Hookup culture and casual sex are bad

[Plinco]

Personal anecdote here but I've noticed 90% of guys i went to school with are still virgins who never had a relationship, but the women are the exact opposite.

I'm not saying that you are a liar, but that sounds incredible

 

[Plinco]

So basically if we need to depend on someone, get a dog? That's pretty sad.

You shouldn't depend on anyone.

 

[SW15]

Do females actually have anything to offer more than just momentary fun?

Not that much. Most don't cook and clean any better than we do. Having a stable girlfriend/wife allows you to bring a woman to more social functions and not be the awkward 3rd/5th wheel. However, most of those social functions are boring and you don't miss a lot by skipping them anyway. Plus, with the pandemic, there are fewer of those social functions anyway.

 

[EyeBRollin]

The problem is...

Do females actually have anything to offer more than just momentary fun?

Most of them do not.

 

[Willie Naylor]

Most of them do not.

To be fair, many guys out there don't have a lot to offer either.

 

[RickTheToad]

Most of them do not.

It's a cold day in hell today, as I agree 100% with @EyeBRollin.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

To be fair, many guys out there don't have a lot to offer either.

Except for you, right?

You're in the "secret club" aren't you?

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Not that much. Most don't cook and clean any better than we do. Having a stable girlfriend/wife allows you to bring a woman to more social functions and not be the awkward 3rd/5th wheel. However, most of those social functions are boring and you don't miss a lot by skipping them anyway. Plus, with the pandemic, there are fewer of those social functions anyway.

Even if they do know how to cook and clean, I don't need them to do that sh1t.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

If straight men are having less sex with women because women are rejecting them.for sex then why would you think they are fapping less? If anything fap rates would be skyrocketing.

Without porn how much can you fap? With porn I could fap 30 times in a day but without its a lot harder, probably just the realization of what porn is doing to our minds

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Except for you, right?

You're in the "secret club" aren't you?

Imagine being passive aggressive to members of a pua community, guy clearly is down bad

 

[Barrister]

A lot of good points on both sides of the coin here.

OP, I agree with you overall. My experiences are purely anecdotal, but I find that spinning plates is a lot of fun for about 6-7 months in any given time and I begin to feel sort of numb to it. Casual sex is easy but it gets monotonous and the “rush” of banging a new woman loses its excitement for me fairly quickly. On the other hand, I think the overall positive feeling from an LTR that is going well outweighs spinning plates.

The problem of course - as others have already pointed out - is that that positive vibe from an LTR is also temporary. Add into that that the fallout from LTR can set you back emotionally in far greater a magnitude than a plate and I can see how it becomes a toss up. So far, it seems to be when, not if, a LTR goes bad. I hope to be proven wrong by this someday.

Bottom line: I agree with you: but also see why many DJs would simply prefer to spin plates.

 

[corrector]

Without porn how much can you fap? With porn I could fap 30 times in a day but without its a lot harder, probably just the realization of what porn is doing to our minds

I dont know since I dont watch porn to fap since 99% of the porn does not even turn me on. Escort pics are more of a turn on. If there no escorts then I dont think I would be tempted.to fap much at all.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

I dont know since I dont watch porn to fap since 99% of the porn does not even turn me on. Escort pics are more of a turn on. If there no escorts then I dont think I would be tempted.to fap much at all.

Escort pics? What? When did this begin?

I'm not surprised, pure sexuality is more of an imaginative thing, so your into like models in a magazine back in the day?

 

[corrector]

Escort pics? What? When did this begin?

I'm not surprised, pure sexuality is more of an imaginative thing, so your into like models in a magazine back in the day?

Since the 90s. Started with the back of adult classifieds on newsprint. Yes I looked at models back in the day. I am no longer turned on by that.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Since the 90s. Started with the back of adult classifieds on newsprint. Yes I looked at models back in the day. I am no longer turned on by that.

So the possibility of the woman having sex with you is now attached to the picture you want to masterbait to? Women unobtainable to you isn't a turn on?

 

[corrector]

So the possibility of the woman having sex with you is now attached to the picture you want to masterbait to? Women unobtainable to you isn't a turn on?

I guess so. It seems possible on the surface but in practice that has its own issues. There are spiritual dynamics so the risk of a potential possession attempt or harassment by a hors demons is reason enough to back away from them for now. This one exorcist I know does skype sessions for $300 US. May have to put that money aside if I go there again.

Unobtainable women is hard.to quantify. I am worried about porn and think there are these sex cults that deliberately put up.pics to do the devil's work. I went on xhamster, looked at some women and noticed the bottom of the pic said "satanic sex cult". I dropped that site since then and am very cautious what pics I look at. Dont want to do anything to invite demons who can steal a good nights rest.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

I guess so. It seems possible on the surface but in practice that has its own issues. There are spiritual dynamics so the risk of a potential possession attempt or harassment by a hors demons is reason enough to back away from them for now. This one exorcist I know does skype sessions for $300 US. May have to put that money aside if I go there again.

Unobtainable women is hard.to quantify. I am worried about porn and think there are these sex cults that deliberately put up.pics to do the devil's work. I went on xhamster, looked at some women and noticed the bottom of the pic said "satanic sex cult". I dropped that site since then and am very cautious what pics I look at. Dont want to do anything to invite demons who can steal a good nights rest.

Have you considered these people just want to associate with taboo labels because otherwise their identity will be "*****" or something akin to that? Isn't being a satanist more socially acceptable to other females over just being labeled a *****? W H O R E is the word I used there

Dude I'm not gonna lie this is some wild **** I'm reading right now, you realize this isn't normal right?

 

[corrector]

Have you considered these people just want to associate with taboo labels because otherwise their identity will be "*****" or something akin to that? Isn't being a satanist more socially acceptable to other females over just being labeled a *****? W H O R E is the word I used there

Dude I'm not gonna lie this is some wild **** I'm reading right now, you realize this isn't normal right?

Why would someone uploading pics on a porn site care about what other women would think of those pics unless they were lesbians? Why would you think the word hor is worst than a name that personifies evil?

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Why would someone uploading pics on a porn site care about what other women would think of those pics unless they were lesbians? Why would you think the word hor is worst than a name that personifies evil?

I feel like I'm being trolled right now... Lots of women identify with satanism and witchcraft, the subreddit Witches vs. Patriarchy is a great example, go take a look if you don't believe me

 

[corrector]

I feel like I'm being trolled right now... Lots of women identify with satanism and witchcraft, the subreddit Witches vs. Patriarchy is a great example, go take a look if you don't believe me

No wonder the world is going to hell. I am volcel if that is the case as I would touch such women with a 10 foot pole. Yikes!