How To find Quality Girls to Date

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Correct. Russian women are also some of the biggest gold digging wh0res I've seen. On the other hand they are also the easiest to see right though of, and the easiest to get them to laugh or emotional. It's like they are less socially intelligent or something, I don't know.

They do take better care of their appearance, I'll give them that.

Russian women look good but usually are garbage tier in my experience and tend to be massive b@tches. I would have go to Russia though to accurately say for sure though. Have met a lot overseas though. Not impressed.
 

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Russian women look good but usually are garbage tier in my experience and tend to be massive b@tches. I would have go to Russia though to accurately say for sure though. Have met a lot overseas though. Not impressed.
I think this is a sampling bias imo There's a difference between Russians who live and stay in Russia and Russians who can travel.

In Russia, it's a mixed bag. Moscow is more westernized. Smaller cities are more traditionally Russian. A lot of single moms and other problems that we also have in the west. All things considered, it's not as bad in Russia compared to the United States, and that's mostly from what I can tell from observations. Honestly I've found that on a deeper level, women are not that different.
 

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I think this is a sampling bias imo There's a difference between Russians who live and stay in Russia and Russians who can travel.

In Russia, it's a mixed bag. Moscow is more westernized. Smaller cities are more traditionally Russian. A lot of single moms and other problems that we also have in the west. All things considered, it's not as bad in Russia compared to the United States, and that's mostly from what I can tell from observations. Honestly I've found that on a deeper level, women are not that different.

Yeah i can see that. Kind of like how Asian women who travel/live abroad tend to be lower quality as well.
 

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Yes of course

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It's not something I'm ashamed of, I've always been open with everyone about everything. It's always better to own up to it instead of feeling guilt about it.

When I told conservative traditional women about how i had casual sex in the past i expected them to be turned off but instead they made it their mission to "reform" me. I was also open to women that i was unemployed before, they would just be more adamant in making sure i apply for more roles and go to more interviews.

When i dropped out of university the same thing happened.My Female aquatainces wanted to make sure i got back in and start studying again. I feel like it's their maternal instinct kicking in or something.
My ex wife divorced me on the same issues. This is why people should not be critical wirh me. I never got any good breaks.
 
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I think this is a sampling bias imo There's a difference between Russians who live and stay in Russia and Russians who can travel.

In Russia, it's a mixed bag. Moscow is more westernized. Smaller cities are more traditionally Russian. A lot of single moms and other problems that we also have in the west. All things considered, it's not as bad in Russia compared to the United States, and that's mostly from what I can tell from observations. Honestly I've found that on a deeper level, women are not that different.
I'll put it another way from my understanding. Matriarchy/Patriarchy scale of 1 to 10, 10 being a matriarchy and 1 being a patriarchy, then I would say Sweden would be a 10/10, USA 8.5/10, Russia 7/10, Israel 6.5/10, and some middle eastern country probably somewhere around 5/10. Ancient Roman Republic around 100 BC would have been 2/10, Rome around 100 AD probably 6/10.
 

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Yeah but it doesn’t look good for this topic. That’s like a guy giving financial advice after declaring bankruptcy,
Why would @Zimbabwe visiting a pro be compared to bankruptcy? It sounds like he wanted a hotter girl than the fat one he sexed with for free not like he cant get anyone at all.
 

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The quality of women you encounter is very indicative of the quality of your social circle.... so either you have too high or unreasonable standards or you need to improve the number and type people you are around. Any moderately attractive man with a full time career, and a vehicle, and the ability to have an intelligent conversation is pretty rare from what I see.
 

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The quality of women you encounter is very indicative of the quality of your social circle.... so either you have too high or unreasonable standards or you need to improve the number and type people you are around. Any moderately attractive man with a full time career, and a vehicle, and the ability to have an intelligent conversation is pretty rare from what I see.
I think there's a lot of men that have those 4 things you've mentioned. Assuming you live in a half decent Western area.
 

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The quality of women you encounter is very indicative of the quality of your social circle.... so either you have too high or unreasonable standards or you need to improve the number and type people you are around. Any moderately attractive man with a full time career, and a vehicle, and the ability to have an intelligent conversation is pretty rare from what I see.
Most men don't have quality social circles that give them access to high quality women, that's why a lot of us here resort to cold approach and OLD to meet women.

We just need to put ourselves in situations where we come into contact with high quality women on a regular basis.
 

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Most men don't have quality social circles that give them access to high quality women, that's why a lot of us here resort to cold approach and OLD to meet women.
Speak for yourself.
 

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I'm pretty sure if we took a survey on this forum to see how people meet women, these two would be the top results.
You should do that.
 

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First, He cant delete anything that is in thd mods hands. Second, why should he delete that? He went with one and its part of his past. If he is honest he has to tell any future girl he went with a hor (when things get serious). You cant bury that by deleting a thread cause its who he is now. He is a hormongerer even if its one time. He will carry this to the grave like me now as memories can not be erased.
Are you going to tell every woman you meet about how you were possessed by a demon after visiting an escort? :D
 

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Correct. Russian women are also some of the biggest gold digging wh0res I've seen. On the other hand they are also the easiest to see right though of, and the easiest to get them to laugh or emotional. It's like they are less socially intelligent or something, I don't know.

They do take better care of their appearance, I'll give them that.
In fairness, immigrants in the West should not be used to judge the attitudes of their countrymen (or, in this instance, countrywomen) in their natural habitat. This does not only apply to Russians but also to all ethnic groups.

Immigration does strange things to people because it upsets the natural male-to-female ratio. Simply put, male immigrants have always outnumbered female immigrants. This was the case when the first Puritan settlers landed in New England and it's still the case now. American culture is so gyno-centric because there has always been a relative shortage of women in America. The relative value of immigrant women skyrockets when they immigrate to the West. Russian girls that are considered "hot" in the West would be seen as fairly average back home. If she was living in some small Russian town, she'd be married to a plumber or, if she's lucky, an accountant. She moves to the West and all of a sudden she has wealthy simps flying her down to Miami, taking her on shopping sprees, etc. It's hard not to become a gold digger in this environment.
 

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In fairness, immigrants in the West should not be used to judge the attitudes of their countrymen (or, in this instance, countrywomen) in their natural habitat. This does not only apply to Russians but also to all ethnic groups.

Immigration does strange things to people because it upsets the natural male-to-female ratio. Simply put, male immigrants have always outnumbered female immigrants. This was the case when the first Puritan settlers landed in New England and it's still the case now. American culture is so gyno-centric because there has always been a relative shortage of women in America. The relative value of immigrant women skyrockets when they immigrate to the West. Russian girls that are considered "hot" in the West would be seen as fairly average back home. If she was living in some small Russian town, she'd be married to a plumber or, if she's lucky, an accountant. She moves to the West and all of a sudden she has wealthy simps flying her down to Miami, taking her on shopping sprees, etc. It's hard not to become a gold digger in this environment.
How does knowing this information, in any way, affect your daily life?

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In fairness, immigrants in the West should not be used to judge the attitudes of their countrymen (or, in this instance, countrywomen) in their natural habitat. This does not only apply to Russians but also to all ethnic groups.

Immigration does strange things to people because it upsets the natural male-to-female ratio. Simply put, male immigrants have always outnumbered female immigrants. This was the case when the first Puritan settlers landed in New England and it's still the case now. American culture is so gyno-centric because there has always been a relative shortage of women in America. The relative value of immigrant women skyrockets when they immigrate to the West. Russian girls that are considered "hot" in the West would be seen as fairly average back home. If she was living in some small Russian town, she'd be married to a plumber or, if she's lucky, an accountant. She moves to the West and all of a sudden she has wealthy simps flying her down to Miami, taking her on shopping sprees, etc. It's hard not to become a gold digger in this environment.
Simps from all over the world have been messaging Russian women, when VK was really popular normal girls would have thousands of foreign simps following them on there.

Foreigners seem to think Russian women outnumber men but in reality that isn't the case, As someone actually from that part of the world i can talk from first hand experience. In villages it's just old people as well, mostly older women.

Any decent Russian woman would prefer her own countrymen, A Russian guy is a lot more alpha then the average American. Unless a guy plans on becoming fluent in Russian and joining top tier social circles he won't have that much success.

How does knowing this information, in any way, affect your daily life?

Too much pseudo-intellectual conversation on SoSuave can damage social skills, a new study shows.
I think it's good that his able to provide context to the situation and how gender ratios warp womens perceptions. With that knowledge we can adjust our game accordingly.
 

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In fairness, immigrants in the West should not be used to judge the attitudes of their countrymen (or, in this instance, countrywomen) in their natural habitat. This does not only apply to Russians but also to all ethnic groups.

Immigration does strange things to people because it upsets the natural male-to-female ratio. Simply put, male immigrants have always outnumbered female immigrants. This was the case when the first Puritan settlers landed in New England and it's still the case now. American culture is so gyno-centric because there has always been a relative shortage of women in America. The relative value of immigrant women skyrockets when they immigrate to the West. Russian girls that are considered "hot" in the West would be seen as fairly average back home. If she was living in some small Russian town, she'd be married to a plumber or, if she's lucky, an accountant. She moves to the West and all of a sudden she has wealthy simps flying her down to Miami, taking her on shopping sprees, etc. It's hard not to become a gold digger in this environment.
There's a lot of exceptions to what I said, but I'm speaking on my personal experience with Russian women, as I've spent a month over there, and had a few of them as co-workers. They would act low interest in me, until they found out that I had a decent income at the time, their eyes would light up all of the sudden. Every Russian woman I know expresses their emotions more than the average western woman. I'm sure the culture has a lot to do with it. Not saying Russian women are bad, just a little different in my experience.
 

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There's a lot of exceptions to what I said, but I'm speaking on my personal experience with Russian women, as I've spent a month over there, and had a few of them as co-workers. They would act low interest in me, until they found out that I had a decent income at the time, their eyes light up and all of the sudden. Every Russian woman I know expresses their emotions more than the average western woman. I'm sure the culture has a lot to do with it. Not saying Russian women are bad, just a little different in my experience.
It's 100% the culture, in Russia and Ukraine women still expect the man to provide for and pay for everything as if we all live in the 1950s. Older Russian women were more feminine and would cook 3 meals a day for her man.

Modern young Russian women on the other hand consider cooking and cleaning to be "slavery" while still expecting a man to pay for everything. This is my personal experience from living in Vladivostok and dating Russian women.

If a guy wants a real traditional woman then he needs to look in the Caucasian mountains (Chechans,Alans,Circassians and etc) , those women have very strong family values.
 

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There's a lot of exceptions to what I said, but I'm speaking on my personal experience with Russian women, as I've spent a month over there, and had a few of them as co-workers. They would act low interest in me, until they found out that I had a decent income at the time, their eyes would light up all of the sudden. Every Russian woman I know expresses their emotions more than the average western woman. I'm sure the culture has a lot to do with it. Not saying Russian women are bad, just a little different in my experience.
I'm confused. If they were your coworkers, shouldn't they already have some idea about your level of income? Also, was this in Moscow or in a smaller city?
 
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