My girlfriend and I recently broke up. She initiated the breakup I do care for her. However, she continues to be down to have sex and asks me to go over to spend the night with her. Should I continue and turn her into a plate as I have fun with other women or go no contact with her?
So,...she's not interested in you for any form of a Relationship,...but is DTF????
That is the definition of a slut. So this is real easy to figure out. If you want to bang a slut, then bang a slut. If you don't want to bang a slut, then don't bang a slut.
Problem solved.
"turn her into a plate"....That has got to be the stupidest analogy created (no Rollo didn't come up with it, he just uses it,...it pre-dates Rollo by years). You don't "turn someone into a plate",...that is just stupid imagery. What spinning plates means is just Casual Dating,...that's it,...that is all it means. Casually Dating is just dating a woman that you have not achieved relationships status with, hence you can date more than one at once.
So think about it...
You were in a relationship with her. She dumped you,...yes she did. "WE".... didn't break up,...she dumped you. So she says you aren't worth having a relationship with but you are ok to bang once in a while,...when she has the time and not banging some other guy that outranks you. But as soon as she sees a guy she thinks outranks you, then you go on the back burner until the new guy doesn't pan out for her. She'll let you keep her from getting too bored until the next guy that outranks you comes along. Is that what your goal is?...that's what you want? No it isn't. You only want to go along with whatever penalty box she puts you in so that you have something to dip it in once in a while, and you want to "stay nearby" (stay in her orbit) because you hope she will change her mind and give you the relationship that you thought was so great but she took away from you,...but the very fact you are willing to do that is why she doesn't respect you.