SmoothSmooth
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These are just general patterns I have noticed, of course nothing is concrete.
When you are trying to understand female behaviour you need to first consider which group she belongs to:
Hot girls aged 18-24…tend to rely on their femininity to attract men. They act bubbly around the men they like. They are not cynical, so they believe they have what it takes to keep Prince Charming committed. Make no mistake, they are looking for the Complete Package ie a BOYFRIEND. They are looking for the Alpha Male; who has his life together but also has providing potential and the ability to provide Gina tingles. They are naturally feminine (emotionally expressive), because women encourage each other to act feminine from a young age. There is a competitive subtext to femininity - girls will try to out-do each other with nail paint, clothing, childlike mannerism etc
These girls ‘go with the flow’ with men they like. They don’t prolong sex and don’t necessarily force it. They are going with their ‘feelings’ - usually sex will happen within 3 dates (obviously if she’s a virgin this may be longer). They want the challenge/reward of using their feminine charms to win over an aloof and distant Prince Charming. You do best by being distant and aloof with this type of girl and letting her come to you.
Girls who are 18-24 but not hot ie average or below average, are also looking for Prince Charming but are more reserved around him. They fear being used and have lower self esteem. They put up more walls and want to be chased/complimented hard etc. They aren’t looking to win him over, they will only go for him if he validates them outright. This is also the main OLD demographic. They do not get aggressively pursued in real life, so they can edit their pictures/get more attention from higher smv guys on the internet.
At age 25 is when things take a turn. Let’s say 50% of girls have done well for themselves and found someone by that point. They are years into a serious relationship with someone they love, maybe they met him at a college. They become increasingly dependant on him and would not risk messing things up (at least until marriage is secured). These girls are the happiest. The other 50% are now playing a different game.
these girls are aware of their friends doing well in relationships, and now employ different approaches as they haven’t found the guy. They are more cynical after either a) loosing a Prince Charming (alpha widow) b) Being unable to obtain the serious interest of any Prince Charming. They loose trust in their femininity and now think men ‘only care about sex’. So they use sex to gain power/leverage over men.
The hot girls over 25 realise that they need to secure something ASAP because there is a new crop of 18 year olds, so they now resort to finding the best PROVIDER they can find. They are very status conscious and have been told their whole lives that they are pretty. They are therefore very conscious of social expectations to find someone to settle down with. Their feelings are no longer completely involved in dating. Gina tingles are now no longer relevant. They do not hate men however, even if they are cynical about Prince Charming, because they managed to secure a Prince Charming at some point before and have good memories with him, before they broke up. So they will go on Tinder/Hinge/Instagram etc to get attention and gina tingles from the Alphas (or go on ‘girls nights out’ etc). It still makes them feel good when a Prince Charming flirts with them. This is the second main OLD demographic. However they won’t meet up with the guys, just get attention/validation, because they don’t have time to waste. They need this attention because the provider they actually go after doesn’t give them the same validation as Prince Charming. In the past, the girls would get these supplementary tingles from music, movies, novels etc. They are very calculated in their dating - going for either the richest chump or someone who worships her (usually someone they met through social circle as he’s more likely to be sincere). They tend to have more realistic estimations of their smv and will often settle for the ‘good enough guy’ from their social circle. They have nothing to prove, and they don’t hold much resentment against men, and will gladly accept the ‘good enough guy’ because their priorities have changed anyway and they have feelings of warmth/appreciation for him since she hasn’t allowed herself to be ran through.
The less attractive girls over 25 have various strategies. These girls become the most cynical and sometimes end up hating men. Firstly they now have to be more ‘forward’ and proactive to make things happen. What happens is, the ones with very low self esteem will be a little more ‘loose’, might hit the party scene hard, throwing themselves at the ‘bad boy’ types (a faux alpha) in the hopes that ONE will stick around. They feel that by being more forward and overt than the 18 year olds in the club, they can one-up them and win over the cool guys by giving them what they want. They may engage in promiscuous behaviour such as threesomes or join sex apps/sex parties etc to try to ‘one up’ the hotter younger feminine girls.
The other girls over 25 with higher self esteem, that weren’t necessarily hot but maybe a bit above average, will make compromises. These girls also run the risk of being very cynical/hating men, because they have an overinflated SMV value of self. They aren’t competitive enough to get the highest level providers (which the hot girls over 25 got - the best husband material). What happens is, they will ‘give a guy a chance’. They will start dating men they aren’t necessarily High Interest for, but are still sexually attracted to on some level - these are the girls a lot of PUA types get with. The girl is conflicted because although the guy is attractive, he isn’t giving her the same rush she had with Prince Charming (maybe he’s less smooth or aloof), but he also isn’t providing the any sense of security she now desires. They will **** test the guy, flake on dates, do all kinds of things to make themselves feel better about hooking up with him. Basically, they will let him have sex, but only if there is some sense of her having more power than him. They don’t have enough trust in men anymore to rely on femininity/submission. The reason this demographic becomes very cynical, is that even this doesn’t work most of the time. They think they are making compromises by hooking up with the man, yet in reality he is just using her for sex. So the girl lowers her standards a little for the next man, and the same thing happens. It’s because her ‘compromises’ are men that are already higher smv than her. So eventually she gives up completely and settles for a average/below average guy.
When you are trying to understand female behaviour you need to first consider which group she belongs to:
Hot girls aged 18-24…tend to rely on their femininity to attract men. They act bubbly around the men they like. They are not cynical, so they believe they have what it takes to keep Prince Charming committed. Make no mistake, they are looking for the Complete Package ie a BOYFRIEND. They are looking for the Alpha Male; who has his life together but also has providing potential and the ability to provide Gina tingles. They are naturally feminine (emotionally expressive), because women encourage each other to act feminine from a young age. There is a competitive subtext to femininity - girls will try to out-do each other with nail paint, clothing, childlike mannerism etc
These girls ‘go with the flow’ with men they like. They don’t prolong sex and don’t necessarily force it. They are going with their ‘feelings’ - usually sex will happen within 3 dates (obviously if she’s a virgin this may be longer). They want the challenge/reward of using their feminine charms to win over an aloof and distant Prince Charming. You do best by being distant and aloof with this type of girl and letting her come to you.
Girls who are 18-24 but not hot ie average or below average, are also looking for Prince Charming but are more reserved around him. They fear being used and have lower self esteem. They put up more walls and want to be chased/complimented hard etc. They aren’t looking to win him over, they will only go for him if he validates them outright. This is also the main OLD demographic. They do not get aggressively pursued in real life, so they can edit their pictures/get more attention from higher smv guys on the internet.
At age 25 is when things take a turn. Let’s say 50% of girls have done well for themselves and found someone by that point. They are years into a serious relationship with someone they love, maybe they met him at a college. They become increasingly dependant on him and would not risk messing things up (at least until marriage is secured). These girls are the happiest. The other 50% are now playing a different game.
these girls are aware of their friends doing well in relationships, and now employ different approaches as they haven’t found the guy. They are more cynical after either a) loosing a Prince Charming (alpha widow) b) Being unable to obtain the serious interest of any Prince Charming. They loose trust in their femininity and now think men ‘only care about sex’. So they use sex to gain power/leverage over men.
The hot girls over 25 realise that they need to secure something ASAP because there is a new crop of 18 year olds, so they now resort to finding the best PROVIDER they can find. They are very status conscious and have been told their whole lives that they are pretty. They are therefore very conscious of social expectations to find someone to settle down with. Their feelings are no longer completely involved in dating. Gina tingles are now no longer relevant. They do not hate men however, even if they are cynical about Prince Charming, because they managed to secure a Prince Charming at some point before and have good memories with him, before they broke up. So they will go on Tinder/Hinge/Instagram etc to get attention and gina tingles from the Alphas (or go on ‘girls nights out’ etc). It still makes them feel good when a Prince Charming flirts with them. This is the second main OLD demographic. However they won’t meet up with the guys, just get attention/validation, because they don’t have time to waste. They need this attention because the provider they actually go after doesn’t give them the same validation as Prince Charming. In the past, the girls would get these supplementary tingles from music, movies, novels etc. They are very calculated in their dating - going for either the richest chump or someone who worships her (usually someone they met through social circle as he’s more likely to be sincere). They tend to have more realistic estimations of their smv and will often settle for the ‘good enough guy’ from their social circle. They have nothing to prove, and they don’t hold much resentment against men, and will gladly accept the ‘good enough guy’ because their priorities have changed anyway and they have feelings of warmth/appreciation for him since she hasn’t allowed herself to be ran through.
The less attractive girls over 25 have various strategies. These girls become the most cynical and sometimes end up hating men. Firstly they now have to be more ‘forward’ and proactive to make things happen. What happens is, the ones with very low self esteem will be a little more ‘loose’, might hit the party scene hard, throwing themselves at the ‘bad boy’ types (a faux alpha) in the hopes that ONE will stick around. They feel that by being more forward and overt than the 18 year olds in the club, they can one-up them and win over the cool guys by giving them what they want. They may engage in promiscuous behaviour such as threesomes or join sex apps/sex parties etc to try to ‘one up’ the hotter younger feminine girls.
The other girls over 25 with higher self esteem, that weren’t necessarily hot but maybe a bit above average, will make compromises. These girls also run the risk of being very cynical/hating men, because they have an overinflated SMV value of self. They aren’t competitive enough to get the highest level providers (which the hot girls over 25 got - the best husband material). What happens is, they will ‘give a guy a chance’. They will start dating men they aren’t necessarily High Interest for, but are still sexually attracted to on some level - these are the girls a lot of PUA types get with. The girl is conflicted because although the guy is attractive, he isn’t giving her the same rush she had with Prince Charming (maybe he’s less smooth or aloof), but he also isn’t providing the any sense of security she now desires. They will **** test the guy, flake on dates, do all kinds of things to make themselves feel better about hooking up with him. Basically, they will let him have sex, but only if there is some sense of her having more power than him. They don’t have enough trust in men anymore to rely on femininity/submission. The reason this demographic becomes very cynical, is that even this doesn’t work most of the time. They think they are making compromises by hooking up with the man, yet in reality he is just using her for sex. So the girl lowers her standards a little for the next man, and the same thing happens. It’s because her ‘compromises’ are men that are already higher smv than her. So eventually she gives up completely and settles for a average/below average guy.
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