What would you do if you were 5'4 in the UK?

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That is an achievement. Going that long without vagina is difficult.
Just to prove my point that we above average height guys don't have girls throwing themselves at us because we are vertically blessed.

Maybe if you're 6'2" and atleast average looking, but not 5"11 to 6'1"
 

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Women will usually assess you based on how you assess yourself. This was my key to achieving success with women.
I just decided to believe that I was the sh!t, that all women should be looking up to me.
When you accept things about yourself that aren’t ideal, they become non-issues to most women. If, on the other hand, you are negatively self-conscious about something like height or looks, it will absolutely be an issue for women.
Women pick up on how you feel about yourself and then they appropriate that assessment themselves. They have an external locus of control and are easily influenced by others’ assessments about just about everything.
If it isn’t a big deal to you, it isn’t a big deal to her. Women tend to assess a man based on averaging out his traits, unlike us men who assign a hard number rating to women. As a matter of fact, what men perceive as a liability about themselves can be endearing to women.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Have a Jumpy house for my 13th birthday? ....Sorry my ancestors with a strong chin and good height genetics came over on the Mayflower and left the genepool so narrow and shallow there


 

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Besides k1ll yourself or get LL or move to a short country, what would you do if you were a 5'4 22 year old in the UK?

Is it even worth trying? I'm trying to stay away from blackp1ll community and be more redpill but its so hard when 99% of girls reject me purely because of height.
What does LL mean?
 

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Besides k1ll yourself or get LL or move to a short country, what would you do if you were a 5'4 22 year old in the UK?

Is it even worth trying? I'm trying to stay away from blackp1ll community and be more redpill but its so hard when 99% of girls reject me purely because of height.
Move to an Asian or Spanish/Latin country.
 

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Besides k1ll yourself or get LL or move to a short country, what would you do if you were a 5'4 22 year old in the UK?

Is it even worth trying? I'm trying to stay away from blackp1ll community and be more redpill but its so hard when 99% of girls reject me purely because of height.
Stop thinking about it. That's what you do.

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Have a Jumpy house for my 13th birthday? ....Sorry my ancestors with a strong chin and good height genetics came over on the Mayflower and left the genepool so narrow and shallow there


WTF is that?????
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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how can i stop thinking about the thing that 90% of girls wont be happy with me for?
10% of girls is a massive amount.
5% of girls is a massive amount.
1% of girls is a massive amount.

The problem with most men is that they think that men can be universally attractive like women can be. This is not the case. Almost all women are attracted to only a subset of men. They like “types”.

Find out what your strengths are, develop them and forget about the things you can’t change. Go after the women for whom height is not an issue. It’s only going to be an issue for them if it’s an issue for you.
 

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bro ive asked over 100 girls in the last few months what their types is and 100 of them said 'tall' as the main thing
Translation: ‘Taller than you.’

My advice to OP; Personality & Game. (Redpill). Socialcirclemax & go for a LTR. You will not be a Slayer. You’re not going to get a woman by your looks. With that being said, do everything you can to look attractive. Every thing matters. Even if it’s just a fraction, it might push you above the Looks Threshold.

Girls are flexible on ‘Type’. I lost my V-card to a girl who told me her type was a ‘tall, skinny, long-haired rocker’. I am none of those.
 

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how can i stop thinking about the thing that 90% of girls wont be happy with me for?
Because you don't need women to accept your height for validation. You don't need anyone to validate you. You lack self-respect and a genuine sense of self-value and worth. Nothing can give you that but yourself. Focus on yourself, focus on what you can control.

PS: 10% is a lot of women. Work on yourself so you are ready for when you cross paths with that 10%.

If you need to move to another country just because of your height, you are a weak man. Get a hold of yourself.



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If you need to move to another country just because of your height, you are a weak man. Get a hold of yourself.
are you actually joking? you dont understand what its like to be 5'4 because your probably average or above average in most ways and have never been through **** in ur life. 5'4 is like living in a nightmare everyday and it statistically makes ur life 10x harder in every way
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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