SmoothSmooth
Master Don Juan
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Hi, looking for opinions from experienced daters...
I've had experiences where girls would be high interest from the jump - for example, they would be open to kissing on the first date (or more) and text me first after the date to thank me for a great time. I've tended to only go after those kind of girls.
I've also had experiences where, despite a great time, the girls swerve my kiss on the first date or do not text me first afterwards. I'm good at reading people and know that the date went well despite these things, and therefore put it down to a lack of primal attraction.
I've assume the second group are potentially seeing me more as a 'provider' than a 'lover', so I never follow up for a second date. I'm not even chasing quick sex - I just only want to date girls that see me as catch not an option...
A few of my friends disagree with this approach and say that the girls may be highly attracted but are just more cautious. They also say the first group of girls are just more promiscuous, and it has nothing to do with attraction level. These guys are way more patient, but I think they are possibly undervaluing themselves to girls that are 'settling'.
Thoughts? Do some girls act more cautious on a first date (ie expect the man to text first, swerve the kiss etc) despite seeing him as sexually appealing?
I've had experiences where girls would be high interest from the jump - for example, they would be open to kissing on the first date (or more) and text me first after the date to thank me for a great time. I've tended to only go after those kind of girls.
I've also had experiences where, despite a great time, the girls swerve my kiss on the first date or do not text me first afterwards. I'm good at reading people and know that the date went well despite these things, and therefore put it down to a lack of primal attraction.
I've assume the second group are potentially seeing me more as a 'provider' than a 'lover', so I never follow up for a second date. I'm not even chasing quick sex - I just only want to date girls that see me as catch not an option...
A few of my friends disagree with this approach and say that the girls may be highly attracted but are just more cautious. They also say the first group of girls are just more promiscuous, and it has nothing to do with attraction level. These guys are way more patient, but I think they are possibly undervaluing themselves to girls that are 'settling'.
Thoughts? Do some girls act more cautious on a first date (ie expect the man to text first, swerve the kiss etc) despite seeing him as sexually appealing?