Words mean nothing. Trust your gut.

[The Duke]

This chic doesn't know what she wants(besides free attention) and is too busy with 5 other dudes. Be greatful she did you a favor. Let someone else waste time on her. Now go get 5 other women on deck so when one flakes it won't matter. You just dial up the next one. Beat them at their own game. They will love you and hate your for it.

 

[bat soup]

Two weeks ago I was out with the buddies. I went outside the bar to smoke a cigarette and a girl in a small group outside the bar immediately shifted her focus towards me.
We began talking and she gave me heavy signs of interest. Touching and grooming herself, staring daggers at me and giving me compliments.
She asked if I want to join them because they were about to go to another place. I declined because I haven't seen the boys for some time and I didn't want to leave.
We exchanged numbers although my gut raised his hand because she was way too aggressive for me. Anyways, I liked was I was seeing... I told her to maybe meet later and went inside the bar again.
I got a message from her an hour later, but we headed to another location, so I told her I can't make it.

The next day she sent me a message, saying she regrets not seeing me again.
I chatted with her occasionally through the following week. She made a very good impression, showed good social manners, was flirty, mostly replied within a few minutes and it seemed like we have quite some things in common.
We setup a date for the following Saturday and everything looked great so far. No signs of losing interest, quite the contrary. She was getting more and more enthusiastic each day.

I woke up Saturday to a text from her, cancelling the date because one of her friends was hit by a car the last night and lying in intensive care unit.
No need to talk about that, I replied and said she shouldn't worry because of our date and giving condolence to her.
She apologized several times over the day, stating how excited she was to see me.
In the evening she asked if she can see me the next day if she's able to make it, she could also need some distraction. Under different circumstances I would have declined, but I thought this wasn't the right situation to do so.
I replied she should write me the next day if she's in the mood and I will try to make it.

The next morning she texted, time and place were set. I asked myself if this is the right situation to get to know each other, but I arrived at the agreed location in time.
The place was stuffed, so I drove around trying to find a parking lot. In the meantime I tried to call her. "Participant not reachable."
I parked the carriage, checked Whatsapp and was blocked.

Even she was the one who pushed for a date that day, I was left alone. This was the first time a woman I met in person has done something like that to me.
If someone cancels last minute I couldn't care less, in this situation I feel ashamed only for interacting with her.
If the accident story was real - I don't think anyone makes up a story like this - she probably was in a bad emotional state. But I refuse to excuse a behavior like that.

You can't trust the words of someone you don't know, but you can trust your gut.

Here's a translation of womenese into English:

My friend had a car accident and is in intensive care = I met another dude and I'm about to suck him off

I really want to see you = I'll see if I can fit you in between all the other guys I'm banging whilst my husband's at work overseas

 

[xplt]

Here's a translation of womenese into English:

My friend had a car accident and is in intensive care = I met another dude and I'm about to suck him off

I really want to see you = I'll see if I can fit you in between all the other guys I'm banging whilst my husband's at work overseas

Even better...
I was answering some chats on Telegram messenger last night. Because I deleted her contact the messenger showed her nickname instead of the name I had saved her with. I did a quick searchengine lookup and found her Instagram profile. Seems like she's on vacation since last week and not even in the country.

 

[bat soup]

Even better...
I was answering some chats on Telegram messenger last night. Because I deleted her contact the messenger showed her nickname instead of the name I had saved her with. I did a quick searchengine lookup and found her Instagram profile. Seems like she's on vacation since last week and not even in the country.

Yeah, see. How did I know the story about the friend was BS? Whenever you hear "I really want to meet you but... [insert BS excuse]" you know she's bullshiitting.

So I guess she was just playing with you and deliberately wasting your time. Unfortunately there are lots of women like that. It's a kind of sickness that many women have these days - they feed off attention from men and spend their time chatting with guys that they have no intention to meet.

This is why the principle of "actions not words" is so important. An unproven woman's words are worth less than nothing and the only way a woman can prove her value is by meeting up in person, alone and not giving any resistance or objections. How far way is she - if the answer is more than 30cm then she's full of sheeet.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Even better...
I was answering some chats on Telegram messenger last night. Because I deleted her contact the messenger showed her nickname instead of the name I had saved her with. I did a quick searchengine lookup and found her Instagram profile. Seems like she's on vacation since last week and not even in the country.

Is she on vacation by herself or with girlfriends?

Or with a guy or guys?

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Here's a translation of womenese into English:

My friend had a car accident and is in intensive care = I met another dude and I'm about to suck him off

I really want to see you = I'll see if I can fit you in between all the other guys I'm banging whilst my husband's at work overseas

What does it say about their personalities that they're willing to lie about something tragic like a friend being in the ICU?

Yet somehow they're still seen as the valuable ones?

 

[xplt]

So I guess she was just playing with you and deliberately wasting your time. Unfortunately there are lots of women like that. It's a kind of sickness that many women have these days - they feed off attention from men and spend their time chatting with guys that they have no intention to meet.

I think you're right.
How much time can one have and how bored do you have to be?

 

[xplt]

Is she on vacation by herself or with girlfriends?

Or with a guy or guys?

Can't tell. There was just a typical thirst trap of her fat ass by the pool and some landscape shots. I didn't read into the posts.

 

[xplt]

What does it say about their personalities that they're willing to lie about something tragic like a friend being in the ICU?

Extremely ugly behavior. I would be ashamed and disgusted by myself to make up such a story. Scum - that's all that comes to my mind.

Yet somehow they're still seen as the valuable ones?

Sad but true. Proof that men are willing to tolerate too much bull**** for *****.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Extremely ugly behavior. I would be ashamed and disgusted by myself to make up such a story. Scum - that's all that comes to my mind.


Sad but true. Proof that men are willing to tolerate too much bull**** for *****.

There's no way to prevent males from going after females because sex is a physiological need. Just after air, water, food, and shelter.

It has nothing to do with the females being valuable at all.

 

[bat soup]

What does it say about their personalities that they're willing to lie about something tragic like a friend being in the ICU?

Yet somehow they're still seen as the valuable ones?

I knew that was a lie as soon as I heard it. It's a way to make herself look like a saint whilst doing something nasty. Women often use this trick.

You always have to be suspicious about the way women portray themselves.

Look at their actions, not their words. Date cancelled last minute = action = nasty skank.

Excuses about ill friends etc = pure bs