That is feminine behavior. Our job is not to make her feel “comfort.” Her anxiety is attraction. You making her comfortable interrupts that. She needs to feel the tension.
Statistics and polls have shown women need comfort and safety as their #1 thing before she is willing to sleep with a guy.
How many of those “high quality women” have asked you for exclusivity? Also, since you deem them higher than “low end 6/7s,” drop us some pics.
Most of them.
If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
On the contrary. My last three LTRs I did the dumping. My staying power is absolute. I let them come to me and they do the initiating. You my friend are suggesting to go against competition anxiety and hypergamy. It’s just bad advice all around. Let’s see some pics.
Good that it's working for you. You do you.
it is difficult to know what would work also for you if you do not genuinely try it
So why date women that aren't good enough to meet 50% interest level? Unless the girl outright cheated on you, but why did you dump these girls? I dumped both of my previous exes, but I always knew that the relationship wasn't going to go to marriage unless it was my last available option.
Exactly. There is no wrong or right way like some people here try to put a formula on. If it was, we'd all be having success with 100% of the women we are interested in. There are many ways to skin the cat and everyone and every situation is unique. There is nothing wrong with having or following loose guidelines to start from however.
They lowered my interest level over time. We get to have standards too, right?
That's understandable lol
Being fluid works once in a relationship. It doesn’t work while dating. I’m consistent with every woman I meet. I use the same script and tactics on hundreds of women. If the constant is me, the variation in outcomes is based on the woman. This is how we screen. Guys new to the game mess up by trying to tailor themselves to each woman. It doesn’t work.
this is the desired effect you want.
Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
This is severely flawed but I'm not here to keep debating this topic as it will get nowhere. Like I said, glad your methods are working for you. I have what has worked for me and you have what works for you. I can't debate things that have worked for you just like you can't debate what has worked for me.
True. But the banter shows he is not only attractive, but he is playful and fun and engaging. Demonstrating playfulness, fun and engaging puts him head & shoulders above a man who is radio silent or a man who waits for the chick to reach out.
@cola .. you are one of the people with the best advice on this entire forum. Just needed to say this in public.
ya i save that for when i'm in front of her as explained here
I completely agree with you @EyeBRollin . However I feel @Lookatu (I wanted to type Lukaku) has a point too. I honestly feel you are both right but that you are looking at this from a different angle.
