How often do women reach out to you?

[user252009]

Lately it's been nuts I been getting hit up like crazy women I haven't spoken to in 5+ years out of the blue

What has changed on your end?

 

[user252009]

Women reach out to me often. Its common for them to send me a friends request on fb and then send me a message. Or I add them and they send me a message.

Normally I will have 5+ women that will reach out to me through messenger or text. Some I have already slept with but most are women that I may have chatted with momentarily and then I stopped responding to them. So they send me the "hey stranger" or "How have you been" texts.

I will tell you its MUCH easier to get laid when you have women messaging you. It takes most of the work right out of it.

Chad amirite

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

What has changed on your end?

There is this over arcing sense of doom that we are eventually going to enter lockdown for 8 months again, we have officially exited lockdown today, the ladies are throwing it at us out here

 

[Bingo-Player]

Why would you reach out when you don't need to ?

Hot chicks will get 100's of messages every single day ......what makes you so special she needs to reach out to you ?

If your lucky Girls will shoot their shot by liking a photo on social media or commenting on a story if she does then you should make your move

Very very rarely a girl is going to cold approach you in todays world

 

[user252009]

Why would you reach out when you don't need to ?

Hot chicks will get 100's of messages every single day ......what makes you so special she needs to reach out to you ?

If your lucky Girls will shoot their shot by liking a photo on social media or commenting on a story if she does then you should make your move

Very very rarely a girl is going to cold approach you in todays world

Don't know about that one, lots of women liking my posts are married or in serious relationships, so...

 

[Bingo-Player]

Don't know about that one, lots of women liking my posts are married or in serious relationships, so...

What is the nature of your content ?

 

[user252009]

What is the nature of your content ?

Related to my creative side-career, or travel

 

[SW15]

So what do they even care about then

Their vaginal tingles. SMV is a combination of looks, money, status, and persona. Persona is often equated with game. Your ability to manipulate her emotional state of being into an excited state will get her to keep coming back to you. Good looks always helps with that.

Money can help with game, but money doesn't have the effect that it once did. Simply put, if your SMV is more heavily weighted towards your money, you need more money now than you did 30 years ago to achieve the same things, outliers exempted. In today's dollars, a guy who is 27+ making $101,000 or $125,000 won't impress women. I know a guy in his late 30s making $130,000 or so and women still him like dirt. If you want to play the income game to attract women in dating, you need to make some sum of money that is well above what they can provide for themselves on their own. In most U.S. metros, I'm thinking the minimum is $200,000 but better effects will be had if income is much higher than that.

There are some lower paid men that attract women with their personas. This is why you see deadbeat guys in blue collar laborer jobs, some low end service sector jobs, etc. getting a lot of pusssy. They often have criminal records, which demonstrates characteristics women find attractive. It shows boldness and a lack of concern for rules. Additionally, these men often have tattoos, which are a part of looks, and demonstrate similar things, especially if large and visible.

 

[user252009]

Their vaginal tingles. SMV is a combination of looks, money, status, and persona. Persona is often equated with game. Your ability to manipulate her emotional state of being into an excited state will get her to keep coming back to you. Good looks always helps with that.

Money can help with game, but money doesn't have the effect that it once did. Simply put, if your SMV is more heavily weighted towards your money, you need more money now than you did 30 years ago to achieve the same things, outliers exempted. In today's dollars, a guy who is 27+ making $101,000 or $125,000 won't impress women. I know a guy in his late 30s making $130,000 or so and women still him like dirt. If you want to play the income game to attract women in dating, you need to make some sum of money that is well above what they can provide for themselves on their own. In most U.S. metros, I'm thinking the minimum is $200,000 but better effects will be had if income is much higher than that.

So for social media orbiters, no chance they'll be getting any tingles from an average looking guy, no matter what his money / status is, eh. Chad or gtfo lol. Do you know how small a percentage is of people that make that kind of money? I'm based in Germany btw. The wahmen can be as delusional as they want, the reality will hit them hard soon enough. In the meantime, I'll keep on doing my thing, my life has constantly been getting better and is still on the rise.

 

[SargeMaximus]

So what do they even care about then

Am also dying to know

 

[oc16]

I have a decent job, a creative and up-and-coming side career, nice place, live in a good city, travel often, what else do they want lol. OK, I'm average looks, but nothing much (apart from workout and grooming, which I already do) I can do about that

I hear ya, I have all of those above things and don't have much going on at the moment.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Their vaginal tingles. SMV is a combination of looks, money, status, and persona. Persona is often equated with game. Your ability to manipulate her emotional state of being into an excited state will get her to keep coming back to you. Good looks always helps with that.

Money can help with game, but money doesn't have the effect that it once did. Simply put, if your SMV is more heavily weighted towards your money, you need more money now than you did 30 years ago to achieve the same things, outliers exempted. In today's dollars, a guy who is 27+ making $101,000 or $125,000 won't impress women. I know a guy in his late 30s making $130,000 or so and women still him like dirt. If you want to play the income game to attract women in dating, you need to make some sum of money that is well above what they can provide for themselves on their own. In most U.S. metros, I'm thinking the minimum is $200,000 but better effects will be had if income is much higher than that.

There are some lower paid men that attract women with their personas. This is why you see deadbeat guys in blue collar laborer jobs, some low end service sector jobs, etc. getting a lot of pusssy. They often have criminal records, which demonstrates characteristics women find attractive. It shows boldness and a lack of concern for rules. Additionally, these men often have tattoos, which are a part of looks, and demonstrate similar things, especially if large and visible.

My brother works at an arcade, is skinny as f*ck. No tattoos, no criminal record. Wears glasses, no real style, tattered shoes, is a major conformist and sjw advocate. But still gets hot girls. So what creates the pvssy tingles?

 

[user252009]

I hear ya, I have all of those above things and don't have much going on at the moment.

I have a LTR going on but literally never have women reach out by themselves - I don't show really that I'm in a relationship on social media

 

[user252009]

My brother works at an arcade, is skinny as f*ck. No tattoos, no criminal record. Wears glasses, no real style, tattered shoes, is a major conformist and sjw advocate. But still gets hot girls. So what creates the pvssy tingles?

His game must be lvl 999..or his height..or both

 

[SargeMaximus]

His game must be lvl 999..or his height..or both

He’s shorter than me. Doesn’t even have a car. Lately it’s driving me nuts I can’t figure it out

 

[SW15]

So for social media orbiters, no chance they'll be getting any tingles from an average looking guy, no matter what his money / status is, eh. Chad or gtfo lol

No. If a guy is average looking but has really high status and money, he can get a girlfriend. He'll need more money and more status than he would have needed a generation ago to accomplish the same thing.

Social media orbiting a woman is not a best way to her panties to drop for you.

My brother works at an arcade, is skinny as f*ck. No tattoos, no criminal record. Wears glasses, no real style, tattered shoes, is a major conformist and sjw advocate. But still gets hot girls. So what creates the pvssy tingles?

He’s shorter than me. Doesn’t even have a car. Lately it’s driving me nuts I can’t figure it out

Perhaps he's an outlier. I have nothing. It must be his persona. When you said SJW advocate, perhaps he had status in the SJW movement in his community and was banging SJW/feminist women. When you said hot girls, that eliminated the idea of fervent SJW chicks, who are usually not hot.

Why would you reach out when you don't need to ?

Hot chicks will get 100's of messages every single day ......what makes you so special she needs to reach out to you ?

Very very rarely a girl is going to cold approach you in todays world

Outside of Bumble, women are not going to make the first move on either social media or swipe apps.

Women have no need to cold approach.

It's possible to get a woman to reach out to you to re-start something after you've already banged her before. That would happen if someone about you is fantastic and makes you outstanding in her eyes.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Perhaps he's an outlier. I have nothing. It must be his persona. When you said SJW advocate, perhaps he had status in the SJW movement in his community and was banging SJW/feminist women. When you said hot girls, that eliminated the idea of fervent SJW chicks, who are usually not hot.

I thought that’s what game allowed a regular guy to do: bang hot girls he normally couldn’t get. Maybe he has game but maybe game is something other than what’s been mentioned here I don’t know

 

[Dash Riprock]

I've learned that women essentially almost never reach out to me by themselves. If I contact them, they'll usually respond etc., but usually, they orbit but never reach out.

Funny. I woke up this morning and had 2 texts from women I went luke warm on. One FWB I haven't seen in almost a year messages me every few weeks. I sense she has a beta boyfriend but wants s*x. Huge age difference with all 3 of these btw.

Women want MEN, not boys. Huge difference.

 

[EyeBRollin]

My girlfriend reaches out to me every day. She always initiates contact. While dating her at the beginning she initiated contact after our first phone call.

Men, when they initiate contact you have been pre-selected. That’s what to look for from a woman.

 

[allergictobs]

My brother works at an arcade, is skinny as f*ck. No tattoos, no criminal record. Wears glasses, no real style, tattered shoes, is a major conformist and sjw advocate. But still gets hot girls. So what creates the pvssy tingles?

I think many people on this and similar forums think too straightforwardly about what women want, or what guys need to be/do in order to get women.

Based on my experience, people in general, and women especially, are different in their needs and wants. Guys are generally more simple, we know what we want. But even with guys, preferences vary widely. I'm not attracted to women who are outgoing, I like the shy ones. I also don't like big breasts. Etc. I know many guys who are completely the opposite, they lust over the most popular girl with big boobs.

Women may often disqualify themselves from dating certain types of guys. For example, I have known women who are looking for a guy with whom they don't feel inadequate. Sure, maybe they sometimes daydream about meeting a hot celebrity and falling in love, the same way guys may dream about meeting a porn star and having sex with her. But it's not reality, and most women still know this.

Most women are insecure and if they think a guy is too hot for them, they may very well pass and instead go for safer options. In general, they are terrified of rejection, much more so than guys are. I believe most shy girls never directly reach out to any guy in their entire life, especially if the guy is high value and they think they might not get a favorable response.