Dude. This is GOLD. Thanks for the tip buddy - I have been trying to plan what to say if she reaches out again to be assertive, truthful, and blunt and that's an excellent response. It shows I am not admitting "guilt" because I didn't do anything wrong, while simultaneously putting the ball in her court and calling her out on BS.
While you dont want to come out and call her a tease (being covert is better than overt when dealing with women most of the time), you can imply it in a way that she will understand what you're saying.
I date/spin higher quality women. Ones that are attractive, educated (bachelor's degree +) and financially independent. Non smokers and absolutely no drug use (not even weed). They cant have young kids (toddlers). Those are my deal breakers. Not that I wont smash a few here and there that meet my criteria but they arent "dating material". As such, these women of higher quality know what they bring to the table and I dont expect their legs to fly open and pull me on top of them after buying 2 rounds of drinks on the first meet up. However if they do, I will smash and they turn into lower quality in my eyes.
That being said, I have no problems with a woman who doesnt put out on the first date.....or second date.....sometimes even a third date. As long as things are progressing, I will eventually get the goods and have fun on the dates until then.
However this woman was sexual, seductive, brought sex into the conversations, etc. That is totally different. As such she is being a tease. On top of that, she played the victim card after you acted accordingly and escalated for what you thought she wanted, based off of her actions and words.
Normally the victim card is instant dismissal as it shows that she is entitled, crazy or both. She can go play in traffic if she wants to play the poor me game. Not interested.
So I would advise you to play this SLOW and put the issue on her if she reaches out. Expect her to play the victim card again if she reaches out and you dump the proverbial shyte on top of her head. Thats ok too, you simply say "You are not what I am looking for and we arent compatible" and move on without any more conversation with her.
If it were me I would be done with her but still let her know whats up with her attitude on my way out. Its great for your self worth and self respect. A lot of these chicks need a dose of reality sometimes but I only give it to them when I am torching the bridge on my way out and have no intentions of ever speaking to them again.
Good luck.
