Plate got angry at me for seeing other women

[BackInTheGame78]

Drunk club slutz high on ecstasy are an exception. Most women don't do this.

Even your friend, in this situation, would have had to Game them to the dumpster. I doubt they walked up to him and said "fvck me behind the dumpster please Chad"

I literally watched as he led one girl outside after she threw himself at him and then came back in, was hanging out with us for a bit and having a drink and the girl's friend walked over to him, put her pvssy right on his leg and said "So when is it my turn?" and he got up and took her out back and fvcked her too...

That's when I realized that life isn't fair hahaha

 

[manfrombelow]

I would have just told her "a gentleman never kisses and tells"

I second this.

"I don't kiss and tell", in fact, is my catchphrase whenever a woman asks me about my personal sexual life.

About OP's case, whenever a woman gets negative (upset, angry, moody, etc...) before you, you need to "punish" the bad behavior by removing yourself right away. Let alone, in this particular case, she had no right whatsoever to be bitchy and dramatic about who you slept with. Don't waste your time with drama queens.

 

[Lookatu]

When they ask if I'm sleeping around, to me it means they're willing to risk losing me.

The ones who don't want to risk losing me...won't ask.

A man with options/abundance won't bend over backwards trying to impress with the right answer.

Very true. ^^^

For the one's that are afraid of losing you, they might also resort to less direct methods like trying to text you every night to see if you respond or how long you take to respond to see if you're hanging out with anyone else. I've had this happen a few times before.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Man, you failed this sh!t test. When a woman is asking you why you haven't texted her, and if you're sleeping with other women, then her interest is HIGH. You need to tease her and not answer her questions directly.

A woman you've plated has no right to know if you're banging other women (she doesn't own you, and you don't own her). You gotta keep that a mystery. Women can "feel" that you've got other women, in your vibe. Let that hamster spin.

She wants you to commit to her (but she doesn't really). She's turned on and annoyed at the same time that she hasn't been able to pin you down and get you simping for her. You just released all of the mystery and sexual tension by telling her exactly what you're doing.

This isn't always true...if you act coy and indirect she might also take that as a sign that you're trying to "play yourself up" by evading the question.

 

[BeExcellent]

All I would say about the whole “Don’t take dating advice from a chick” thing is this...

I’m not giving you an opinion out of thin air.

I’m relating what I actually observe men doing that I know personally and well. I have witnessed directly what my exBF and friend actually do, how they speak and behave with women.

So my advice is borne out of direct observation of these men AND conversations with them discussing game and how the game works.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

Last night I met a woman for some drinks. We hadn’t hung out in 2.5 weeks or so. We went back to her place and she proceeded to want to know why I hadn’t texted her in that time. I said we had texted and she said “yeah because I reached out.” Then she wanted to know if I was sleeping with other women. I said I was. She then told me she had slept with someone two days prior. I said “ok - we aren’t exclusive so no big deal.” She then got really sh1tty and wanted to know “how many” I had slept with. I told her I slept with two different people in that timeframe. She then started going on and on about how she wasn’t going to sleep with a “wh0re” so if that’s what I wanted then she couldn’t see me anymore. I said “that’s fine - but I am not ready to exclusive with anyone. So if we’re done that’s OK.” She said “I don’t know I’m going to think about it.”

Then she went to the bathroom and came back and her entire demeanor was different. Suddenly she was feeling me up and was definitely DTF. However, I was completely turned off at that point. I told her it was late and I was going to be getting back. So I got up and left. She was stunned I was leaving I think. I think the plate is broken.

Maybe dumb since I could still sleep with her if I hadn’t left. It’s just exhausting having to even deal with that sh1t. Are you other DJs just not honest about seeing others and give the impression you’re only seeing them when this happens? I don’t have the energy for it.

Honestly, you handled the situation properly. Although, we never recommend saying the exact number of women you're sleeping with. Being honest but being vague is a good idea for these sorts of questions.

If you weren't feeling it then removing yourself from that situation speaks volumes. It means you respect and values yourself, and that is key. Telling a woman "No" is huge so..... she will most likely chase you a bit, knowing you are a high-value man. Which we all know, women rather share a high-value man than being stuck with a loser.

Bottom line is that you have options and know your worth. Good stuff man.


Modern Man Advice

 

[Sir FB]

All I would say about the whole “Don’t take dating advice from a chick” thing is this...

I’m not giving you an opinion out of thin air.

I’m relating what I actually observe men doing that I know personally and well. I have witnessed directly what my exBF and friend actually do, how they speak and behave with women.

So my advice is borne out of direct observation of these men AND conversations with them discussing game and how the game works.

I meant no disrespect. I actually pay close attention to what you post in here and think you give a valuable perspective. And since I have almost zero experience in this particular situation, I'm trying to remain open minded.

 

[Velasco]

All hot women, currently in the West, need to be Gamed. Your friend walks into a club and hot women immediately go out to dumpsters with him to get fvcked? I think what actually happened is your friend is a coke dealer and they went out back to sniff lines, and he's bullsh!tting you.

in another thread you said you are 6'3" and were the best looking guy in your school. if this is the case, then you should know this does happen and is not fantasy. Sometimes the girl is ready to go (horny as fck through a combination of things that has nothing to do with you) and she meets you. its game over by that point

 

[Velasco]

If you think 6'3 good looking guys have hot women throw themselves at you for sex, you're dreaming. It's a foot in the door. But you still have to game her. And I'm speaking from direct experience here.

i agree with this. However when a girl is ready to go its a different story. speaking from direct experience here i wrote some lay reports in a different forum if you want to see yourself.

Women take much more to be impressed these days.

lol not really haha

 

[BeExcellent]

in another thread you said you are 6'3" and were the best looking guy in your school. if this is the case, then you should know this does happen and is not fantasy. Sometimes the girl is ready to go (horny as fck through a combination of things that has nothing to do with you) and she meets you. its game over by that point

Correct. I know quite a few Chad types, now and historically. The ones that have social calibration & swagger? We’d call them “Naturals” really do get hit up like this.

My playboy friend has a best male buddy who is like this. He’s classic tall dark and handsome, model good looks and has a complete bad boy IDGAF vibe. He could get laid at the same rate as my friend or better, because women approach him in real life all the time. And he will tell them straight up “Cool. Why don’t you blow me in the parking lot & we can go from there...”. If they balk he turns around & stops talking with them. You’d be shocked at how often this works.

He’s not hungry though so he doesn’t do OLD and he doesn’t work too hard at it. He’s 50 and likes 25 to 35 year olds. No sweat. I’ve actually heard him tease my friend about the effort OLD requires. My friend kids back that if it were that effortless for him, he’d do the same thing. My friend has to work harder at it.

My exBF would get random propositions from women constantly. One night we were at an art dinner. We got to chatting with another couple. The woman was a very sultry Latina, very pretty. She straight up offered to blow my guy in the bathroom. He learned over & told me immediately. She did this right in front of her BF but on the downlow. I’m telling you it happens.

There are men who have to beat women off of them. It’s the vibe in addition to Chad good looks. The vibe frankly is more important. A dorky Chad looking dude isn’t going to elict the same response. He lacks the vibe.

Handsome and sexy are not the same thing. Men who are both? Those guys slay.

 

[derby1]

Women are very compliant when they meet guys who dont yield to their pvssy power.

keep hearing this , but in my experience they bail 8 times out of 10.

 

[BeExcellent]

Of course your post-wall friends are going to throw themselves at badboy Chads who tell them to "blow me."

....But we are talking about hot women, in their prime, with options.

We need to be giving men here an honest view of reality. Not warped fantasies. This is a forum to help men understand reality better.

The Latina was early 30s. Easily a HB9. Gorgeous. My BF was disgusted that she would disrespect her man like that (try to). So I’m not talking about post wall women.

We went to nightclubs a lot where the average age of the crowd was 26 or so. We are both old school EDM people so we like the music & the vibe. We were old enough to be most everyone’s parents. We were the hot older couple with swagger. Younger girls hit on both of us a lot. It was funny.

 

[Velasco]

The Latina was early 30s. Easily a HB9. Gorgeous. My BF was disgusted that she would disrespect her man like that (try to). So I’m not talking about post wall women.

according to manosphere guys, as soon as a girl turns 30 she is considered a "post-wall" woman. To them only girls age 18-24 can be considered HB9.

Ana de Armas aged 32 = post wall lol.

 

[BeExcellent]

Over 30 is post-wall. Latina women are generally a lot easier too. South America is a well-known sexpat destination.

Just to clarify, if you walk into a club and an over 30 Latina or Filipino woman throws herself at you, then congrats. But that ain't game.

I find it amusing that you feel the need to disqualify everything I say. Speaks to the bitterness you appear to harbor. I relate things from my life that are as I say. I mean 22 year old super hot coeds have twerked their booties right under his nose while we’ve sat at a lounge table too. With me sitting right there being amused.

You feel the need to attack me and insult me which is obvious to any poster with some grey matter. I just find that curious. It reflects poorly on you and detracts from the portion of your content that has merit.

Relax. Seriously. Can’t figure out for the life of me why my life seems to bug you like it does.

Cheers

 

[Bigpapa]

Correct. I know quite a few Chad types, now and historically. The ones that have social calibration & swagger? We’d call them “Naturals” really do get hit up like this.

My playboy friend has a best male buddy who is like this. He’s classic tall dark and handsome, model good looks and has a complete bad boy IDGAF vibe. He could get laid at the same rate as my friend or better, because women approach him in real life all the time. And he will tell them straight up “Cool. Why don’t you blow me in the parking lot & we can go from there...”. If they balk he turns around & stops talking with them. You’d be shocked at how often this works.

He’s not hungry though so he doesn’t do OLD and he doesn’t work too hard at it. He’s 50 and likes 25 to 35 year olds. No sweat. I’ve actually heard him tease my friend about the effort OLD requires. My friend kids back that if it were that effortless for him, he’d do the same thing. My friend has to work harder at it.

My exBF would get random propositions from women constantly. One night we were at an art dinner. We got to chatting with another couple. The woman was a very sultry Latina, very pretty. She straight up offered to blow my guy in the bathroom. He learned over & told me immediately. She did this right in front of her BF but on the downlow. I’m telling you it happens.

There are men who have to beat women off of them. It’s the vibe in addition to Chad good looks. The vibe frankly is more important. A dorky Chad looking dude isn’t going to elict the same response. He lacks the vibe.

Handsome and sexy are not the same thing. Men who are both? Those guys slay.

i am talking from experience now , as a top guy , the only girls that will sleep with me fast are the crazy ones or girls in Holliday / party mode

I get a lot of girls checking me out and stuff like that , but I still have to game them in order to happen something . Usually the only ones that i sleep with fast are those who are in a relationship , rebound or did not had any action for a while . This girls I still have to game them in order to sleep with them

in regards to the other girls , what I have noticed is that it is more important for them to show a little bit of commitment before they will sleep with them . Acting like a playboy never really works and only makes the girl auto reject

it kinda makes to be like this , as they are pursuing their mating objective , which is to secure a top guy for a relationship

talking about the top guys who are slaying all the time , it is more about them knowing their demographic and know where to go . Like for example being active in the party scene , etc

being checked out by girls and stuff like that does not mean that they will actually sleep with you on the moment

 

[Bigpapa]

I'm here to help ;-) I'm a very generous guy. I don't know why.... maybe I'm trying to give a little back to the world that I've taken so much from.

I will have to start charging you for my free advice soon though.

don”t be a d1ckhead for no reason

back and forths are good , as some things are explained better for those who are reading it

 

[Bigpapa]

This is spot on. Telling a girl that you just want to Fvck is probably the worst thing you can do. Hot women these days reject overt playboys.

Agree with the rest of your post too. That's how it really is. Being good looking is only an opportunity. But if you open your mouth and lame sh!t tumbles out then she will immediately go cold.

usually if you are hitting a girl , by extrapolation it means that also other girls like you or better will hit her

she will have a couple of options to choose from quite fast from a time perspective , and the best one will win

it works the same in the animal
World

 

[SirBigBell]

keep hearing this , but in my experience they bail 8 times out of 10.

The woman has to have high interest to begin with. Medium and low interest broads will switch off the moment they realise you dont want to bow. I just never entertain low and medium interest birds.

 

[Velasco]

I am a d1ckhead. I'm not a nice guy. Sorry if I gave you the wrong impression ;-)

its cringe and annoying, mate. disagree with people without the insults. this why she saying you are bitter guy

 

[Bigpapa]

This is spot on. Telling a girl that you just want to Fvck is probably the worst thing you can do. Hot women these days reject overt playboys.

Agree with the rest of your post too. That's how it really is. Being good looking is only an opportunity. But if you open your mouth and lame sh!t tumbles out then she will immediately go cold.

also staying in a place where sex happens fast like partying most of the time , or living in a party location is very mentally exhausting , and at some point you will just loose your interest in women for a short or long period of time

because even though it is a perfect opportunity to get laid , usually you see the very sh1t part of the human life , which at least for me it is depressing

after you get a decent notch count under your belt , you will realize that only p8ssy it is almost worthless