Wall chick laments: I have found that men my age no longer see me the same way? Is settling for a less attractive man my only option now?

[mrgoodstuff]

There was me, a lawyer who worked part time, a gym maxed shorter guy, another super tall black guy who she told me was being openly sexual since day 1, yet said his wife always texted him so he had to be in his phone all day at work.

My supervisors boss also sucked me off in a spare room while one of the clients was gone for surgery.

That job was a mess.

They need to make a porn movie in there.

 

[Sam_J]

This woman I used to work with, her name was S; she was a straight 10, very fit, always dressed in athletic yet slightly suggestive attire, I didn't even know she had any tattoos, I saw her with a t shirt and shorts before, didn't see any, then I saw her naked and she is inked almost black, up and down.

I was working entry level at a new job at that time, I was like... 22, she was 37.

We worked with a staff of black men, I was brand new, me and S hit it off, but eventually after a while, I began to suspect she was banging more than just me, until eventually I found clues at work and pieced together that she was probably banging the entire staff.

I left a tape recorder and my supervisor pounder her out 3 times in an hour and he's this African guy with like 8 kids at home lol... didn't pull out or anything from what I heard, but it was a group home so there were clients who weren't responsive to their environment, some left with their parents for the day.

S was a bad, bad bish, I banged her out in my girl friends truck, was dating a 50 year old milf who was paying all my bills at that time lmao, was this huge truck lifted to the point you needed a foot ladder.

S wanted to date I laughed

Funniest part of that is the fact that you dated a 50 year old when you were 22.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Funniest part of that is the fact that you dated a 50 year old when you were 22.

Well she was a family friend, I went to stay with her for a month, nothing actually happened for about 2.5 months, mainly because when I was using her laptop, I was logged into PoF, so me and her are sitting in her bed watching a comedy because we were good friends we worked together in the past.
Her son enters the room, he's 11, announced that he doesn't know what's happening between us but that I was using PoF and I never put it together in how her son was looking at it until that second.
She acknowledged it, he closed the door and we continued on like nothing happened, she never made anything available to me so I never pursued her until she did.
I didn't even end up meeting anybody on that round of PoF so I just took an L for nothing but I didn't realize how things looked.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

They need to make a porn movie in there.

This stuff is so common man, like in this field of working in group homes, you develop a bond with the clients, but also your team and shift mate specifically. Sometimes some very stressful, crazy and traumatic things can happen, all help to form bonds. You execute plans together, work as a group to create strategies for new behaviors.

Sometimes I would work for 48 hours straight, the thing is you don't sleep well overnight at the group homes and you gotta sleep over 2 nights in a row on a 48, so then your stressed and no sleep.

Then you have the actual homes people stay in, they have clients that live with them, so we'll go stay in a spare room for a day to a month at a time... These families are always crazy stressed out, so the idea is for me to go in and make their home a group home, I treat them like my teammates, give them responsibilities, create structure. You essentially come in and get to be the hero, marriage is strained heavily by caring for children with disabilities, many grateful wives, maaaany and your living in the house with them lol.

Then, to top it all off, sometimes families go on vacation, so they leave us with the client in their home, so the client is in a familiar surrounding and less stressed by family departure... All the neighbors start coming around if your outside obviously, questions... Then staff comes over to relieve you, however 90% staff are women, so she walks in, were now alone in a giant empty house other than the client who most are somewhat self autonomous for a limited time.

I could go on, the dussy potential was off the charts

 

[Sam_J]

Well she was a family friend, I went to stay with her for a month, nothing actually happened for about 2.5 months, mainly because when I was using her laptop, I was logged into PoF, so me and her are sitting in her bed watching a comedy because we were good friends we worked together in the past.
Her son enters the room, he's 11, announced that he doesn't know what's happening between us but that I was using PoF and I never put it together in how her son was looking at it until that second.
She acknowledged it, he closed the door and we continued on like nothing happened, she never made anything available to me so I never pursued her until she did.
I didn't even end up meeting anybody on that round of PoF so I just took an L for nothing but I didn't realize how things looked.

Well I mean if she was hot then cool haha. Im sure there are some 50 yo women still hot but not many lol

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Well I mean if she was hot then cool haha. Im sure there are some 50 yo women still hot but not many lol

Hahahahaha.

I was gonna spare you this but now I won't.

So maybe month 5, she had just begun to speak about marriage and I mean this broad was loaded, so I eased into it. I walk into what is now our room, used to be her room, and I sit on the bed, she's in the mirror, keep in mind, she was a smoke show still, fit, big butt, Lebanese, always approached by black guys but racist as hell. Give her a 8/10 at 50...

Well, she's sitting in front of her mirror, pulse out this long almost hidden drawer that I never saw, had 4 different wigs inside on the white head stands, she then to my horror, takes her wig off and reveals she's basically bald with stringy matted hair left which sat beneath this wig net thing on her head.

Because this just wasn't enough right, THEN she takes off these retainer looking things on her teeth and reveals her actual teeth for the first time to me, were few left and they were green and yellow.

Sitting there, i realized we had slept together for months while she had a wig and teeth set on, that is kind of Creepy.

Sorry I won't thread jack anymore

 

[SW15]

At 31, and with her physical attributes she lists, coupled with her being “above average” in looks according to her own self reporting, she should be having zero trouble getting men , even higher SMV men, to pursue her.

There is either a personality flaw that has become public knowledge that makes everyone scared to touch her on the dating scene or she is just lying about her physical attributes. Poisoning the well does happen where a woman becomes known as a psycho and, even if she’s hot, higher SMV men won’t touch her due to her reputation. So it’s possible she isn’t lying but still experiencing difficulty. Granted, all she’d have to do is get on Tinder or Bumble and she’d have more matches than she knew what to do with. So maybe she is lying.

She's likely overrating her own looks. 5'6" and 136 is a 21.9 BMI, which is average. She's also saying that her workout habits are far from ideal. She's also suffering from a lack of sleep. If that lack of sleep and less than ideal exercise pattern continued, she would not age well.

She lives in Los Angeles, so nothing is publicly known. In big cities, the entire dating market can't know her.

She has an insufferable careerist personality, is entitled, and wants a top tier man without offering him anything. At the same time, she is drawing significant interest from betas but she isn't at all interested.

 

[MatureDJ]

There was me, a lawyer who worked part time, a gym maxed shorter guy ...

A ShortCel and a GymCel?

... another super tall black guy who she told me was being openly sexual since day 1, yet said his wife always texted him so he had to be in his phone all day at work.

Being commandingly tall is like living life on easy mode.

I guess that once a chick thinks that you are desirable enough, she automatically thinks that there are a lot of other chicks that think the same, and thus do this kind of surveillance. Suffice it to say, this has rarely been the case with me.

 

[MatureDJ]

Hahahahaha.

I was gonna spare you this but now I won't.

So maybe month 5, she had just begun to speak about marriage and I mean this broad was loaded, so I eased into it. I walk into what is now our room, used to be her room, and I sit on the bed, she's in the mirror, keep in mind, she was a smoke show still, fit, big butt, Lebanese, always approached by black guys but racist as hell. Give her a 8/10 at 50...

Well, she's sitting in front of her mirror, pulse out this long almost hidden drawer that I never saw, had 4 different wigs inside on the white head stands, she then to my horror, takes her wig off and reveals she's basically bald with stringy matted hair left which sat beneath this wig net thing on her head.

Because this just wasn't enough right, THEN she takes off these retainer looking things on her teeth and reveals her actual teeth for the first time to me, were few left and they were green and yellow.

Sitting there, i realized we had slept together for months while she had a wig and teeth set on, that is kind of Creepy.

Sorry I won't thread jack anymore

When you have content like that, you are more than welcome to thread jack. Except for being a tranny or being obese, baldness in a woman zaps the penile engorgement like nothing else. Bad teeth are also a big turnoff.

 

[bat soup]

A careerist with an insufferable personality is "nice to have"?

Nice to have from behind, maybe, if she´ll just shut up for a minute.

 

[RangerMIke]

Same thing happens with men, but for different reasons... we call this a 'mid-life crisis', it is that point in your life where you realize where you are isn't where you expected to be when you were younger.

When I was a brand new 2LT in the Army, my Brigade Commander at the time said something to me that I will never forget. It was at a farewell event where he was leaving the Brigade and had just learned that he did not come out on the flag officer list (he was not going to be promoted to general). He said said smiling, "One day EVERY officer in the Army wakes up, looks in the mirror and they realized that they are not General Patton." Then he suggested that EVERY Army Officer should mentally prepare for this cathartic moment.

The problem with women is that so many of them are so driven by their emotions, they fail to see that this is just a natural course that everyone takes. But the good news for women like this is she will rant for a bit... then her ability to sail along emotional winds... she will get over this, get some dogs or cats, find other older women who are like her, and meet her emotional needs in other ways... she'll be fine.

Many men... well... because of our biology, will just fall into self-destructive behavior or just kill themselves intentionally or by accident.

 

[bat soup]

Many men... well... because of our biology, will just fall into self-destructive behavior or just kill themselves intentionally or by accident.

That's something to look forward to.

"One day EVERY officer in the Army wakes up, looks in the mirror and they realized that they are not General Patton."

But they can be Captain Saveaho.

 

[Barrister]

Same thing happens with men, but for different reasons... we call this a 'mid-life crisis', it is that point in your life where you realize where you are isn't where you expected to be when you were younger.

When I was a brand new 2LT in the Army, my Brigade Commander at the time said something to me that I will never forget. It was at a farewell event where he was leaving the Brigade and had just learned that he did not come out on the flag officer list (he was not going to be promoted to general). He said said smiling, "One day EVERY officer in the Army wakes up, looks in the mirror and they realized that they are not General Patton." Then he suggested that EVERY Army Officer should mentally prepare for this cathartic moment.

The problem with women is that so many of them are so driven by their emotions, they fail to see that this is just a natural course that everyone takes. But the good news for women like this is she will rant for a bit... then her ability to sail along emotional winds... she will get over this, get some dogs or cats, find other older women who are like her, and meet her emotional needs in other ways... she'll be fine.

Many men... well... because of our biology, will just fall into self-destructive behavior or just kill themselves intentionally or by accident.

This was very uplifting until the last sentence.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

A ShortCel and a GymCel?


Being commandingly tall is like living life on easy mode.

I guess that once a chick thinks that you are desirable enough, she automatically thinks that there are a lot of other chicks that think the same, and thus do this kind of surveillance. Suffice it to say, this has rarely been the case with me.

The thing with our job there is that we are teaching clients how to slowly transition into public which means sometimes controlling violent outbursts in a public place... The best workers to do that are the new immigrants because they themselves have just recently had to transition into our cultures public society, they are usually big and strong or short and fast and they work extremely cheap.

This house just had high behavior clients so the pay was better so more experienced family guys usually got the roles

 

[PRW63]

Her issue with not feeling attracted to a guy could also be that she is only finding feminized betas. If she finds a solid masculine guy she will feel attracted. Women are not as attracted by sight as men are,...it is an emotional thing for them (no, they don't know that, but it is true). If a guy looks "haut" in a picture but then when she meets him his personality doesn't jive with his looks she will be repulsed by him.

So it isn't as bleak for her as she thinks, other than she has to look past the 150+ SIMPS & betas to find one single masculine guy. If she is at least a 5-6 and acts femine,...he will accept her.

 

[Bokanovsky]

no such thing as the wall for an average 31 year old woman, shes lying about looks or obesity

It depends on genetics. Some women still look good at 31, while others look like sh*t (and not just because of obesity or excessive drinking and smoking).

At the end of the day, the older she gets, the less attractive she becomes, and the less attractive a man she can attract. The fact that she needed to ask a question about this on reddit is kind of a head-scratcher.

 

[PRW63]

The fact that she needed to ask a question about this on reddit is kind of a head-scratcher.

The fact that anyone asks a question on Reddit is a head scratcher. Reddit is the biggest snake pit of the blind leading the blind on the Internet.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This stuff is so common man, like in this field of working in group homes, you develop a bond with the clients, but also your team and shift mate specifically. Sometimes some very stressful, crazy and traumatic things can happen, all help to form bonds. You execute plans together, work as a group to create strategies for new behaviors.

Sometimes I would work for 48 hours straight, the thing is you don't sleep well overnight at the group homes and you gotta sleep over 2 nights in a row on a 48, so then your stressed and no sleep.

Then you have the actual homes people stay in, they have clients that live with them, so we'll go stay in a spare room for a day to a month at a time... These families are always crazy stressed out, so the idea is for me to go in and make their home a group home, I treat them like my teammates, give them responsibilities, create structure. You essentially come in and get to be the hero, marriage is strained heavily by caring for children with disabilities, many grateful wives, maaaany and your living in the house with them lol.

Then, to top it all off, sometimes families go on vacation, so they leave us with the client in their home, so the client is in a familiar surrounding and less stressed by family departure... All the neighbors start coming around if your outside obviously, questions... Then staff comes over to relieve you, however 90% staff are women, so she walks in, were now alone in a giant empty house other than the client who most are somewhat self autonomous for a limited time.

I could go on, the dussy potential was off the charts

"Group homes"?

 

[zekko]

This is the age old classic story, woman gets older and doesn't have the same options she had when she was younger. Youth and beauty are valuable assets in the dating world. This is why women should lock a good guy down when she is still at her peak. I'm sure she can still get a guy, but she doesn't have the number of choices she had when she was younger. The top guy she's wanting now is likely checking out the younger women. She should accept that her choices have narrowed, and work with what she has.

 

[MatureDJ]

Same thing happens with men, but for different reasons... we call this a 'mid-life crisis', it is that point in your life where you realize where you are isn't where you expected to be when you were younger.

When I was a brand new 2LT in the Army, my Brigade Commander at the time said something to me that I will never forget. It was at a farewell event where he was leaving the Brigade and had just learned that he did not come out on the flag officer list (he was not going to be promoted to general). He said said smiling, "One day EVERY officer in the Army wakes up, looks in the mirror and they realized that they are not General Patton." Then he suggested that EVERY Army Officer should mentally prepare for this cathartic moment.

The problem with women is that so many of them are so driven by their emotions, they fail to see that this is just a natural course that everyone takes. But the good news for women like this is she will rant for a bit... then her ability to sail along emotional winds... she will get over this, get some dogs or cats, find other older women who are like her, and meet her emotional needs in other ways... she'll be fine.

Many men... well... because of our biology, will just fall into self-destructive behavior or just kill themselves intentionally or by accident.

I thought a brigade commander is a Brigadier General.