Setting Up the Second Date for this Girl? Straight to the House?

[nicksaiz65]

Hey guys, so I had a coffee date a few days back. I think it went pretty well. However, the main mistake that I made was not setting it for the evening. She ended up having class after that(I had no idea) and so I was unable to pull her back to my house to seal the deal.

I’d say I did a good job with the rest of the things though. The conversation was good, and I made sure to show intent, kino, and flirt.

So I was wondering: where do I go from here? Of course, I need to set up another date so that I can pull her and seal the deal.

But how does one actually go about it, specifically and logistically? Do I just invite her straight back to my house this time? Do I invite her out in public for coffee again and then just pull her back to my place? (This specific girl seems a bit "sheltered," you could say. So I'm wondering if something more low investment and THEN pulling her back to my house could work.)

I'm just wondering how I should go about setting this up logistically with this more "sheltered" girl that I had a date with. If you all could help me with how to frame this, that would be awesome. So I can use it as reference experience for the future as well.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Dinner date. Add an activity like miniature golf if you want. Will give you the chance to get touchy..

 

[Willie Naylor]

Nice lounge near your place.

Try not to spend too much money on a girl you may never see again after this date.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Dinner date. Add an activity like miniature golf if you want. Will give you the chance to get touchy..

Nice lounge near your place.

Try not to spend too much money on a girl you may never see again after this date.

I see. So basically, just invite her out for another date/activity in public. And then get physical/show intent on the date and pull her back to my place as usual.

I'm considering picking her up in my car as well since I just got it washed. Of course, that would make the seduction even easier.

If I remember correctly, the general rule is that before you fvck her you just keep taking her out on dates up until Date 3. But after you beat the cheeks, you gain the option of inviting her straight to your house or taking her on another date if you so choose.

 

[EyeBRollin]

If I remember correctly, the general rule is that before you fvck her you just keep taking her out on dates up until Date 3. But after you beat the cheeks, you gain the option of inviting her straight to your house or taking her on another date if you so choose.

It’s not a hard an fast rule. Just take her out in public to a place that is logistically favorable to getting back to her place of your place after each date. Usually you get in by date 3. Yes, that means always pick her up after the first date. Sometimes you bang earlier than date 3, sometimes later.

 

[nicksaiz65]

It’s not a hard an fast rule. Just take her out in public to a place that is logistically favorable to getting back to her place of your place after each date. Usually you get in by date 3. Yes, that means always pick her up after the first date. Sometimes you bang earlier than date 3, sometimes later.

Awesome. I'll keep that in my playbook as a rule of thumb. I think it's a pretty useful rule/algorithm to have in my toolkit.

I don't remember exactly where I heard the idea that you gain the ability to invite her back to your place after you've already fvcked. But that's a useful rule. I'm keeping that in my toolkit as well.

 

[Barrister]

Since you did coffee date #1, I would do drinks date #2. Not dinner. Dinner is like a Date 4+ if you have banged her.

Just do drinks and sit at the bar so you are side by side and can execute plenty of kino. If you want to get some food that is fine, but dinner at an actual sit down restaurant won't be nearly as relaxed. Plus a drink or two will help loosen her up.

Good luck, brother.

 

[KindredSpiritzz]

yeah no food until sex has been had

 

[EyeBRollin]

Since you did coffee date #1, I would do drinks date #2. Not dinner. Dinner is like a Date 4+ if you have banged her.

yeah no food until sex has been had

This only works for the lowest of sluts. Most women do want some kind of date before opening their legs. OP, just take broad out. Keep it under $100.

 

[Barrister]

This only works for the lowest of sluts. Most women do want some kind of date before opening their legs. OP, just take broad out. Keep it under $100.

Not even remotely true. Not saying you can't bang women after dinner - but why spend that much when you don't need to? Drinks is much more relaxed and sexier environment. Bigger turn on.

But OP can choose what he wants.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Not even remotely true. Not saying you can't bang women after dinner - but why spend that much when you don't need to? Drinks is much more relaxed and sexier environment. Bigger turn on.

For the less slutty gals- they do require a date. Most of them tell you this outright (but a lot of men don’t listen).

 

[Barrister]

For the less slutty gals- they do require a date. Most of them tell you this outright (but a lot of men don’t listen).

Brother - I can tell you from experience that you can get plenty of non-"slutty" girls into bed after drinks with no dinner required. Now, maybe some of them won't put out after just two dates, but it has little to do with whether you feed them dinner before they spread. My two cents.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Brother - I can tell you from experience that you can get plenty of non-"slutty" girls into bed after drinks with no dinner required. Now, maybe some of them won't put out after just two dates, but it has little to do with whether you feed them dinner before they spread. My two cents.

They are slutty. She’s doing that with a ton of dudes.

 

[firstbornunicorn]

If you invite them over for dinner at yours they usually know what's up. I like to cook with them too, to see how we collaborate.

 

[SW15]

yeah no food until sex has been had

No dinners in restaurants. The home dinner date can be acceptable.

For the less slutty gals- they do require a date. Most of them tell you this outright (but a lot of men don’t listen).

A date can be anything. It doesn't have to be dinner.

So I was wondering: where do I go from here? Of course, I need to set up another date so that I can pull her and seal the deal.

But how does one actually go about it, specifically and logistically?

Since you did coffee date #1, I would do drinks date #2. Not dinner. Dinner is like a Date 4+ if you have banged her.

Just do drinks and sit at the bar so you are side by side and can execute plenty of kino. If you want to get some food that is fine, but dinner at an actual sit down restaurant won't be nearly as relaxed. Plus a drink or two will help loosen her up.

Good luck, brother.

@nicksaiz65 -- You will need another date in public and I like what @Barrister suggests. It'd be ideal if the bar/lounge is near where you live.

 

[nicksaiz65]

No dinners in restaurants. The home dinner date can be acceptable.



A date can be anything. It doesn't have to be dinner.





@nicksaiz65 -- You will need another date in public and I like what @Barrister suggests. It'd be ideal if the bar/lounge is near where you live.

Ok, sounds good. I will do another date in public for sure. I like the rule of taking her out for dates in public then inviting her back to the house. And then you can invite her straight back to the house after you've already fvcked.

 

[EyeBRollin]

A date can be anything. It doesn't have to be dinner.

Agreed. Point being most healthy girls want to be taken out at least once.

 

[Bokanovsky]

For the less slutty gals- they do require a date. Most of them tell you this outright (but a lot of men don’t listen).

What do you mean by "date"? A traditional dinner date? If so, this is 100% fake news. The only women who demand to be taken out for dinner nowadays are dinner wh0res and gold diggers (and there is a 99% chance that they will not have sex with you after dinner). Barrister is correct - a drinks date is a much better idea.

 

[EyeBRollin]

If she says No then her interest is too low and you can consider whether you want to waste any more time orbiting her.

No, this is not true. A broad refusing to come to your house on date 2 is not low interest. There’s a significant population of broads that simply won’t put themselves in such environment that quickly.

 

[BadBoy89]

(This specific girl seems a bit "sheltered," you could say.

There is no such thing as a sheltered girl past the age of 14.