Hi all,
Interested to know how you guys see this situation.
A female friend I;ve known for years contacted me a minute ago, really upset about something that happened last night.
She was out with female friends only from social group at ****tail bar. One of the women there was flirting with a man and then disappeared. The owner of the bar came to them a while later upset saying he'd kicked the woman and man out after they found together in the toilets.
Female friend of mine said shes known the woman for years and isn't friends as such with her, its more her husband is good friends with this cheating womans husband. They;ve known each other for 15 years, the cheating woman has 11 year old kid.
My friend had to pay the bill as most others had gone home by now so had to contact the cheating woman earlier. My friend didn;t directly mention last night, the cheating woman said she got so drunk and can;t remember anything (usual crap basically).
My female friend says she doesn;t intend on telling her husband, but considering whether to mention it to the cheating woman. Not sure what that would achieve and could make dynamics around social circle weird, depending on how woman reacts to knowing others knew for sure she had cheated.
I asked if she has any idea if this woman may have cheated before and she says some have suggested she has, but doesn;t have solid evidence as such.
From my perspective its a tough one to call and advise on. Obviously if it gets out, could destroy the family (if its not on tender hooks already), but on other hand feel sorry for husband and so does she. Also the element of not getting involved in other peoples business. Apparently husband really nice bloke and she feels sorry for him. She is really upset and may just be telling me as we're pretty close and feels she needs to tell someone about it.
I did ask her if this friend was actually her, but she said she'd tell me if it was her and I believe her as we have relationship where nothing is taboo and honest with each other about loads of personal stuff in the past.
Interested to know how you guys see this situation.
A female friend I;ve known for years contacted me a minute ago, really upset about something that happened last night.
She was out with female friends only from social group at ****tail bar. One of the women there was flirting with a man and then disappeared. The owner of the bar came to them a while later upset saying he'd kicked the woman and man out after they found together in the toilets.
Female friend of mine said shes known the woman for years and isn't friends as such with her, its more her husband is good friends with this cheating womans husband. They;ve known each other for 15 years, the cheating woman has 11 year old kid.
My friend had to pay the bill as most others had gone home by now so had to contact the cheating woman earlier. My friend didn;t directly mention last night, the cheating woman said she got so drunk and can;t remember anything (usual crap basically).
My female friend says she doesn;t intend on telling her husband, but considering whether to mention it to the cheating woman. Not sure what that would achieve and could make dynamics around social circle weird, depending on how woman reacts to knowing others knew for sure she had cheated.
I asked if she has any idea if this woman may have cheated before and she says some have suggested she has, but doesn;t have solid evidence as such.
From my perspective its a tough one to call and advise on. Obviously if it gets out, could destroy the family (if its not on tender hooks already), but on other hand feel sorry for husband and so does she. Also the element of not getting involved in other peoples business. Apparently husband really nice bloke and she feels sorry for him. She is really upset and may just be telling me as we're pretty close and feels she needs to tell someone about it.
I did ask her if this friend was actually her, but she said she'd tell me if it was her and I believe her as we have relationship where nothing is taboo and honest with each other about loads of personal stuff in the past.