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There is a reason you're an incel too. Look in the mirror for the error.
So yeah, its bad too. Its harsh reality, but it is what it is.
If you're an incel; then there is something you are doing wrong and you need to fix it.
So yeah, it is bad too... ;)
It doesn't matter as I am not an incel. I don't give a fvck about your respect, so I'll bang a fatty(not as big as the girls in this thread though) before becoming an incel. Being an incel is worse because a guy will lose a piece of his masculinity.

Many guys on here forget that this is a place for dudes who don't "get it" to figure things out. Handicapping them by trying to ostracize them for getting the only pusssy that they're capable of is detrimental to their progress.
 

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There is a reason you're an incel too. Look in the mirror for the error.
So yeah, its bad too. Its harsh reality, but it is what it is.
If you're an incel; then there is something you are doing wrong and you need to fix it.
So yeah, it is bad too... ;)
It doesn't matter as I am not an incel. I don't give a fvck about your respect, so I'll bang a fatty(not as big as the girls in this thread though) before becoming an incel. Being an incel is worse because a guy will lose a piece of his masculinity.
Fellas, I've been on vacation as a moderator for a few months. Just got back. Please be easy on me and don't start bickering here. I don't want to do any paperwork sending you guys official warnings this soon back. Thanks much!
 

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It doesn't matter as I am not an incel. I don't give a fvck about your respect
You miss the point. My respect doesn't matter. That is correct.
But you should pay respect to yourself and have higher standards than that.
I would never disrespect myself that way and bang an ugly fat whale. Instead, you should improve your game. Lowering your standard will not improve yourself confidence, it will only make it worse by surrendering like that to the trash.
 

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Fellas, I've been on vacation as a moderator for a few months. Just got back. Please be easy on me and don't start bickering here. I don't want to do any paperwork sending you guys official warnings this soon back. Thanks much!
Indeed. No need to rude. We're all here to help.
 

DonJuanjr

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You miss the point. My respect doesn't matter. That is correct.
But you should pay respect to yourself and have higher standards than that.
Did you ever start as the bottom of the totem pole in a job and work your way up? If so, why did you lower your self respect and do unreasonable work as entry level? Guys can respect themselves all the way to homelessness. Do you pay taxes that you don't agree with? If so, why are you lowering your self respect? You can respect yourself to jail for tax evasion.

Lowering your standard will not improve yourself confidence, it will only make it worse by surrendering like that to the trash.
How would you know? You're too proud to have done it.
 

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Did you ever start as the bottom of the totem pole in a job and work your way up? If so, why did you lower your self respect and do unreasonable work as entry level? Guys can respect themselves all the way to homelessness. Do you pay taxes that you don't agree with? If so, why are you lowering your self respect? You can respect yourself to jail for tax evasion.


How would you know? You're too proud to have done it.
Nope never done it.
I would never put myself in that situation.
Your bad self confidence will not get better by having low standards dude.

But hey, its your life, your decision ofc.
 

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Your bad self confidence will not get better by having low standards dude.
You can't sit here and tell me that I won't experience something that I've experienced. I do wonder how it would get better for guys that failed into inceldom and keep striking out. Based on the tone of many incels, it doesn't get better only bitter.
 

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Based on the tone of black pilled dudes, it doesn't get better only bitter.
Being bitter and playing the victim role won't help you either. Maybe instead learn from the guys here, read some books, train yourself in your social skills, improve your financial status and git good at the game.
In other words: Be brave, do something and you will see results in the end. It won't be easy, but it is worth it in the end.

Best of luck. I hope you make it. :up::)
Cheers!
 
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Being bitter and playing the victims role won't help you either. Maybe instead learn from the guys here, read some books, train yourself in your social skills, improve your financial status and git good at the game.
in other words: Be brave, do something and you will see results in the end. It won't be easy, but it is worth it in the end.

Best of luck. I hope you make it. :up::)
Cheers!
Nice passive aggressive tone... It's real feminine. I'm giving the other perspective so guys that are facing inceldom don't slip there by foregoing to bang a fatty to try and keep some respect from guys like you. Guys who'd rather have a sense of superiority over them and sabotage them by telling them to risk becoming incel instead. It's similar to hot chicks telling their fat friends that they're as beautiful as skinny girls. Sabotage.

Yes dudes need to work on their game, but they're not going to magically get there by going longer and longer without sex and losing some masculinity, self respect, confidence due to the length of time that another human being was sexually interested in them, ect...
 
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Nice passive aggressive gaslighting.
Errh what? I meant it in a friendly way.
But ok. Your issues, not mine. If you are that bitter then well. Nothing to be done, only you can fix that. I don't have bother about it. And i certainly do not need to sit and listen to all the negativity.
So again good luck.

I'm giving the other perspective so guys that are facing inceldom don't slip there by foregoing to bang a fatty to try and keep some respect from guys like you.
If you haven't already figured it out this site is not about inceldom and whining about it.
SoSuave is about learning to to become the best version of yourself with the help of the community here and working on yourself. So if you just want to be bitter, attack members because you do not like what you read, then you are on the wrong platform.
Like @logicallefty said. Be nice.
 

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Sucked me in, thought the title was Guide to driving a BMW
 
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