The different female sexual strategies

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Women only have strategies for simps and beta males they find attractive. For Chads, all of that shvt gets thrown out the door.

Bro, I wish people would stop talking about swipe apps. Women had POF and match 10 years ago and never took men on those sites seriously. Apps are no different, they’re just easier to set up accounts on and on the phone so more women use them. The hot ones just use it for validation. When dating sites were a thing, making a profile meant you had to put in more effort and sit at a laptop all day, so they were less popular. Apps take seconds to create an account, girls don’t even need a bio.
Nobody worth a gain of salt uses these things seriously, now or back then, objectively hot women have never desired men that resort to the internet to get something as trivial as vagina. The guys I know doing ‘well’ on OLD (6 figs, 6ft) are getting girls way below their smv.


Lover/Provider is a spectrum and high smv women want BOTH. People who say it’s all about game or the ‘lover’ stuff are trying to sell you a course. All women care about money and resources, no matter their age. Even young girls will care about designer bags and shoes way before the boys even comprehend these things, because it is a strategy to disqualify poor men from approaching/appear more affluent. If you take a natural Chad and put the same guy in a Benz with designer clothes, he becomes way more attractive to way more women, his own personal standards would also increase to match his new value.

Could you not post in the same thread on alternate accounts?

I hate that there are members here that do this, it's so obvious it's you; why do you need to do this? Support your own points? If the information is good, members will support it, if not, they won't, this idea that you need to pile your Alts into the same thread is indicative of one thing, your making bad points and I happen to agree with a lot of the points your making, yet this behavior shows you aren't really sure of yourself, again, it's understandable considering the wide topic you've chosen to breach, but if the information is good, it'll be received good.

Also, can we stop pretending like changing your IP is hard, it's not, anybody could have multiple accounts here with minimal effort

 

[derby1]

Men generally tend to follow normal logical behaviour patterns , its very rare e a guy will flake on date with a girl he's interested in , he will be there come hell or high water

Totally , we can usually tell when a womans going cold. and we act accordingly.

But when Ive been phoned 45 minutes before, with super high interest, making me think its looking good, and ive invested in our interactions up till that point. Only for her to go cold as if Ive abused her, its unreal.

When I hear a D.V case on the news, I used to want to whiteknight for the woman, now i wonder what she did that day to result in her being whacked.

 

[SmoothSmooth]

Totally , we can usually tell when a womans going cold. and we act accordingly.

But when Ive been phoned 45 minutes before, with super high interest, making me think its looking good, and ive invested in our interactions up till that point. Only for her to go cold as if Ive abused her, its unreal.

When I hear a D.V case on the news, I used to want to whiteknight for the woman, now i wonder what she did that day to result in her being whacked.

the medium is the message; as Rollo says. If she’s going hot -> cold, she wasn’t interested to begin with.
you’re not screening hard enough and assuming she is ‘hot’ when she is probably bored. The best way to determine interest is by seeing how compliant she is, is she following your instructions - eg tell her to bring you a something on the way to your place, tell her to wear a red dress, send your number first on the dating app/social media and tell her to message you first etc also how much empathy is she showing you? Is she actually asking questions about YOU, the individual (genuine interest because she sees a future together) or is she merely entertaining you, the seducer (playful banter but not really caring about the real person you are).

And nah, I don’t have any other accounts bro

 

[derby1]

the medium is the message; as Rollo says. If she’s going hot -> cold, she wasn’t interested to begin with.

No, their dopamine receptors are fried.

All the above presumes the woman is a great woman, and it holds them accountable for nothing.

ive had women with super high interest ask me Jack ****, infact most modern women have so much solipsism they would fail a simple quiz about the man 3 months and 10 meets in.

 

[BeExcellent]

Lover/Provider is a spectrum and high smv women want BOTH.

Essentially this.

Women with high SMV absolutely want both. And they can hold out for it too and obtain it.

Any individual in the SMP (sexual market place) is going to seek/choose from among the best options that individual has at any given time. This is true of both men and women at any given age.

In my early 50s I am not going to appeal to a 25 year old for a relationship. That’s good. No 25 year old man is going to appeal to me for a relationship either (Eewww - both ways, lol). But I have the luxury of choices among men who DO appeal to me…and I appeal to lots more men in addition that don’t register (I don’t see them as potential partners).

Therefore I date men who are both lover/provider. My BF is *hot* and quite desirable. He also makes a six figure income & has his act together financially. I make enough money that I am capable of providing for my family in the lifestyle I am accustomed to…he does same. So if he wants to spend money on a trip away somewhere nice he does so. If I want to buy him something nice or take him out I do so. I am not looking for him to take care of me or my children. I view that as my job. But I’m not wanting a mooch either. He is quite generous and has gotten my kids some holiday presents that are more generous than I would have expected. And he bought me a very high end grill (so I can cook for him)…

He likes to give & please but there is nothing “beta” about him. Nothing. I like to give to him & please him too. It’s reciprocal.

So the real message is that each woman will select from amongst her best most desirable options. I never threw in the towel and settled for *just* a provider. I could have. I’d be independently wealthy if I had done that & high net worth men routinely express interest in me…but there is more to life than money…and having my own means is worthwhile because I feel no need whatsoever to sacrifice desirability on the alter of resources.

Not all women are so fortunate.

OP makes some good points and I concur with some of them, especially regarding young 18-24 year old high self esteem women. They generally are not going to hook up. They hold out for something legit and it is a matter of self respect to do so. Those women get snatched off the market & married and often stay married in good solid unions. That I agree strongly with. I know many couples personally who fit that description.

 

[corrector]

Yellowstone comes on tonight. Pretty stoked about that.

And about all this stuff you boys are rambling on about..... who cares?

You are recommending this TV-show? I have it on my watch-list on amazon prime but haven't watched the first three episodes of season one yet. If you are still on this on season 4 then it must be good. Maybe I'll check out the first few of season one then.

 

[Willie Naylor]

You are recommending this TV-show? I have it on my watch-list on amazon prime but haven't watched the first three episodes of season one yet. If you are still on this on season 4 then it must be good. Maybe I'll check out the first few of season one then.

It's a great show.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Could you not post in the same thread on alternate accounts?

I hate that there are members here that do this, it's so obvious it's you; why do you need to do this? Support your own points? If the information is good, members will support it, if not, they won't, this idea that you need to pile your Alts into the same thread is indicative of one thing, your making bad points and I happen to agree with a lot of the points your making, yet this behavior shows you aren't really sure of yourself, again, it's understandable considering the wide topic you've chosen to breach, but if the information is good, it'll be received good.

Also, can we stop pretending like changing your IP is hard, it's not, anybody could have multiple accounts here with minimal effort

I don’t have an alt