What do you want from women

[Robert28]

It's disrepectful. If she knows you play the sex game and that's a game she really enjoys, for her to put you in that friend position is "using" you for your energy and attention. It's like playing pickup football, and they know thats your game, you try to be modest about your skills and they choose to NOT choose you to play in the game...

Here’s what’s disrespectful. Not that she doesn’t want to date me. Not even that she isn’t attracted to me because I’m “too nice”, not enough tattoos, not the most ripped, whatever the case may be. It’s the fact that she doesn’t believe I deserve happiness, happiness she can’t provide or refuses to provide. Then when I go find that happiness from someone else it’s “we never hangout anymore. Why don’t you have time for friends and a girlfriend? Why just throw away our friendship over a girl”. They think you don’t deserve ***** simply because they don’t want to give you any and they can’t fathom you being attractive to another woman simply because they don’t find you attractive. I will not put a woman I’m fvcking on the back burner for one that won’t fvck me. That’s simply retarted. But that’s what women friends expect you to do:

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

I was out of shape for most of the pandemic and self-sabotaged the whole time because of it. not black pill per-se, but relying too much on looks. I am going to Vegas very overweight and am going to rely on my other traits and self-confidence.

What are you expecting to find in Vegas?

 

[Robert28]

The lack of respect female friends often have for you deep down can be shocking. Occasionally they can no longer hide the disgust and will verbalize it.

Yep. If you’re self aware you can pick up on it just by their actions around you. They don’t respect you, find you undateable yet they want to keep you around.lol

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Here’s what’s disrespectful. Not that she doesn’t want to date me. Not even that she isn’t attracted to me because I’m “too nice”, not enough tattoos, not the most ripped, whatever the case may be. It’s the fact that she doesn’t believe I deserve happiness, happiness she can’t provide or refuses to provide. Then when I go find that happiness from someone else it’s “we never hangout anymore. Why don’t you have time for friends and a girlfriend? Why just throw away our friendship over a girl”. They think you don’t deserve ***** simply because they don’t want to give you any and they can’t fathom you being attractive to another woman simply because they don’t find you attractive. I will not put a woman I’m fvcking on the back burner for one that won’t fvck me. That’s simply retarted. But that’s what women friends expect you to do:

You fit a role in her ecosystem. She will maintain a degraded image of you. She will actively maintain this image, even manipulation of parts of your life. She will c0ck block you to keep you in position. Let you get a woman who values you and treats you good she will get offended and think you think your "hot stuff".

 

[Robert28]

One of them was making fun of me for being single, which I would normally take in stride because I kind of set myself up for it, except she invited me to hang out that day! Like ok, so why would I waste time hanging out with you instead of trying to meet new women then...

Man this girl “friend” asked ME to hangout and I honestly didn’t really feel like it. Plus she lived 50 mins away. So I go over there and she couldn’t have acted less interested in my being there, I was sitting there thinking “ok I want to leave but how do I get out of this?” she saved me though because she stands up and goes “well I’m going to bed, I’m tired”. It was 6:30pm. Yeah she’d been working from 8-4 and had been up since 6 but still, why ask me to hangout if you’re so tired? So I left. She texts me about 30 mins later “is everything ok? You were pretty quiet when you left”. She basically kicks me out and then yet has the nerve to text me 30 mins later to ask me if I’m ok? She could have asked me when I was sitting there instead of acting like she was so disinterested of my being there! She used the excuse of “I’m just tired”. Well fine b!tch sleep for 100 years for all I care. I never hungout with her again even though she asked multiple times after that. I always had the same excuse “sounds like fun but I can’t this weekend”. Word for word gave her that same reply like 5 times in a row.lol

 

[manfrombelow]

Focusing on our looks for most men is an error and not attractive. We can have the looks but it shouldn't be our focus. The focus is fun and people. Be in situations that you are valued and desired.

Disagree. The focus should be on every aspect of your life, looks included.

 

[Robert28]

You fit a role in her ecosystem. She will maintain a degraded image of you. She will actively maintain this image, even manipulation of parts of your life. She will c0ck block you to keep you in position. Let you get a woman who values you and treats you good she will get offended and think you think your "hot stuff".

And that’s why I rail against these friendships. They aren’t legit genuine friendships, they’re for her benefit and her alone. You being her “friend” is your job, your purpose to her. Who the fvck wants to be friends with someone like that? Not me.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

And that’s why I rail against these friendships. They aren’t legit genuine friendships, they’re for her benefit and her alone. You being her “friend” is your job, your purpose to her. Who the fvck wants to be friends with someone like that? Not me.

You did discuss your strong stance on "no Friends without benefits"

 

[Robert28]

You did discuss your strong stance on "no Friends without benefits"

If it helps one guy avoid the mistakes I made then all the better.

 

[Robert28]

You were her extreme backup that evening.

While I recognize a lot of this, it is still a good idea to have some female friends. They will do favors for you as well, so it can be mutual. Cut off the ones that are not mutually beneficial.

I’ve never had a female friend do favors for me. Never had one do anything but take from me and waste my time.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You were her extreme backup that evening.

While I recognize a lot of this, it is still a good idea to have some female friends. They will do favors for you as well, so it can be mutual. Cut off the ones that are not mutually beneficial.

Ask her to pick you up from the airport or when your car is broke down.

 

[Robert28]

Ask her to pick you up from the airport or when your car is broke down.

Ask her to borrow $20 for gas, ask her to give you a ride somewhere, ask her to pick up the tab when you go to lunch or a concert, ask her to buy the concert tickets for that matter, ask HER to drive 50 mins to see you and then kick her out after an hour because you’re tired, ask her to choose you over a guy she dates. Go ahead, asks these things and let me know how it goes.lol

 

[TheNewStyle123]

Frankly, women are a total pain in the ass. And once you bang a hot one the novelty is gone completely.

Especially when you bang a hot one consistently, that gets old eventually too. I have found myself going from 8s to 5s and at that point it just becomes about the sex. Honestly, the most recent 5 I banged gave way better head and was a much better lay than the 8. And the 8 was just a pain in the ass to deal with.

 

[Robert28]

Ive had a few good ones actually. Many of them, yes they are hardly able to pretend to care when you are down.

Well the few are just going to have to miss out on me thanks to the many that have screwed me over.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

some of them legit would. Most will find any excuse not to.

Thats how you find who your real friends are.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Ask her to borrow $20 for gas, ask her to give you a ride somewhere, ask her to pick up the tab when you go to lunch or a concert, ask her to buy the concert tickets for that matter, ask HER to drive 50 mins to see you and then kick her out after an hour because you’re tired, ask her to choose you over a guy she dates. Go ahead, asks these things and let me know how it goes.lol

Very good weed out questions. They definitely do this to their male friends.

 

[Robert28]

Thats how you find who your real friends are.

Oh I’ve got real friends. One I’ve known for 34 years and the other I’ve known for 30. I have an army of guy friends. Not a single woman though, except for the ones married to or dating my guy friends but to me those don’t count as traditional women friends.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Oh I’ve got real friends. One I’ve known for 34 years and the other I’ve known for 30. I have an army of guy friends. Not a single woman though, except for the ones married to or dating my guy friends but to me those don’t count as traditional women friends.

Why would you even want to have female friends?

 

[Robert28]

Why would you even want to have female friends?

Beats me. My worst experiences with women are from women friends, not exes. Let that sink in for a second.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Beats me. My worst experiences with women are from women friends, not exes. Let that sink in for a second.

I think I'm going to try everything on your friend test.