How am I meant to cope at 5'4?

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BillyPilgrim said:
Good thing you're not 5'2"
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I never knew Angus Young was 5'2".

To the OP: Maybe you can't do anything about your height (some guys recommend lifts), but you can try to improve your attitude. You will always come off better with a good, positive attitude than with a poor one. Those are the people others like to be around. Looking at charts like the one you posted is rejecting yourself before a girl has a chance to. Why torture yourself? Find areas where you can improve your life and focus on that.
 
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Genetic Error said:
And the 10% who do accept will probably be the fat or deformed ones. and why would they date me when a 5'4 guy is so rare. and so ****. but a 5'10 guy is so common, and perfect, and they can easily get them

but height doesnt just effect dating life

it effects social life too. no one wants to be seen with the 5'4 guy. easy target for bullying. will be disrespected everywhere and by everyone
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No, it's not your height that is turning people off. People don't want to be seen with a guy who has anger and bitterness written all over his face. I've seen it many times and it's sad and pathetic. I've even been that guy at one point in my life because of red pill rage, but I got over it.

You need to stop having the short guy syndrome prison mentality, reading stupid statistics that confirm your 'woe is me' mentality and dwelling on how lame your life is. No one cares. Also, everyone else having a life that is 100x better than yours is entirely in your head. Everyone has problems.

I'm 5'7" on a good day and I don't have trouble with women or with people at work because I'm chill, outspoken, and I literally don't care if someone doesn't like me. I was teased pretty heavily when I was young because I was the shortest guy in the glass, but all it did was teach me that reacting to teasing with anger is the worst possible thing you can do.
 
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Genetic Error said:
micropenis just doesnt happen though... and at least they get to live a normal life, just sex is effected. i dont get to live a normal life + sex is effected
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Dude I saw a short guy (like at least a foot shorter than the girl he was with) the other day In the grocery store. The girl was a slim sexy 8/10 in my books and blonde hair. Just get a dope style. This guy was wearing a hoodie with one of those black flat rimmed caps
 
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Glassguy said:
Men need to focus on what they can control and stop worrying about what they cant.

Men also need to own who they are and strive to be a better version of themselves with what they have to work with.

I am 5'8.....5'9 on a good day. Own my own business. Played college baseball. President of the board at the golf course I belong to.....do well with the ladies.
The #1 thing I hear from women is "You sure are confident". D@mn right I am.

There are so many things that a woman uses to determine if youre getting in her pants. Height shouldnt be one of them IF you fall into the height category that she will date. And if you dont, oh well. There are millions of other women out there.

Its sad to see someone like OP be so negative about himself. It really is. Because at the end of the day his attitude will eliminate him much quicker than his height when dealing with women.

But that also means more for the rest of us who go out into the world everyday, ready to go out and get what we want.
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Golf... seriously... I guess one has to be confident if they are wearing those funny looking golf pants...

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Glassguy said:
I dont wear the John Daly attire.........but I wouldnt be above it either!
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I see it as an acknowledgement that what they're doing is in part entertainment.
 
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Genetic Error said:
i genuinely can not cope at this height man.

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90% of women will reject me based off height alone (im 163cm)

and that doesnt include all the ones who will reject me for face, career, other things

And the 10% who do accept will probably be the fat or deformed ones. and why would they date me when a 5'4 guy is so rare. and so ****. but a 5'10 guy is so common, and perfect, and they can easily get them

but height doesnt just effect dating life

it effects social life too. no one wants to be seen with the 5'4 guy. easy target for bullying. will be disrespected everywhere and by everyone

im not treated like an actual human. im treated like vermin, at my last job, on my first day none of the women would even say hi to me, they just purposely completely blanked me. before i even got to open my mouth.

and 1 of them didnt say a word to me for the entire 6 months i was there even tho we worked right next to eachother. she'd give 1 word replies and lok at me in disgust if i tried to make convo. but then she'd go and speak to all staff members and all customers like a normal person.

I cant even cope with money. short guys are statistically WAYYY less likely to be CEO's or earn more money.

Literally every odd is against me in every part of life just because i was born with slightly shorter limbs.

Also some guy got mad at me saying these things are happening to me because of my mindset.

My mindset was fine, the experiences in my life caused me to have this mindset

no dad or anyone to help, just a fat jobless retarded single mother to 'raise' me.

its like i was born with a 100x worse life then just left to it, with no help, its cruel. and all the people living the 100x better lives than me live right next to me, everywere in the world. im the only one, and ive just got to watch as everyone but me enjoys life

im lost, i dont know what to do,
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Become famous or filthy rich.
 
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Some insight about women:

Let’s say she has a list of 10 “musts” in a partner. Let’s assume it’s a fairly reasonable list. If you reasonably fulfill 7 or 8 of the qualities she is looking for, almost all women will gladly strike the other two completely off the list.

That means if you’re on the shorter end of the spectrum but have a good portion of your act together, height will no longer be an issue. This might not apply to 100% of women, but it will for the vast majority.

The trouble is that most men simply don’t believe this. Women’s perceptions are malleable. Again, most men don’t believe this.
 
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