If a girl you are dating told you that she once dated a married man for over a year what would you do?

[rjc149]

In no one’s defense in particular, willfully violating the boundaries of a marriage on an ongoing basis, whether your own or someone else’s, is different than banging hookers or sleeping around casually without commitment. There’s nothing dishonest or morally reprehensible about hookers or one-off Tinder hook ups.

 

[zinc4]

Not sure why you suddenly decided to have morals when you are sleeping with random girls, who cares if she dated a married guy?

Don't you have multiple plates?

Yeah, i got 2 plates but my IL in both is low. I bought the good girl act so started treating her as someone with more potential.

Anyways...low and behold i went swimming at the beach today and watched the sunset....didn't get home until late after sunset. To my surprise i saw her sitting outside my building with a lot of groceries. She ran up and hugged me frantically kissing me saying she had been waiting there hours desperately hoping to catch me.

I was very surprised to see her as she had never done anything spontaneous like that before and the fact i was pretty harsh with her. She said we wanted to surprise me with groceries since i live a long walking distance from the nearest market and wanted to cook me some special chicken arepes...a local dish here.

She was looking extra good as well....so what the hell i said. As soon as we got up to my room she burst into tears and said she had thought she lost me. Grabbed me frantically started kissing me. Had pretty intense makeup sex. Best sex we have had by far. It's like she finally completely submitted.

After, she quickly started cooking the arepes and had to leave at 9 as always because of her curfew. But she said she is okay with just casually meeting for now and said that she is sorry that she didn't tell me about her thing with the married guy sooner and that she doesnt want to put too much pressure on me. So ill just keep sexting her until i leave now that there's no more pressure and we have a clear understanding.

 

[indiff]

Nothing wrong with dumping her. It just means you have standards with who you associate with in your life. Spinning plates require time and effort so it’s better to invest it on someone who at least have some morals. I would do the same as well. You should totally judge them cos women judge men as well. A woman like that will find ways to justify every ****ty action she takes no matter stupid it sounds.
You made the right call.

 

[Macadellic]

Yeah, i got 2 plates but my IL in both is low. I bought the good girl act so started treating her as someone with more potential.

Anyways...low and behold i went swimming at the beach today and watched the sunset....didn't get home until late after sunset. To my surprise i saw her sitting outside my building with a lot of groceries. She ran up and hugged me frantically kissing me saying she had been waiting there hours desperately hoping to catch me.

I was very surprised to see her as she had never done anything spontaneous like that before and the fact i was pretty harsh with her. She said we wanted to surprise me with groceries since i live a long walking distance from the nearest market and wanted to cook me some special chicken arepes...a local dish here.

She was looking extra good as well....so what the hell i said. As soon as we got up to my room she burst into tears and said she had thought she lost me. Grabbed me frantically started kissing me. Had pretty intense makeup sex. Best sex we have had by far. It's like she finally completely submitted.

After, she quickly started cooking the arepes and had to leave at 9 as always because of her curfew. But she said she is okay with just casually meeting for now and said that she is sorry that she didn't tell me about her thing with the married guy sooner and that she doesnt want to put too much pressure on me. So ill just keep sexting her until i leave now that there's no more pressure and we have a clear understanding.

When you spin plates properly they spin themselves.

 

[Willie Naylor]

When you spin plates properly they spin themselves.

Facts.

 

[BadBoy89]

Wow.

If this woman is young and hot, she could probably KILL 10 men and society would APPLAUD her. The leaders of the free world would give her a medal. She goes out with a married man because she is a little vulnerable and the response is f*ck the bvtch?

I mean if the girl was over 35 and not good looking or fat, OK let her have it. But if she was in her 20s and hot and fertile? I would look the other way so fast.

 

[Macadellic]

To answer your original question OP
If a girl you are dating told you that she once dated a married man for over a year what would you do?

I once dated a Korean-American girl for a duration of one summer. She had quite the figure and dressed modestly that once naked had a BANGING body! She was also a Believer raised in a Christian household very much involved in her church community.

Anyways around month three of dating towards the end of summer she completely opened up to me.

Similar story to yours OP. In her past she had an ongoing sexual relationship with a man she worked with she knew was married. This wasn’t a fling, ONS, a drunken mistake, this was a two year sexual relationship!

So what did I do?
I stopped viewing her through rose colored glasses and started dating other women and became bf/gf with another girl. I kept in contact with the Korean girl became “friends.” My then gf at the time met this “friend” of mine and when my gf at the time took off for a solo travel trip guess who was more than okay to suck and fuxx a man with a gf?

Yep you guessed it! It was this perfect church girl that I had on her knees sucking a man’s D that she knew was in a serious relationship with another women.

This is what I would do because this is what I did.
This girl will suck and fuxx me even if I find myself in a serious committed relationship with another women to answer your question

Oh and all this happened in my blue pilled days.

 

[Macadellic]

Facts.

And OP proves it.
This girl is now spinning herself.

Facts are facts you can’t argue them.

 

[metalwater]

In no one’s defense in particular, willfully violating the boundaries of a marriage on an ongoing basis, whether your own or someone else’s, is different than banging hookers or sleeping around casually without commitment. There’s nothing dishonest or morally reprehensible about hookers or one-off Tinder hook ups.

depends on what code (moral code). it is a subjective thing for each person about themself and others.