Girl says "I'm down, if you're willing to buy me food lol"

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This would be our second date. First was drinks, then I suggested a Mexican place and she responded with that. Maybe she's just flirting, I'm not sure. Her response kind of rubbed me the wrong way.

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Had a few drinks. Was there for maybe an hour. Walked her to her car. Hugged, and kissed for a few seconds.

It usually takes this chick 1-2 hours to respond, every time. She's only quicker when we're about to meet up.
 

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Had a few drinks. Was there for maybe an hour. Walked her to her car. Hugged, and kissed for a few seconds.
I probably would just ignore her after that until she chases me because right now she’s making herself the prize as if she’s worth the free meal and you have to pay for her to spend time with you. You can also straight up tell her you won’t pay for someone you just met. I’m pretty forward when it comes to women and money. I do pay at times but not if they’re ****s about it.
 

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This would be our second date. First was drinks, then I suggested a Mexican place and she responded with that. Maybe she's just flirting, I'm not sure. Her response kind of rubbed me the wrong way.

Thoughts?
Seems sketch. But maybe she has a quirky sense of humor.
 

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Sext with the girl if you haven't already (and even if you have since it's been a month). Send her a pic of a cucumber with the caption "Dessert" and see what she says. But with no sexual flirtation, only a kiss on the first date, and a month later, this is a low-quality date.
 

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I wonder if this is her prerequisite for sleeping with you. She needs a meal, so she doesn't give it away for free, and feel like a wh0re.

Edit: I think billy's response is good. That might give you some insight as to whether what I pondered is possible.
 

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I wonder if this is her prerequisite for sleeping with you. She needs a meal, so she doesn't give it away for free, and feel like a wh0re.

Edit: I think billy's response is good. That might give you some insight as to whether what I pondered is possible.
If that’s the case she sees op as beta
 

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Me: Grab something to eat, then back to my place?
Her: For what? lmao
Me: That's where we have dessert
Her: lol, sounds good but I have to work Saturday morning :(
 

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If that’s the case she sees op as beta
That could be. What about not being chad-like enough to break all of her rules, but enough to spread her legs after one meal?

Edit: After reading the above post, disregard my post.
 

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That could be. What about not being chad-like enough to break all of her rules, but enough to spread her legs after one meal?

Edit: After reading the above post, disregard my post.
Lol yeah. My basic rule is this: unless she plays by your rules she sees you as a beta. Unfortunately most girls will see a guy like me as beta but it is what it is. I’m not into changing minds or playing their games and by doing that, I retain my sovereignty
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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