CaptainFenix
Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 4, 2013
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Hi fellas, so my girl received a random text on instagram from a newly created account, no info there, no identifying picture, so I don´t know who it is. This message just said something along the lines "I think you to should know that [my name] has only bad intentions for you". My girl texted back asking who it was, no reply so far... WTF? When she told me about the message she pressured me into saying if I knew who it could be, and under pressure I said it could be either the mother of my daughter, because I am currently fighting to get joint custody of my child, which shows that I am serious about being separated (she still wanted us to be togehter etc), so she might be going after who she feels is threatening the hopes she had, which is my new girl. I also said it could be the other girl I was seeing when I started dating you, because she might be jealous of losing me to you, so now she is trying to ruin things between us. I'm not sure if I gave out too much info, but I wasn't thinking clearly when I got confronted with that message, so that's what I said.
Bear in mind that I'm dating my girl only since November so we are still on the getting to know stages, and I'm not sure how this affected her but I already sense some difference in her attitude towards me, before she would always initiate texts etc, and would write very loving messages with hearts and what not. That kinda changed a bit... bear in mind this is a relationship, not a plate I dont care about.
So, my question to the more experienced DJs, how would you handle this? I'm kinda lost a bit, this never happened to me before... and I dont want to play it wrong and drive away my girl...
Bear in mind that I'm dating my girl only since November so we are still on the getting to know stages, and I'm not sure how this affected her but I already sense some difference in her attitude towards me, before she would always initiate texts etc, and would write very loving messages with hearts and what not. That kinda changed a bit... bear in mind this is a relationship, not a plate I dont care about.
So, my question to the more experienced DJs, how would you handle this? I'm kinda lost a bit, this never happened to me before... and I dont want to play it wrong and drive away my girl...