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Hard to know what really happened. The fact she made a tic toc video though invites her a bit in my mind. She gives a bit of a Karen vibe for sure. Western women just being western women
I agree that this is a typical Western Karen.

I have glanced over at a woman repeatedly in the gym fishing for IOIs. I look for IOIs when a woman is wearing headphones/earbuds like this Karen was doing.
 

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I agree that this is a typical Western Karen.

I have glanced over at a woman repeatedly in the gym fishing for IOIs. I look for IOIs when a woman is wearing headphones/earbuds like this Karen was doing.
I do too, and nothing wrong with that.

This guy made it way too obvious
 

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It's ironic that she would say the gym should be a judgment free space when in fact she is the one doing the judging like most Karens do.
Is this Planet Fitness? Those gyms are a joke. Unless you're into hardcore training or weight lifting you're better off just buying a treadmill and a weight set at home and working out.

At my gym up in St. Louis we had an older guy who got thrown out but he wasn't a creep or an obese pervert. Retired cop so he would workout at the gym everyday because he's retired. Sociable type so he literally talks to people young and old, men and women both. No one ever had a problem with him and everyone seemed to like him. Then I didn't see him for a couple weeks so I asked one of the workers about him. Turns out he was told to leave because a woman was complaining he was "bothering" her.

One thing I notice at the gym especially the under 50 crowd is they talk to literally no one unless it's their friend they're working out with. Even when you do see a hot chick I never notice the men looking at them much or initiating conversation when people watching. It's like they're in their own World. Same as when I was in college 8 years ago. Guys just talked to girls in their own social circle.

It's almost like in certain settings guys are scared of approaching women! In a way I can't blame men though. You got this stupid #metoo stuff now that you didn't have 20 years ago at this level.
 

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Does she have zero self awareness? Why dress like that at the gym and then complain when someone allegedly "stares" at you?
I remember about 8 years ago someone was suing for "workplace harassment" cause her boss, a dentist or something was "starring" at her and the judge doing the case remarked how she was dressing in a way to invite that behavior basically! liberals went nuts over the comment back then. Today they'd probably impeach the judge for that.

It's human biology.
 

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At my gym up in St. Louis we had an older guy who got thrown out but he wasn't a creep or an obese pervert. Retired cop so he would workout at the gym everyday because he's retired. Sociable type so he literally talks to people young and old, men and women both. No one ever had a problem with him and everyone seemed to like him. Then I didn't see him for a couple weeks so I asked one of the workers about him. Turns out he was told to leave because a woman was complaining he was "bothering" her.

One thing I notice at the gym especially the under 50 crowd is they talk to literally no one unless it's their friend they're working out with. Even when you do see a hot chick I never notice the men looking at them much or initiating conversation when people watching. It's like they're in their own World. Same as when I was in college 8 years ago. Guys just talked to girls in their own social circle.

It's almost like in certain settings guys are scared of approaching women! In a way I can't blame men though. You got this stupid #metoo stuff now that you didn't have 20 years ago at this level.
women dont want beta male catcalling, but they want "likes" on social media from betas......

its like "stay overe there and validate me"

they should ban likes on selfies, it would de-throne them in 24 hours flat
 

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women dont want beta male catcalling, but they want "likes" on social media from betas......

its like "stay overe there and validate me"

they should ban likes on selfies, it would de-throne them in 24 hours flat
Another thing I've noticed the last 4 years or so is these hot, local news reporters we have. Most under 30, single. They constantly post sexy selfies on facebutt and Instasl*t daily and getting hundreds and hundreds of likes. Down here the pay is low so we get a lot of the younger ones who come for the experience. Many are HB8 and up. They constantly post and get thousands of likes. A couple of them I found on OLD as well including 2014 Miss Ohio when she worked down here on bumble. of course I then proceeded to her FB page and messaged her to hit her up and she blocked me cause I'm not super chad.

Social media, OLD, etc. A large percentage of girls use it as a ego boost.
 

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One thing I notice at the gym especially the under 50 crowd is they talk to literally no one unless it's their friend they're working out with. Even when you do see a hot chick I never notice the men looking at them much or initiating conversation when people watching. It's like they're in their own World. Same as when I was in college 8 years ago. Guys just talked to girls in their own social circle.
The gym is a tough place to do approaches. It's mostly because of the earbuds. When I was going to my on campus gym in undergrad in the early to mid-2000s, the iPod had just come out. Back in 2003-04, only the top 20% of attractive women were wearing them. Keep in mind this was a college gym with 90%+ of attendees under 18-25% with the occasional late 20s graduate level student making up the remainder.

By the early 2010s, I was noticing in my mainly 20s/30s gym that 80-85% of women were wearing earbuds. It's over 90% now.

The only times men talk to women at my gym is after fitness classes when there are no earbuds or they have a less than 5 second interaction about equipment use when there are earbuds. Also, I've noticed that few men do fitness class approaches. A lot of times, I was the only man doing these types of approaches. I noticed this as much in the early 2010s as the last 3-4 years.

Is this Planet Fitness? Those gyms are a joke. Unless you're into hardcore training or weight lifting you're better off just buying a treadmill and a weight set at home and working out.
Planet Fitness is not a good gym. I doubt that it was PF.

The higher end gyms tend to have better looking women. However, there are some big box gyms like 24 Hour or LA Fitness that will have some attractive members. This is more true if the location is close to a singles dense area.

The best gyms for attractive women are independent gyms, boutique class studios, and higher end chains like Equinox and Lifetime.

Another thing I've noticed the last 4 years or so is these hot, local news reporters we have. Most under 30, single.
Local news reporters are often attractive women. That was also true 30 years ago.

The difference now is that the TV ratings for local newscasts were much higher 30 years ago than they are now. The audience was also younger then.

They constantly post sexy selfies on facebutt and Instasl*t daily and getting hundreds and hundreds of likes. Down here the pay is low so we get a lot of the younger ones who come for the experience. Many are HB8 and up. They constantly post and get thousands of likes. A couple of them I found on OLD as well including 2014 Miss Ohio when she worked down here on bumble. of course I then proceeded to her FB page and messaged her to hit her up and she blocked me cause I'm not super chad.

Social media, OLD, etc. A large percentage of girls use it as a ego boost.
It's not surprising that a news personality would put sexy pics on Instagram. Instagram and TV journalism both tend to attract people with narcissistic tendencies. Also, as stated above, sexy pics on Instagram don't tend to draw in more newscast viewers.

You were referring to Mackenzie Bart.


A woman who looks like that isn't going to have sex with a random man who slides into her DMs unless he is top tier looking. He would likely need to have shirtless photos on his Insta with some combination of low body fat, washboard abs, big muscles, and nice facial aesthetics. Likely all 4 of those.

One of my friends had sex for 3-6 months with a Miss State Winner. He didn't slide into her DMs to meet her. He met her in person at an event (not a bar). He had her naked within the first 3 dates. If you want to have sex with a Miss State Winner, it is best to meet her in person somehow. I'm surprised that she was on Bumble in your area. She was likely doing Bumble for self-validation and not going on actual dates.

Does she have zero self awareness? Why dress like that at the gym and then complain when someone allegedly "stares" at you?
Agree 100%.
 
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A lot of Interesting points.

My thoughts: this was set up by her and her husband to get her noticed / more views on TikToK or instagram or whatever the heck she is on. You don’t strategically place your camera there and not move from workout position while a guy is staring at you. You don’t call your husband over and have him not say a word to the guy. You don’t stare back at guy, and you don’t say something to him. You just move.

Imagine if a hot girl stared at a guy and he went over to her said: “I’m uncomfortable, I record my workouts.” She would have him BANNED from the gym for recording her.

The left always wins.
 

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The gym is a tough place to do approaches. It's mostly because of the earbuds. When I was going to my on campus gym in undergrad in the early to mid-2000s, the iPod had just come out. Back in 2003-04, only the top 20% of attractive women were wearing them. Keep in mind this was a college gym with 90%+ of attendees under 18-25% with the occasional late 20s graduate level student making up the remainder.

By the early 2010s, I was noticing in my mainly 20s/30s gym that 80-85% of women were wearing earbuds. It's over 90% now.

The only times men talk to women at my gym is after fitness classes when there are no earbuds or they have a less than 5 second interaction about equipment use when there are earbuds. Also, I've noticed that few men do fitness class approaches. A lot of times, I was the only man doing these types of approaches. I noticed this as much in the early 2010s as the last 3-4 years.



Planet Fitness is not a good gym. I doubt that it was PF.

The higher end gyms tend to have better looking women. However, there are some big box gyms like 24 Hour or LA Fitness that will have some attractive members. This is more true if the location is close to a singles dense area.

The best gyms for attractive women are independent gyms, boutique class studios, and higher end chains like Equinox and Lifetime.



Local news reporters are often attractive women. That was also true 30 years ago.

The difference now is that the TV ratings for local newscasts were much higher 30 years ago than they are now. The audience was also younger then.



It's not surprising that a news personality would put sexy pics on Instagram. Instagram and TV journalism both tend to attract people with narcissistic tendencies. Also, as stated above, sexy pics on Instagram don't tend to draw in more newscast viewers.

You were referring to Mackenzie Bart.


A woman who looks like that isn't going to have sex with a random man who slides into her DMs unless he is top tier looking. He would likely need to have shirtless photos on his Insta with some combination of low body fat, washboard abs, big muscles, and nice facial aesthetics. Likely all 4 of those.

One of my friends had sex for 3-6 months with a Miss State Winner. He didn't slide into her DMs to meet her. He met her in person at an event (not a bar). He had her naked within the first 3 dates. If you want to have sex with a Miss State Winner, it is best to meet her in person somehow. I'm surprised that she was on Bumble in your area. She was likely doing Bumble for self-validation and not going on actual dates.



Agree 100%.
Yea, that's her. Thing about Bart she has that build that in 15 years she's going to be thicker if she quits working out. As far as I know she wasn't dating down here.

Yea, I doubt she used old to date. Probably as a joke to see how many likes she gets. I mean minus being hb8 when they see a familiar face every guy will swipe.

The odd thing is those local news chicks I see many of them dating regular looking guys they met in college and end up marrying. One if those hb 8s just got married to her bf from college. Just a typical guy. Wasn't super chad lol.

Some of them it's all makeup. In person many will be only hb6 without the lightning.

Funny in Twitter I follow some of them cause I'm into weather. One is an hb6.5 weather lady but a few hundred miles away from me. She doesn't post that insta crap but I'll comment on her tweets about her and she always responds since I know a lot and I'll be funny. Cute but not a super hottie. Pretty sure if I lived in her area I'd maybe have a 30 percent chance of getting drinks if I pressed the right buttons.
 

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A lot of Interesting points.

My thoughts: this was set up by her and her husband to get her noticed / more views on TikToK or instagram or whatever the heck she is on. You don’t strategically place your camera there and not move from workout position while a guy is staring at you. You don’t call your husband over and have him not say a word to the guy. You don’t stare back at guy, and you don’t say something to him. You just move.

Imagine if a hot girl stared at a guy and he went over to her said: “I’m uncomfortable, I record my workouts.” She would have him BANNED from the gym for recording her.

The left always wins.
Very good point that you bring up, a lot of stuff on social media is fake and set up for clout.

We live in a very boring dystopia, people go out just to post about it on social media all for fake internet points.
 

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Another thread that gives us the opportunity to b!tch about stuff.

Awesome.
 

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She should go to a women's only gym if she doesn't want men looking at her.

If there's something worth looking at, men are gonna look.

This woman just wants attention. Look at me! Look at me! Men want me! I'm so unfortunate because I'm so pretty.

Plus of course, now instead of just one man looking at her there are now thousands and the guy that was looking in the first place has subscribed to her tiktok and replays her video every time he goes to the bathroom.
 

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Typical kunt
She's not facially attractive. Nice body. Some tattoos. Most guys would bang.

She should go to a women's only gym if she doesn't want men looking at her.

If there's something worth looking at, men are gonna look.

This woman just wants attention. Look at me! Look at me! Men want me! I'm so unfortunate because I'm so pretty.
A lot of Interesting points.

My thoughts: this was set up by her and her husband to get her noticed / more views on TikToK or instagram or whatever the heck she is on. You don’t strategically place your camera there and not move from workout position while a guy is staring at you. You don’t call your husband over and have him not say a word to the guy. You don’t stare back at guy, and you don’t say something to him. You just move.
I think she was trying to go viral with her TikTok and Instagram stuff. Her Insta follower count is not impressive but I think it is going to shoot up now. I agree that she needs to go to a women's only gym.

Imagine if a hot girl stared at a guy and he went over to her said: “I’m uncomfortable, I record my workouts.” She would have him BANNED from the gym for recording her.
I can't imagine any guy starting that conversation. If he did that, she would definitely report him and get him banned. It is all about women's feelings. There have been times when I've been fishing for IOIs with eye contact that I have worried I'd get reported. I am pleasant and known by many of the staffers at my gym so I doubt it would get to that.
 

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She's not facially attractive. Nice body. Some tattoos. Most guys would bang.





I think she was trying to go viral with her TikTok and Instagram stuff. Her Insta follower count is not impressive but I think it is going to shoot up now. I agree that she needs to go to a women's only gym.



I can't imagine any guy starting that conversation. If he did that, she would definitely report him and get him banned. It is all about women's feelings. There have been times when I've been fishing for IOIs with eye contact that I have worried I'd get reported. I am pleasant and known by many of the staffers at my gym so I doubt it would get to that.
She's the one that's causing trouble. What right does she have to be recording people at the gym? He should look into suing her.

Don't prance around in leotards and then complain that men are looking at you. And nobody cares if you're uncomfortable.
I bet the guy looking at her was uncomfortable because of the boner she gave him.
 

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Unfortuanately for women like this you know they havent been properly fcked.
Some of these kunts like this only would be humbled by a 8 guy train with 10 inch diks.
Wtf does she expect? For real lady enjoy your sexuality instead of using it as a weapon lol good gawd
She's a newlywed too, as she was married in September according to her Instagram page. She should be on Cloud Nine instead of whining about male attention. Additionally, why is she encouraging male attention with her sexy outfits? She's a personal trainer at a high testosterone gym as well so this behavior comes with the territory.
 
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