What do you want from women

[BadBoy89]

Other than getting sex or a child, what do you guys want from women? Are you looking for *connection*, *intimacy*, *closeness*, *nourishment*, all of the above, none of the above, something else?

In 2021, I think sex is easy to get. But I think a woman caring about a man is hard to get. Since woman have financial and legal power, they are not dependent on men the way they used to be. Men are for pleasure, men for fun, men for entertainment, men are for novelty.

So I’m wondering, what are you looking to get from a women in 2021?

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

There is nothing else. It's awful spending time around them unless it's sex. And even that gets old pretty quickly.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Other than getting sex or a child,

There is no other reason to have a woman around.

 

[Bandolero]

Commitment in a traditional way.

 

[SargeMaximus]

There is nothing else. It's awful spending time around them unless it's sex. And even that gets old pretty quickly.

This. But I do like the idea of a woman who supports and partners with me on my goals. Like a second in command if
You will. One that tag teams life and other women with me. But I’m a dreamer

 

[Velasco]

love

 

[BigFoot04]

Commitment in a traditional way.

^ I further this.

Its a different feeling when you love and are loved by a woman , you can say all you want about them having no other use but we all know you know it.

Saying that finding a woman who in the traditional sense can provide companionship is very difficult nowadays.

 

[Georgepithyou]

^ I further this.

Its a different feeling when you love and are loved by a woman , you can say all you want about them having no other use but we all know you know it.

Saying that finding a woman who in the traditional sense can provide companionship is very difficult nowadays.

Most guys on this forum are jaded and bitter because of the quality of women they had to deal with online.

Good Single women are very hard to come by these days.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Most guys on this forum are jaded and bitter because of the quality of women they had to deal with online.

Good Single women are very hard to come by these days.

Not just online.

And thanks for pointing out that it starts with the girls. Instead of saying "hit the gym" or some other stereotypical nonsense.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Frankly, women are a total pain in the ass. And once you bang a hot one the novelty is gone completely.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Frankly, women are a total pain in the ass. And once you bang a hot one the novelty is gone completely.

So why is anyone here?

And one problem with that theory is that you'll still be horny the next day. In other words... Your sex drive doesn't disappear forever because you fvcked a hot girl one time.

 

[SW15]

In 2021, I think sex is easy to get. But I think a woman caring about a man is hard to get. Since woman have financial and legal power, they are not dependent on men the way they used to be. Men are for pleasure, men for fun, men for entertainment, men are for novelty.

You think sex is easy to get but the existing data points aren't showing that. Men are more sexless now than in a long time, if ever.

You're correct that women aren't dependent upon men. That affects the sexual marketplace.

Yes, there are men getting sex and not getting cared for by a woman. However, the incel lacks both sex and that sense of connection and caring.

Other than getting sex or a child, what do you guys want from women? Are you looking for *connection*, *intimacy*, *closeness*, *nourishment*, all of the above, none of the above, something else?

So I’m wondering, what are you looking to get from a women in 2021?

I am looking for sex. However, I like the elements of connection, intimacy, and closeness, which I perceive make sex even better. I prefer longevity in my interactions, which is why one night stands are difficult for me.

Most guys on this forum are jaded and bitter because of the quality of women they had to deal with online.

When a man interacts with a woman initially from behind an electronic screen, the interaction is positioned to be worse than any other means possible. In the early stages, women treat men differently based upon the manner in which they first interaction occurs. Guys met on a swipe app experience the absolute worst behavior from women. Men who cold approach don't get much better treatment. This is because app swiping and cold approaching are frictionless environments for women. When a woman treats a man from a swipe app or a cold approach in a subhuman manner, her social circle is not informed of her misbehavior. If she were to do the same to a man that her friends/higher level acquaintances knew, she would get blowback if she misbehaved, which she does not desire. Women will treat men better if there is an incentive to do so. Without incentive, expect the worst possible behavior from women in many cases.

 

[Robert28]

There is no other reason to have a woman around.

Making sammiches. Although most women can’t open a can of spaghetti right these days.

 

[Robert28]

You think sex is easy to get but the existing data points aren't showing that. Men are more sexless now than in a long time, if ever.

You're correct that women aren't dependent upon men. That affects the sexual marketplace.

Yes, there are men getting sex and not getting cared for by a woman. However, the incel lacks both sex and that sense of connection and caring.



I am looking for sex. However, I like the elements of connection, intimacy, and closeness, which I perceive make sex even better. I prefer longevity in my interactions, which is why one night stands are difficult for me.



When a man interacts with a woman initially from behind an electronic screen, the interaction is positioned to be worse than any other means possible. In the early stages, women treat men differently based upon the manner in which they first interaction occurs. Guys met on a swipe app experience the absolute worst behavior from women. Men who cold approach don't get much better treatment. This is because app swiping and cold approaching are frictionless environments for women. When a woman treats a man from a swipe app or a cold approach in a subhuman manner, her social circle is not informed of her misbehavior. If she were to do the same to a man that her friends/higher level acquaintances knew, she would get blowback if she misbehaved, which she does not desire. Women will treat men better if there is an incentive to do so. Without incentive, expect the worst possible behavior from women in many cases.

I don’t care what anyone says, sex is harder to get today than any time I can remember. When I knew less and was less experienced with women I got WAY more sex. Now it’s like actual work to get it, and when you get it you have to work to keep it. I’m no incel but I’ve gotten laid less in my 30’s than I ever did my teens and 20’s. Much less.

 

[Robert28]

So, on this forum, we either have the Incel shut-in, or we have the Black Piller who thinks women are scum.

Very few middle-grounders here anymore.

Women don’t have a middle ground when it comes to men either to be fair. It’s either tingles are present or they are not and let’s eject now.

 

[HaleyBaron]

What do you want from women

To get out of the way so I can watch the ballgame. And wear an apron with nothing else from time to time. Damn it, try to at least seduce me.

 

[Robert28]

Im not focused on women with that comment.

This forum is filled with guys at both extremes. Neither is productive and gets you anywhere meaningful with women.

I think what you’re experiencing on here is a lot of frustrated guys. To me it signals just how crappy the dating market has become. I’ve been here since 2008, I don’t remember as many frustrated guys from then until now as you see on here. I’ve seen the change. You can’t blame it solely on the men though, it’s hard to hold your head up and be positive when you don’t have any success to fall back on.

 

[Xenom0rph]

I want a 2nd-In-Command, I'm the muthaf/cking President and she's the Vice President..... while I'm abroad managing foreign policy, she's to be at home managing domestic policy....

 

[zekko]

There is nothing else. It's awful spending time around them unless it's sex.

I know this viewpoint is common here, but I've never understood it. I've always enjoyed spending time around women, I enjoy their feminine energy, their yin to my yang, I get a charge out of it. They have tremendous nurturing and caretaking attributes, I'm always amazed by it. And contrary to many statements I've seen here, they can be very generous with their time and very helpful, like if you want help painting a room or taking a road trip or something. True, they can get in the way sometimes, but you can say that about anybody.

 

[Plinco]

Youth and energy