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Guy in another dept. at work terminated for sexual harassment.

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Firstly, that isn't something I would "say" to someone because it's none of my business. I'm not their manager nor in HR.

Just my opinion.

And FYI, HR is concerned with protecting the company from lawsuits. Just so happens that guys are usually the ones doing most of the dumb sh!t in these places that expose the company to these lawsuits. That's reality.

However, plenty of women have gotten fired for the same reasons.

People who honestly think that HR only fire men are not based in reality.
Probably 90/10 men/women.
 

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Firstly, that isn't something I would "say" to someone because it's none of my business. I'm not their manager nor in HR.

Just my opinion.

And FYI, HR is concerned with protecting the company from lawsuits. Just so happens that guys are usually the ones doing most of the dumb sh!t in these places that expose the company to these lawsuits. That's reality.

However, plenty of women have gotten fired for the same reasons.

People who honestly think that HR only fire men are not based in reality.
There are certain members here who think women are the devil and, in this case, should be avoided at all costs.

I say quit responding to them. I mean, there's no reasoning with them. Let them live in their own twisted reality and be miserable all by themselves.
 

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There are certain members here who think women are the devil and, in this case, should be avoided at all costs.

I say quit responding to them. I mean, there's no reasoning with them. Let them live in their own twisted reality and be miserable all by themselves.
Spoken like a true white knight or woman hiding behind a fake screen name.
 

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There are certain members here who think women are the devil and, in this case, should be avoided at all costs.

I say quit responding to them. I mean, there's no reasoning with them. Let them live in their own twisted reality and be miserable all by themselves.
Are you taking about corrector? He literally believes that he was possessed by a demon after seeing an escort...

Other than him, I am not aware of anyone here who believes women are "the devil", literally or figuratively. Just because some of us are willing to acknowledge the reality of today's corporate environment does not mean that we hate women.
 

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Are you taking about corrector? He literally believes that he was possessed by a demon after seeing an escort...

Other than him, I am not aware of anyone here who believes women are "the devil", literally or figuratively. Just because some of us are willing to acknowledge the reality of today's corporate environment does not mean that we hate women.
But that's the thing. If you acknowledge the reality of today's corporate environment then you also need to acknowledge the reality that in the vast majority of the cases it's the guy being the aggressor and not leaving the woman alone after she says No.
 

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But that's the thing. If you acknowledge the reality of today's corporate environment then you also need to acknowledge the reality that in the vast majority of the cases it's the guy being the aggressor and not leaving the woman alone after she says No.
Is there any proof of that? Personally, I rather doubt it.
 

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How many desperate guys are out there compare with desperate women in regards to sex? Far far more.
Are you saying that every "desperate" guy is a sexual harasser? From my experience in the corporate world, it's the ****y/confident guys who are more likely to engage in the kind of behaviour that would be considered "sexual harassment" these days. And even then, it's quite rare, at least in white collar professions. The idea that women are constantly hounded by sexually frustrated dudes at work is a myth (or perhaps a deliberately constructed lie...)
 

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Say that to a female employee and they will have your balls in a vice AND your job. Try it and let us know how that speech goes over.
It's normal for a guy to want to get laid. Unfortunately in our society what's socially acceptable is to lie and pretend that isn't the case.
 
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" This guy was about 30, about 5 foot 2 and obese and sloppy looking. "

This is all we needed to know. Ugly/short men will always be creepy.

Had the guy been semi-attractive I doubt any of the women would had gone to HR. Assuming he could take a hint and cut it off after the first rejection.
Okay Mr. Black pill
 

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We had a male employee fired for similar. My organization is very tolerant of sexual banter. But this guy was relentless.
 

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It's normal for a guy to want to get laid. Unfortunately in our society what's socially acceptable is to lie and pretend that isn't the case.
It’s normal for a hot guy to want to get laid, if an unattractive guy wants to get laid everyone loses their collective sh!t, women especially.
 

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It’s normal for a hot guy to want to get laid, if an unattractive guy wants to get laid everyone loses their collective sh!t, women especially.
A good way of finding out if a girl likes you at work is to wink at her and see if she picks up the phone to call HR.
 

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A good way of finding out if a girl likes you at work is to wink at her and see if she picks up the phone to call HR.
Too much work still. I’d say cut to the chase and slap her on the a$$.
 

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Okay Mr. Black pill
This is not anything even close to black pill. It's just hard facts that many guys don't wanna swallow. You've been on this forum since March and throwing around terms incorrectly thinking you know what they mean. I've been here since 2007 and have posted literally dozens of lay reports and probably get more pvssy than you, so for you to even insinuate I'm some black pill incel is completely WRONG.

I dare you to do a social experiment. There's many YouTubers that have already done it, but do it yourself if you don't believe me. Make two Tinder profiles, one of an attractive man and one an ugly man. Have the same script and use it on both of them. The more direct and cringy the openers the better. You will literally see a massive difference in the replies despite literally saying the exact same thing.

Attractive man: Ur hot. Sit on my face?
Female: When and where?

Ugly man: Ur hot. Sit on my face?
Female: You're ****ing disgusting, go away.

There will be a undeniably night and day difference.

Is there incels who take this information and use it as an excuse to why they can't get laid? Sure. But this is a PUA/men's health forum. Instead, these same "incels" should focus on correcting the things they can to improve their looks. You can't grow taller, but you can get a better hairstyle, dress better, clean yourself up, GO TO THE GYM, eat better, etc.. there's a lot of things they can do to improve their situation but most of them just wanna sit around and b!tch and blame it on woman. This is never going to go away. The attractive man will always have the better chance. Use it to your advantage, or.. complain. The choice is yours.
 

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This is not anything even close to black pill. It's just hard facts that many guys don't wanna swallow. You've been on this forum since March and throwing around terms incorrectly thinking you know what they mean. I've been here since 2007 and have posted literally dozens of lay reports and probably get more pvssy than you, so for you to even insinuate I'm some black pill incel is completely WRONG.

I dare you to do a social experiment. There's many YouTubers that have already done it, but do it yourself if you don't believe me. Make two Tinder profiles, one of an attractive man and one an ugly man. Have the same script and use it on both of them. The more direct and cringy the openers the better. You will literally see a massive difference in the replies despite literally saying the exact same thing.

Attractive man: Ur hot. Sit on my face?
Female: When and where?

Ugly man: Ur hot. Sit on my face?
Female: You're ****ing disgusting, go away.

There will be a undeniably night and day difference.

Is there incels who take this information and use it as an excuse to why they can't get laid? Sure. But this is a PUA/men's health forum. Instead, these same "incels" should focus on correcting the things they can to improve their looks. You can't grow taller, but you can get a better hairstyle, dress better, clean yourself up, GO TO THE GYM, eat better, etc.. there's a lot of things they can do to improve their situation but most of them just wanna sit around and b!tch and blame it on woman. This is never going to go away. The attractive man will always have the better chance. Use it to your advantage, or.. complain. The choice is yours.
I thought you were a woman
 

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Found out tonight that a guy in another department at the grocery store I work at part time was terminated for sexual harassment. He was suspended but they decided to fire him.

This dude was Italian (actually from Italy) and was asking all the girls out for drinks and wanting them to sleep with them. One of the girls is even married to one of the managers at the store and he tried asking her for drinks which infuriated him. Would have fought him if he didn't work there.

This guy was about 30, about 5 foot 2 and obese and sloppy looking. The women in that dept are not even hot looking as well. Are Italians like this in Italy? Pretty straight forward with women?
Most women will perceive anything that an obese 5'2" guy does as creepy.

Italian-Americans are very sexually forward and often obsessed with sex. Ever seen "Jersey Shore"? In the 2000s-2010s, there were tons of Italian-Americans who acted like the "Jersey Shore" guys in New York and New Jerseys.

Italians directly from Italy are also sexually forward and obsessed with sex. They are also a little bit more refined in their demeanor in many cases.

That's because 90% of the dumb **** that happens is from men. Half the guys at any company probably haven't had sex for a year.
I've never heard any HR Department ever talk about the epidemic of male sexlessness.

Tech companies have a lot of incel employees. When was the last time there was an HR seminar about the consequences of inceldom in the workplace?

There are also many longer term married guys (past the 3 year anniversary of the wedding day) that are in limited sex relationships. When a man passes the 3 year mark in his marriage, he's likely been with same woman 5-6 years (or longer). The passion has definitely died by that point in most cases.
 
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This is not anything even close to black pill. It's just hard facts that many guys don't wanna swallow. You've been on this forum since March and throwing around terms incorrectly thinking you know what they mean. I've been here since 2007 and have posted literally dozens of lay reports and probably get more pvssy than you, so for you to even insinuate I'm some black pill incel is completely WRONG.

I dare you to do a social experiment. There's many YouTubers that have already done it, but do it yourself if you don't believe me. Make two Tinder profiles, one of an attractive man and one an ugly man. Have the same script and use it on both of them. The more direct and cringy the openers the better. You will literally see a massive difference in the replies despite literally saying the exact same thing.

Attractive man: Ur hot. Sit on my face?
Female: When and where?

Ugly man: Ur hot. Sit on my face?
Female: You're ****ing disgusting, go away.

There will be a undeniably night and day difference.

Is there incels who take this information and use it as an excuse to why they can't get laid? Sure. But this is a PUA/men's health forum. Instead, these same "incels" should focus on correcting the things they can to improve their looks. You can't grow taller, but you can get a better hairstyle, dress better, clean yourself up, GO TO THE GYM, eat better, etc.. there's a lot of things they can do to improve their situation but most of them just wanna sit around and b!tch and blame it on woman. This is never going to go away. The attractive man will always have the better chance. Use it to your advantage, or.. complain. The choice is yours.
You seem really bitter from that black pill breakfast I guess? I can easily find plenty of good looking guys with sexual assault/Me Too cases against them. Either way, how about we just go to work and do our fvcking jobs instead of day dreaming and crying over the mythical Chad being able to sexually harass women at work.
 
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