Kpop stars are fawned over, much like Michael Jackson, because they are charismatic. Musicians get a lot of ease when it comes to getting women, and it has mostly to do with the bard archetype. They exist to swoon women's emotions. For MJ, it was music, his voice, and his look. For Kpop, it's more of their looks than anything. They are meant to emulate an emotional dream for women, and makes a lot of older women remember the days when they were able to get younger cuter guys. It's still masculine, just a boyish level masculinity.
It can be done. You just have to wear it and not let it affect you. And also still look good and presentable as a man.
It depends. So far the women I ****ed kept me more than just a **** guy. They keep trying to lock me down with dates and cuddling and all that stuff that a bf does. Except Im not one. All I do is **** them, which goes to show that clearly the dvck is making them think things.