it out, so men must be always be at the ready. This is also why people aren't constrained by "seasonal" mating like other animals, but there are optimal times which a woman senses (overabundance of food compared to scarcity, etc) to reproduce.

Gays are unconstrained by the natural barriers in place, some having as many as hundreds of sex partners. Men and women, on average, only have 10 such encounters in their entire life time.

Are all gays like this? No. But hedonist gays are similar to coomers, in that they were exposed to sex or pornography at a young age and they now let it drive them, most of the time to some pretty heavy extremes to receive that same high. The pre-frontal cortex, the part of the brain responsible for making rational decisions, doesn't begin to fully mature in boys until their late teens or early twenties, so for a time they're left very vulnerable to conditioning their brain towards pursuing extremes. Left unabated, this behavior can continue on into adult hood. Whether it's watching midget horse porn, or abusing children, this behavior doesn't normally come about naturally.

 

[zekko]

Have you noticed how a lot of young guys these days, who are presumably straight, seem to act gay, they talk and behave in a feminine way? It must be an effect from the state pushing all this gender blending non binary stuff on the kids, and the culture.

 

[Jack22]

Have you noticed how a lot of young guys these days, who are presumably straight, seem to act gay, they talk and behave in a feminine way? It must be an effect from the state pushing all this gender blending non binary stuff on the kids, and the culture.

Some guys do it as a joke to get a good laugh, but generally the feelings around homos have relaxed quite a bit. Nobody hates them anymore, but they won't associate with them cause most of them are annoying. I've met one pretty cool bi-dude, but he was pretty red-pilled and knew how to separate his friends from his relationships so nobody cared. All the other homos are super easy to take offense. Like you said though, the culture is pushing feminine behavior on boys, whether it's in school through harsh punishment for acting "boyish" or social media.

 

[jimwho]

Have you noticed how a lot of young guys these days, who are presumably straight, seem to act gay, they talk and behave in a feminine way? It must be an effect from the state pushing all this gender blending non binary stuff on the kids, and the culture.

2nd try. First post got deleted by Mods, l'll sugar coat it...... Had a fierce mtn biking competitor acquaintance, seemed quite your basic guy. We knew each other because we were in the same racing class.

Fast forward years later. He was acting far beyond what ANY female acts like. Hmmm, an act? I think so.

 

[zekko]

Some guys do it as a joke to get a good laugh, but generally the feelings around homos have relaxed quite a bit. Nobody hates them anymore

I've never hated homosexuals on an individual level, everybody's human. I try to treat everybody with respect. But that doesn't mean I want to see the LGBTQ agenda pushed onto the culture the way it has been, and especially in the classroom. Schools start teaching gender identity in pre-kindergarten now. It simply isn't necessary or desirable. IMO, of course. Puts ideas in the younglings heads.

 

[Kdw8]

Mental illness. All of it. A woman is suppose to dress like a woman and desire a man, a man is suppose to dress like a man and desire a woman. It's not happening like that with high-school kids, more young women have been with other women than most men in general. Harsh truth.

 

[jimwho]

Mental illness. All of it. A woman is suppose to dress like a woman and desire a man, a man is suppose to dress like a man and desire a woman. It's not happening like that with high-school kids, more young women have been with other women than most men in general. Harsh truth.

9-years ago my Daughter and I were discussing how happy we were that she graduated high school. Basically survived the ridiculous school. One subject she brought up was how the new hip cool thing was to be gay or lesbian. Everyone knows which party is all for it, but can't do or say anything due to cancel culture/political correctness. Wonder how many guys are on their knees for the new world order? Seems a bit harsh. Back then for me being cool was pulling chicks, pimping beers, and smoking cigarettes.

 

[zekko]

9-years ago my Daughter and I were discussing how happy we were that she graduated high school. Basically survived the ridiculous school. One subject she brought up was how the new hip cool thing was to be gay or lesbian.

There is absolutely no question in my mind that there is a "recruitment" effect going on among young people, as the teaching unions and children's entertainment push the LGBTQ agenda on younger and younger kids. There has been research showing how more young people are identifying as LGBTQ in unprecedented numbers. Common sense would tell you that this is not good for the survival of the species, particularly for those in the West, as lower birth rates fail to replace the population.

 

[logicallefty]

9-years ago my Daughter and I were discussing how happy we were that she graduated high school. Basically survived the ridiculous school. One subject she brought up was how the new hip cool thing was to be gay or lesbian. Everyone knows which party is all for it, but can't do or say anything due to cancel culture/political correctness. Wonder how many guys are on their knees for the new world order? Seems a bit harsh. Back then for me being cool was pulling chicks, pimping beers, and smoking cigarettes.

I had a talk with my daughter when she was 14, she's now 18. She said "Dad, I just dont understand all of this LGBTQ stuff and crazyness with gender. All people have to do is pull down their fvcking pants and look"... I knew at that point I had done a good job as a dad!!!