Black pill fantasy

[corrector]

A lot of misconception comes from certain redpill-gurus on youtube.
These guys permanently paint an image of the "high value man" (6ft, 6 figure income, 6pack etc.etc.) that 99,99% of the guys out there will not achieve.

What the blackpilled brothers here have to see is, they dont have to be the "high value man", they only have to be in the top 20% of men to have access to 80% of the women out there.

Having a look at the competition you beat 80% by:
*having an income, a decent car/habitation
*being confident
*be in good physical shape
*be groomed
*wear clean sportive-elegant clothing
*having a fundamental competence in comunication with women
*having a fundamental understanding of female nature

So what is wrong with @sangheilios then? It seems he posses all of that.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

So what is wrong with @sangheilios then? It seems he posses all of that.

He lacks confidence (has psychological obstacles to overcome)

 

[corrector]

He lacks confidence (has psychological obstacles to overcome)

So that missing ingredient makes his situation the same as me. Its the great equalizer. I figure if you dont have confidence then all the other maxxes are bs. If you dont believe you have what it takes to get a girl at a gut level, then nothing, and I mean nothing can work and your pride wont let you dumpster dive if you are too accomplished so you end up incel.

 

[FuzzX]

Alot of the guys here are hung up on looks. Alot of looks is in your mind. Your energy, your confidence, your aura, your fitness, how you move and carry yourself, your hairstyle, your clothing, etc. The facts is no one here needs to be a male model.

So while your worried about your blackpill fantasy of a 6'8" lady killer the following is fvcking the females that you want to:
5'8" dude
20lb overweight
regular d1ck
living in a poor neighborhood
****ing her on a air mattress

This used to be me.

The only thing I had in my house WAS an air mattress.

 

[FuzzX]

these blackpill guys are highly narcissistic and feel entitled to women way above them in attractiveness. Anyone can go to the mall and see 100 couples of below average looks that are a nice match. I am not saying its easy, but it is done thousands of times per day. In many ways, it should be much easier for them bc they dont have to deal with the big egos of above average women.

I've noticed this as well, plus they're extremely racist. I don't know what the fk is going on in America but it seems like men who are the scum of the Earth suddenly feel they're entitled to the hottest women, and any man who steps outside his race should be destroyed. It's feminism in reverse. They all advocated the exact same thing but for women. MGTOWs or whatever they're called now still hate the game, still feel slighted and are still too lazy to put in the time to pick up a girl. Complaining about other cultures and races is a whole lot easier than dating them I guess.

 

[corrector]

Also plenty of contented ones. Relationship quality is different than "pills"

Debatable since being cucked,.MGTOW (recently broke up or divorced over hypergamy or monkey branching and you are left footing the bill for supports, etc...), betabixx or in a sexless marriage is still black pill. You lose all bragging rights of being on a relationship if its a blackpilled one. Two bad options does not make a good one.

 

[Barrister]

Debatable since being cucked,.MGTOW (recently broke up or divorced over hypergamy or monkey branching and you are left footing the bill for supports, etc...), betabixx or in a sexless marriage is still black pill. You lose all bragging rights of being on a relationship if its a blackpilled one. Two bad options does not make a good one.

In another words, the solution is to "spin plates" as you always hear.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

Also plenty of contented ones. Relationship quality is different than "pills"

Give men equal rights at family courts and you would see divorce rates soaring to an alltime high.

After that first shock, were the women would lose their **** about being dumped by their husbands left and right, women would learn a lesson about the error of their ways and that they are not the epicenter of power in a marriage. This would lead to women being more solicitous about their husbands wellbeing and therefore real content in marriages.

These days, husbands are "content" because most have no other option then comply with their wifes BS or end up broke on the street.

 

[Barrister]

Give men equal rights at family courts and you would see divorce rates soaring to an alltime high.

After that first shock, were the women would lose their **** about being dumped by their husbands left and right, women would learn a lesson about the error of their ways and that they are not the epicenter of power in a marriage.

These days, husbands are "content" because most have no other option then comply with their wifes BS or end up broke on the street.

Where you see women with a leg up still in the courts is in regards to custody/visitation rights with minor children. However, when it comes to finances, this is actually not really true anymore. What is true is that the person who has higher earning capacity and has been responsible financially is the one who gets screwed in a dissolution. Typically, yes, this is the man. However, these days, there are plenty of cases out there where the woman is financially getting screwed over because she was the higher earner in the relationship.

For older generations where the man has been the breadwinner for 30 years and stays in an unhappy marriage - yes, your take is still true.

 

[corrector]

In another words, the solution is to "spin plates" as you always hear.

That's not an option if you are too low on the looks or "whatever' scale which still confirms black pill theory. There is a two-tiered world. The black-pill and red-pill are identical, its just that one group has the looks or ingredients to pull it off while the other doesn't. So any "red-pill" solution is already incorporated into the black-pill. Spinning plates are reserved for elitist upper 20% guys right so they don't apply here.

 

[christie]

So "black pill" is literally an excuse to not put in the work...

yes, exactly

 

[Lookatu]

Give men equal rights at family courts and you would see divorce rates soaring to an alltime high.

After that first shock, were the women would lose their **** about being dumped by their husbands left and right, women would learn a lesson about the error of their ways and that they are not the epicenter of power in a marriage. This would lead to women being more solicitous about their husbands wellbeing and therefore real content in marriages.

These days, husbands are "content" because most have no other option then comply with their wifes BS or end up broke on the street.

I agree but on the flipside, if the laws were more equalized, you'd probably also see more guys willing to take a chance and get married too.
So essentially, it could be equalized as the bad marriages would end in divorce but all the guys that were on the fence with their LTR"s might pull the trigger and get into one.

 

[Barrister]

That's not an option if you are too low on the looks or "whatever' scale which still confirms black pill theory. There is a two-tiered world. The black-pill and red-pill are identical, its just that one group has the looks or ingredients to pull it off while the other doesn't. So any "red-pill" solution is already incorporated into the black-pill. Spinning plates are reserved for elitist upper 20% guys right so they don't apply here.

Brother, it is clear that you don't want there to be any solution. Unless you are some hideous monster stuck in a wheel chair with no job you can go out and get women. You love getting hung up on all of this lingo. With all due respect, most of your posts border on just being absolute, negative nonsense. Your take on "spinning plates only being for the upper 20%" is just silly.

 

[corrector]

do you see how you only see the negative perspective on every issue?

You are deflecting. This is the type of thread this is. You are trying to restrict a definition while I'm expanding it, that's actually neutral.

 

[corrector]

Brother, it is clear that you don't want there to be any solution. Unless you are some hideous monster stuck in a wheel chair with no job you can go out and get women. You love getting hung up on all of this lingo. With all due respect, most of your posts border on just being absolute, negative nonsense. Your take on "spinning plates only being for the upper 20%" is just silly.

Do you disagree that black-pill sees things that way and I'm making it more of a monstrosity than it really is?

 

[corrector]

you are a draining, negative emotional vampire, who could stand to talk to you for more than a minute lol

You will be the first person to be on my ignore since I released everyone on December 1st. I think your posts are pointless and don't add anything meaningful to this discussion.

 

[Barrister]

Do you disagree that black-pill sees things that way and I'm making it more of a monstrosity than it really is?

You’re obfuscating. This has nothing to do with general definition of “black pill” nor is that important. This is always your tactic. You take a stance like you just did by stating that spinning plates is “only for the upper 20%” tier of men. Something patently untrue. And then when I state so, you respond with something nonsensical about what “black pill” means.

We would like to help you. I’m not trying to be an a$$ but you are holding yourself back. And honestly I think you relish holding yourself back and being negative to everyone else on this board.

 

[corrector]

You’re obfuscating. This has nothing to do with general definition of “black pill” nor is that important. This is always your tactic. You take a stance like you just did by stating that spinning plates is “only for the upper 20%” tier of men. Something patently untrue. And then when I state so, you respond with something nonsensical about what “black pill” means.

We would like to help you. I’m not trying to be an a$$ but you are holding yourself back. And honestly I think you relish holding yourself back and being negative to everyone else on this board.

It has to do with the title of the thread. I tend to try to stay on topic. I respect your intent which is why you are not on ignore.

 

[Barrister]

It has to do with the title of the thread. I tend to try to stay on topic. I respect your intent which is why you are not on ignore.

I understand that it’s the title of the thread. But that wasn’t what our back and forth was in regards to.

 

[Epicwinguy]

The truth is far darker than any pill