99% of men are invisible to women

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Some of you don't know how good you're having it right now. People like myself are living in a closed society because of this virus. Everything is closed except for supermarkets and pharmacies. It's been like this for 9 out of the last 12 months. If Satan exists that coronavirus is his favorite pet animal.
Ouch. I’m bitching about here in Cali with clubs and bars being closed. Most everything else here is open. I think I’d have gone nuts if only supermarkets & pharmacies were open.
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I live in Texas and women are still bad lol
 

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They are complaining about the 1% of dudes that they find attractive that don't talk to them. Any guy that doesn't resemble Prince Harry is completely invisible to her.
Prince Harry wouldn’t even sniff the top 10% if he wasn’t a prince. He would honestly be viewed as a loser. His status carries him.
 

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Dating has changed a ton since 20 years ago. It’s changed a ton since 5 years ago. Women are more closed off today than ever before, yet still complain guys don’t talk to them and they don’t understand why.
They are more doing this group thing, so if you are part of their circles they will check you out.
Prince Harry wouldn’t even sniff the top 10% if he wasn’t a prince. He would honestly be viewed as a loser. His status carries him.
Its all part of the game
 

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Worst appoaches I ever had..

I walked up to a girl and said "Hi, what's your name?"

- A girl didn't say anything, gave me a middle finger and walked off. Guess she had a bad day. No big deal
- Another girl said "what makes you think I wanna talk to you?"... I thanked her for being so upfront and walked off. No big deal

But by far the worst. The mother of all failed approaches was this one:

I walked up to this cute brunette, approached her from behind (which is a big no-no btw), tapped her shoulder and said, "Hi my name is M, what's your name?"

She turned around and in the deepest voice possible.. "My name is Karl"

It was a dude...

I wanted to dig a hole in the ground and just chill in there for the next 10 years
Worst I saw was clubbing with a tall, but ugly friend. He approached a girl and said ‘Are you British?’ (She had an English accent). She replied; ‘Fvck off creep!’
 

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rince Harry wouldn’t even sniff the top 10% if he wasn’t a prince. He would honestly be viewed as a loser. His status carries him.
true.

Old post from a different forum:

“It does seem that Harry on his own couldn’t have pulled anything there without being a prince, as his game didn’t do **** for him. It was probably embarrassing to watch, so someone from his entourage or the club’s reps. probably felt sorry for him and stepped in and dropped a prince card on those girls. It was only after that the ‘sea parted’.

“…Miss Jusic also revealed how Harry was initially given the cold shoulder by female revellers, who snubbed his advances before realising the soaking wet, bare-footed, baseball cap-wearing clubber was actually a prince.

At first, nobody knew who he was,’ she said. ‘He kept on going up to tables of girls and standing there, trying to talk with them. But they weren’t bothered at all as they didn’t know who he was. Croatian girls can be quite cold and they were not interested even though he was trying quite hard. When the girls realised who he was, they started dancing and flirting with him.”


https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowb...-embraces-blonde-parties-night-away-Hvar.html
 

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Yep, happens
I've even seen an infeild with 'Vadeem' from honest signals where he opens and she's like 'Go away. YOu're ugly!' lol. (And he has good game so it wasn't like he was creepy at a guess)
Ten years ago a certain type was going into clubs just to reject guys. This was their entertainment.
 

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true.

Old post from a different forum:

“It does seem that Harry on his own couldn’t have pulled anything there without being a prince, as his game didn’t do **** for him. It was probably embarrassing to watch, so someone from his entourage or the club’s reps. probably felt sorry for him and stepped in and dropped a prince card on those girls. It was only after that the ‘sea parted’.

“…Miss Jusic also revealed how Harry was initially given the cold shoulder by female revellers, who snubbed his advances before realising the soaking wet, bare-footed, baseball cap-wearing clubber was actually a prince.

At first, nobody knew who he was,’ she said. ‘He kept on going up to tables of girls and standing there, trying to talk with them. But they weren’t bothered at all as they didn’t know who he was. Croatian girls can be quite cold and they were not interested even though he was trying quite hard. When the girls realised who he was, they started dancing and flirting with him.”


https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowb...-embraces-blonde-parties-night-away-Hvar.html
Shows the power of "status". As usual around here we preach carrying a sufficient male image to allow attraction without money or status. Money and status would be icing on the cake.
 

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Ouch. I’m bitching about here in Cali with clubs and bars being closed. Most everything else here is open. I think I’d have gone nuts if only supermarkets & pharmacies were open.
I live in Texas and women are still bad lol
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In which way?
 

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Worst I saw was clubbing with a tall, but ugly friend. He approached a girl and said ‘Are you British?’ (She had an English accent). She replied; ‘Fvck off creep!’
i've got some pretty brutal ones for what it's worth! haha.

I think UK has it slightly worse than some places - probably in part due to the 'stranger-danger' stuff kids are brought up with here, and the whole strangers not talking in general compared to the US for example. Always quite a culture shock in that respect when I visit America, and I know it is for Americans who move here!
But yeah, approaching a girl who has some 'wine confidence' who doesn't like talking to strangers and who also doesn't think you're hot can be the perfect storm for a pretty brutal rejection haha.

But i've been locked up for a year now so I'm kinda looking forward to some harsh rejections in a way! Just wanna get out there! June is when things open without social distancing here
 

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Worst I saw was clubbing with a tall, but ugly friend. He approached a girl and said ‘Are you British?’ (She had an English accent). She replied; ‘Fvck off creep!’
Agree 100% about the looks thing.

Off topic, IME, chicks are very sensitive about the accent thing. Asking if they are XYZ because of their accent or even complimenting their accent doesn’t usually go over well. (Maybe it makes them feel “foreign” and thus self-conscious?)

Best to just start talking and ignore her accent. Where she’s from will come up later or you can ask later in the conversation.

TLDR: Even if her accent is hot, don’t call attention to it.
 
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You know I was standing in line at the store and saw why. The sheer number of men wearing sweat pants. I was the best dressed, yet not overdressed
I believe it! Your typical American male from 30 to 50 in the US:

1.) Between 5'8 to 5"10
2.) 15lbs to 30lbs overweight
3.) Dresses like a bum (e.g hoodies, sweatpants, etc.)

SMH
 

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Asking if they are XYZ
interesting. if i detect an accent, i'll usually ask, "where are u from?" or "what are you?" either leads to them asking me to guess or them telling me, then asking me in return and have them guess with some hints/teases sprinkled in. if they say some spanish country i start speaking to them in spanish with my sexy spanish accent. always gets a good reaction.
 

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interesting. if i detect an accent, i'll usually ask, "where are u from?" or "what are you?" either leads to them asking me to guess or them telling me, then asking me in return and have them guess with some hints/teases sprinkled in. if they say some spanish country i start speaking to them in spanish with my sexy spanish accent. always gets a good reaction.
Great. Just my own experience above. Your mileage may vary.

But you speaking Spanish is definitely a huge plus.
 

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Great. Just my own experience above. Your mileage may vary.
i wish this was more my philosophy when I very first got into this a long time ago.

I remember so much frustration after posting FR's at reddit and having them try to convince me that my opener didn't work because my approach angle was probably wrong, or that my assumption that local girls seemed to react different to Foreign girls was all in my head because 'Girls are the same, bro'. Or my questioning mysterymethod and it's validity and in the environments I was gaming was wrong because 'human nature doesn't change' etc.

I learnt that the reason the 'rules' are different for every PUA, is because the rules are all dependant on certain things - mainly things like your location, your age (and age of girls you're hitting on) and your looks

Trusting my instincts would have saved me a lot of heacache. Most annoying is that in hindsight, I probably had more experience than the people on reddit giving me feedback!
 

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Given enough possibilities women develop selection criteria much more demanding than mid 20th century nazis.
 
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