Probably the last post I'm going to make on here. Pissed, crushed, confused, happy. I don't know what to feel.

[Mister_Skinny_Jeanz]

What are you even talking about? The op post or mine?

yours, the whole chick sneakin off n shii ,
honestly to me willingness to sneak off while you were sleep is way risky , she wanted to get caught but why? i say she was in some kinda feelings

 

[SargeMaximus]

yours, the whole chick sneakin off n shii ,
honestly to me willingness to sneak off while you were sleep is way risky , she wanted to get caught but why? i say she was in some kinda feelings

Feelings for me? I doubt that. It was our first night. Regardless I grabbed my stuff, interrupting them and left.

 

[Mister_Skinny_Jeanz]

Feelings for me? I doubt that. It was our first night. Regardless I grabbed my stuff, interrupting them and left.

thats fucin weird and disrespectful man , wtf

 

[Mister_Skinny_Jeanz]

Every now and then, I just like to enjoy the empty shallowness of it all.

Forget the fact she's sneaking around, forget all the rules...

Just invite her over, fvck the sh!t out of her, tell her I'll call her in a few days, and then just....don't.

got this chick i met in GA , met her like 6 years ago from time to time she travels out here to get the d1ck . then goes back home i wont hear from her for months

 

[SargeMaximus]

thats fucin weird and disrespectful man , wtf

**** off. They disrespected ME by interrupting MY time with the girl. They don’t deserve consideration.

 

[Mister_Skinny_Jeanz]

**** off. They disrespected ME by interrupting MY time with the girl. They don’t deserve consideration.

lol im saying she was weird and disrespectful home slice... not you

 

[SargeMaximus]

lol im saying she was weird and disrespectful home slice... not you

Ah my bad, misinterpreted you. Yeah totally agree, hence why I nexted.

 

[Mister_Skinny_Jeanz]

Ah my bad, misinterpreted you. Yeah totally agree, hence why I nexted.

all good homie,
yeah good choice

 

[Glassguy]

2 thoughts here-

This is why you dont put women on a pedestal.

This seems like something Maurey Povich or Jerry Springer would jump all over.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

a
You refer to her as a 'plate" and as a free agent, you were also sleeping with her friend... (no judgment on my end, that's what a plate is)
and as a free agent, she behaves similarly...

...yet you are the "victim?"

yours, the whole chick sneakin off n shii ,
honestly to me willingness to sneak off while you were sleep is way risky , she wanted to get caught but why? i say she was in some kinda feelings

She wanted to "sneak" on him. Something I noticed is many folks have an addiction with the illicit naturer, or the lies and deception, that's where their LUST is, it ain't even all about the sex for those types. Many folks are built like that, were it's going to be "better" for them, if there is a lie, a deception, or they sneak for it. Kinda like a paradise for "theives". They will desire to "steal" even if they don't need to.

 

[King Lion]

This has been a good lesson for OP and bruh that was hittin' OP's "plate" and any man with eyes to see and ears to hear.

So I will always advocate for quality over quantity because of this: "For they that sleep with dogs, shall rise with fleas."

Give not thy strength unto women, Nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings. - Proverbs 31:3

 

[Grounded eagle]

Yeah....that was never really a plate

 

[Paper Crane]

She ended up contacting me and I allowed her to come over so we can talk. She was trying to put a lot of blame on me saying that when she caught me f-ing someone here at my own place a while back that I told her "we aren't together so why should it matter" and she kept it cool. Which I agree, she did keep it cool. I told her that I was just acting out of emotion in the moment and I honestly don't care what she did.. but I Knew she was going to bring up the friends thing.. I told her I said it out of emotion and never really f-ed her friends. (I did f- one of her friends though). She didn't believe me and kept asking who it was saying that she needs to know which one of her friends is a snake so she can cut her off. I told her it didn't matter and that it was a one off thing. She threw out a name and it ended up being that same chick. I stayed silent and she went off saying "why why did you do that? why would you f- one of my close friends? do you know hurtful that is?" .. I told her what does it matter, we both hurt each other without realizing we would. She broke down saying that she feels like her reputation is ruined and that she never felt like a hoe in her life till now..

I brought up her manipulating the black dude, telling him that she loves him, and all this other stuff, saying that he was one of the best partners she's ever had and all type of stuff. and how he bought her nice things and all that, yet she didn't tell him that she was sleeping with me.. and then kinda went on a rant about how I never expected any better from a girl who thinks shes an IG model because she has 60k followers and has an onlyfans account.

We talked for a pretty long time and I found out something I didn't realize.. that we basically both chose each other in a partner because we both wanted someone we can enjoy sexual pleasure with without getting attached. When I found that out, its like my eyes opened in a major way. Apparently both her and I have insecurities about trust. We end up f-ing and then after I tell her it's best for her to leave. She says something like "have a good life". I didn't say anything back. I think she knew that I was done with her the way I F-ed her. Plus while I was f-ing her I couldn't help but think of that black dude impaling her saying "say my name b.tch". The only humor within all of this is, I used to say the same thing to her.

I can say I got some closure out of this and feel satisfied. For 3 whole months, I got to feel like a pornstar, banging a pornstar level bi.tch and even got some cooch from one of her co worker friends. The confidence I got from the time we were casually dating is immense and .. while I'm totally going to miss out on f-ing like rabbits and being super naughty in public places or anywhere we went.. I'm looking forward to what the future holds.

 

[Lookatu]

This drama sounds like a lot of bf/gf $hit. Not the kind of thing you'd actually engage with a real "plate".

 

[Mister_Skinny_Jeanz]

She wanted to "sneak" on him. Something I noticed is many folks have an addiction with the illicit naturer, or the lies and deception, that's where their LUST is, it ain't even all about the sex for those types. Many folks are built like that, were it's going to be "better" for them, if there is a lie, a deception, or they sneak for it. Kinda like a paradise for "theives". They will desire to "steal" even if they don't need to.

so like a guilty pleasure , the risk of getting caught was turn on

 

[mrgoodstuff]

so like a guilty pleasure , the risk of getting caught was turn on

Thats what it was.

 

[Mister_Skinny_Jeanz]

Thats what it was.

i would say the beaches are sick but it is what it is

 

[mrgoodstuff]

i would say the beaches are sick but it is what it is

Some of them literally are "monsters" have a bf or hubby just to have someone to use, lie to, deceive, cheat on, play against.

 

[Mister_Skinny_Jeanz]

Some of them literally are "monsters" have a bf or hubby just to have someone to use, lie to, deceive, cheat on, play against.

it's a cold world out here mane , bundle up

 

[MatureDJ]

Calling her a plate.... you were lieing to yourself.... it she was a plate you woulda never cared to even go "check up on her" .... anyways I'm sure it's lesson learned. I don't think I could "spin plates" myself... too much drama.. too costly... my woman is either with me... or she's not. Her behavior will tell me everything I need to know.

Sucks you had to run into that though... coulda been alot less words and more fists... glad there wasn't. Hopefully she's not some #metoo type now and goes after both of you with some BS.

Be safe man

Agreed. Any gal that is considered to be a "plate" is one that should be easily replaceable. You are showing the behavior of a man without options.