Probably the last post I'm going to make on here. Pissed, crushed, confused, happy. I don't know what to feel.

[Bandolero]

Double Standards at its finest. Stop acting like a b
You are probably butt hurt because his diq is bigger than yours . Get back up my man.

 

[deadmasterx]

You can't control other people do, but you can control how you react.

But honestly speaking, I couldn't help but think what if this whole situation was the other way around. I have a feeling that the gentlemen here would be like "She's not your girlfriend, so why would you care if she caught you smashing a big black ass?". It fits both ways, gentlemen. Don't do to people what you don't want people to do to you.

 

[CBear]

She ended up contacting me and I allowed her to come over so we can talk. She was trying to put a lot of blame on me saying that when she caught me f-ing someone here at my own place a while back that I told her "we aren't together so why should it matter" and she kept it cool. Which I agree, she did keep it cool. I told her that I was just acting out of emotion in the moment and I honestly don't care what she did.. but I Knew she was going to bring up the friends thing.. I told her I said it out of emotion and never really f-ed her friends. (I did f- one of her friends though). She didn't believe me and kept asking who it was saying that she needs to know which one of her friends is a snake so she can cut her off. I told her it didn't matter and that it was a one off thing. She threw out a name and it ended up being that same chick. I stayed silent and she went off saying "why why did you do that? why would you f- one of my close friends? do you know hurtful that is?" .. I told her what does it matter, we both hurt each other without realizing we would. She broke down saying that she feels like her reputation is ruined and that she never felt like a hoe in her life till now..

I brought up her manipulating the black dude, telling him that she loves him, and all this other stuff, saying that he was one of the best partners she's ever had and all type of stuff. and how he bought her nice things and all that, yet she didn't tell him that she was sleeping with me.. and then kinda went on a rant about how I never expected any better from a girl who thinks shes an IG model because she has 60k followers and has an onlyfans account.

We talked for a pretty long time and I found out something I didn't realize.. that we basically both chose each other in a partner because we both wanted someone we can enjoy sexual pleasure with without getting attached. When I found that out, its like my eyes opened in a major way. Apparently both her and I have insecurities about trust. We end up f-ing and then after I tell her it's best for her to leave. She says something like "have a good life". I didn't say anything back. I think she knew that I was done with her the way I F-ed her. Plus while I was f-ing her I couldn't help but think of that black dude impaling her saying "say my name b.tch". The only humor within all of this is, I used to say the same thing to her.

I can say I got some closure out of this and feel satisfied. For 3 whole months, I got to feel like a pornstar, banging a pornstar level bi.tch and even got some cooch from one of her co worker friends. The confidence I got from the time we were casually dating is immense and .. while I'm totally going to miss out on f-ing like rabbits and being super naughty in public places or anywhere we went.. I'm looking forward to what the future holds.

Most guys tend to get way too butthurt when they won't commit but still get poon and then figure out that poon is getting action elsewhere. It's a major ego thing. It's the man's job to set the precedent for each relationship. You already banged her coworker and she knew about it. You can't seriously get hurt over her doing similar. If she slept with someone while you were being loyal, that's a little different. But if she would've continued seeing you, you would have kept sleeping with what you could find on the side. That's obviously not gonna end well, ESPECIALLY with an "ig model" with an onlyfans page. Glad you learned from this.

 

[Epimanes]

Don't do to people what you don't want people to do to you.

Back in elementary school in my days.... (I'm 43 soon) ... this was the "golden rule" and it was on a huge poster board when you entered the classroom. But it read "do unto others as you would have them do unto you" Guess schools don't teach that anymore.

All these guys on here "spinning plates" .... and then "slvt shaming" when they are doing it too... double standards much?

I personally couldn't ever be fvcking multi women... 1. Risk to my health... 2. Risk to my partners health 3. Lowers the value of a sexual relationship.. so I stick to one at a time. Condoms or not.. risks too high for me. I have more respect for myself and other people than to just use women like that or allow myself to be used as such... *shrugs* ... maybe I'm just old school.


To each their own though.. good luck!

Epi

 

[Lookatu]

*shrugs* ... maybe I'm just old school.

You are old school man.

Remember "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names can't hurt me"? Whatever happened to that?

So many butthurt people leading to suicides and such from the internet. We need to teach our kids better and reimplement all the old school phrases IMO.

 

[TheCharmingGuy]

Back in elementary school in my days.... (I'm 43 soon) ... this was the "golden rule" and it was on a huge poster board when you entered the classroom. But it read "do unto others as you would have them do unto you" Guess schools don't teach that anymore.

All these guys on here "spinning plates" .... and then "slvt shaming" when they are doing it too... double standards much?

I personally couldn't ever be fvcking multi women... 1. Risk to my health... 2. Risk to my partners health 3. Lowers the value of a sexual relationship.. so I stick to one at a time. Condoms or not.. risks too high for me. I have more respect for myself and other people than to just use women like that or allow myself to be used as such... *shrugs* ... maybe I'm just old school.


To each their own though.. good luck!

Epi

Yeah, I wish today’s relationship life wasn’t mostly sex and not enough real love... but it is. Every once in a while you might find someone actually caring who loves you and wants to marry you, but more often you’ll just find a bang buddy. Marriage is becoming less common because people don’t like making commitments anymore... and with social media and the internet today it’s super easy to cheat. Once again, I wish that love came first and sex came after, but the world is too full of horny dudes who just want pvssy, and on that point, horny slvts who just want c0ck. I hope everyone on this site finds real love one day, but I know that most of them will just stick to sex. It’s a bit sad if I’m being honest but it’s a sad world.
Also please refrain from hate text responses to this message saying I’m old school and I respect women too much and that I should pay more attention so I don’t get behind, blah blah blah. I know what I’m talking about, I’m not an amateur.

 

[soulforge]

Anyone getting strong Troll vibes??

 

[Lookatu]

Yeah, I wish today’s relationship life wasn’t mostly sex and not enough real love... but it is. Every once in a while you might find someone actually caring who loves you and wants to marry you, but more often you’ll just find a bang buddy. Marriage is becoming less common because people don’t like making commitments anymore... and with social media and the internet today it’s super easy to cheat. Once again, I wish that love came first and sex came after, but the world is too full of horny dudes who just want pvssy, and on that point, horny slvts who just want c0ck. I hope everyone on this site finds real love one day, but I know that most of them will just stick to sex. It’s a bit sad if I’m being honest but it’s a sad world.
Also please refrain from hate text responses to this message saying I’m old school and I respect women too much and that I should pay more attention so I don’t get behind, blah blah blah. I know what I’m talking about, I’m not an amateur.

Church Game. Not always guaranteed but a start...

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Church Game. Not always guaranteed but a start...

I hear the dating in the singles ministry is much better than online or bars and clubs.

 

[Lookatu]

I hear the dating in the singles ministry is much better than online or bars and clubs.

Sadly, this might be the last chance for some to find a decent gal these days...