Should I drop my main plate?(UPDATE: Dropped)

[Chubb46]

Wow, what a load of bs.

First of all, girl has to ask to be exclusive. It's the ultimate test on her interest. If our guy asks her first, he will never know her true intentions.
https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/never-ask-to-become-exclusive.16097/

@BackInTheGame78
She's a plate and you have to snap out of bs you thinking - otherwise you wouldn't be asking this.
She hasn't proposed to you to be exclusive = she does not have enough interest in you. You are her plate. She is doing a pull back, stop seeing things differently. Either you she noticed you like her - which is possible since you two are texting back and forth all day long - or you haven't proposed to her so she looking for a new job candidate. You can't be serious about chasing this tail with her trailer, lul.
Do what a true pimp does, put her into sexzone. Don't drop her. Sexzone, your version of friend zone..

Let her booty call you.

Show her you have other options with your actions.

Makes zero sense. Youre telling a human to suppress feelings. We are not robots

 

[Juanto]

Makes zero sense. Youre telling a human to suppress feelings. We are not robots

This is clearly a troll, admins should have a look at this situation.

 

[Chubb46]

This is clearly a troll, admins should have a look at this situation.

Why because i don't agree. I thought this was a forum.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I mean I have had them come out and tell me they aren't seeing anyone else and aren't interested in seeing anyone else and then ask if I was seeing anyone other than them. But I have never had them sit down and have the talk with me.

That is woman-ese for “I want to be your girlfriend.” You are in a relationship at that point she’s waiting for you to initiate that talk. This chick probably resents you at this point, which is why she is dumping you.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

This is good advice for an LTR. He said she was a plate though (although the fact he is posting this shows he cares a little more about her than her just being a plate). For a plate I don't think he owes her what you are suggesting.

She just texted me this:

"Hey... I'm definitely underwater and focusing. The ice sculptures are great. Yesterday I worked the morning and then took my son for a wrist X-ray to rule out a break to going skiing into the late evening. It was fun but a long day. And yeah, I realize how odd it sounds to go from X-ray to letting him ski. It was not a decision I necessarily agreed with."

Should I just let her know to get back to me when things calm down? I get the sense something is bothering her other than that but I am not sure if there is a way of bringing it up without looking butt hurt.

I am a little irritated that a woman I have been dating 5 months seems to have no interest in doing anything for my birthday. Doubt bringing this up is in my best interest at this point tho.

Admittedly I am not great in these situations.

 

[Chubb46]

This is clearly a troll, admins should have a look at this situation.

I also happen to be a Christian. Are Christians not allowed on this forum? My point of view on this forum comes from clear eyes, how does that make me a troll. Because I'm not spewing negative advice against another human? That's a troll or a person keeping it real?

 

[Max Baker]

She just texted me this:

"Hey... I'm definitely underwater and focusing. The ice sculptures are great. Yesterday I worked the morning and then took my son for a wrist X-ray to rule out a break to going skiing into the late evening. It was fun but a long day. And yeah, I realize how odd it sounds to go from X-ray to letting him ski. It was not a decision I necessarily agreed with."

Should I just let her know to get back to me when things calm down? I get the sense something is bothering her other than that but I am not sure if there is a way of bringing it up without looking butt hurt.

I am a little irritated that a woman I have been dating 5 months seems to have no interest in doing anything for my birthday. Doubt bringing this up is in my best interest at this point tho.

Admittedly I am not great in these situations.

If you're so irritated by this and your birthday isn't that important to her i know what I'd do, especially after 5 months. Obviously her life and son are the priorities in her life not you. She's **** testing you to see what you will do. Keep calm, clear your head and make a call. I'd move on.

 

[CoandaEffect]

She just texted me this:

"Hey... I'm definitely underwater and focusing. The ice sculptures are great. Yesterday I worked the morning and then took my son for a wrist X-ray to rule out a break to going skiing into the late evening. It was fun but a long day. And yeah, I realize how odd it sounds to go from X-ray to letting him ski. It was not a decision I necessarily agreed with."

Should I just let her know to get back to me when things calm down? I get the sense something is bothering her other than that but I am not sure if there is a way of bringing it up without looking butt hurt.

I am a little irritated that a woman I have been dating 5 months seems to have no interest in doing anything for my birthday. Doubt bringing this up is in my best interest at this point tho.

Admittedly I am not great in these situations.

Since you’ve been with her for 5 months, I think you should have done something for Valentine’s Day. She’s probably a bit peeved that you didn’t. She’s ignoring your birthday as payback for valentines. That’s what I think. You should let your birthday slide, don’t mention it or hold that against her.

I’d back off a bit, I think she will come back to you in her own good time.

 

[CoandaEffect]

I also happen to be a Christian. Are Christians not allowed on this forum? My point of view on this forum comes from clear eyes, how does that make me a troll. Because I'm not spewing negative advice against another human? That's a troll or a person keeping it real?

This is a forum and as far as I am concerned you are welcome to join in. The problem is you are posting a lot of things that have nothing to do with this thread.

Start your own thread if you have something to say. I think you will get more respect that way.

 

[Barrister]

She just texted me this:

"Hey... I'm definitely underwater and focusing. The ice sculptures are great. Yesterday I worked the morning and then took my son for a wrist X-ray to rule out a break to going skiing into the late evening. It was fun but a long day. And yeah, I realize how odd it sounds to go from X-ray to letting him ski. It was not a decision I necessarily agreed with."

Should I just let her know to get back to me when things calm down? I get the sense something is bothering her other than that but I am not sure if there is a way of bringing it up without looking butt hurt.

I am a little irritated that a woman I have been dating 5 months seems to have no interest in doing anything for my birthday. Doubt bringing this up is in my best interest at this point tho.

Admittedly I am not great in these situations.

Honestly, it sounds like she wants you to ask her what is bothering her. I realize that is very much LTR-esque for you to do and isn’t in line with treating her like a plate. Looks like you’re at a crossroads with this chick. Either you tell her to get back to you after things calm down (treat her like a plate) and she likely falls off, OR you ask her what’s wrong and tell her she can talk to you (which blurs your line into an LTR more so). It really comes down to what you want. I think she clearly is very into you and wants more commitment/involvement from you. You have to decide if that’s what you want.

 

[Gstring]

Something is not good in the hood. Women always ask men they really like for exclusivity. Usually it comes indirectly using woman-ese like “where do you see this going?”

Actually, I had a girl "indirectly" aske me to merry her - something like gstring don't you think we should go and merry. She had crazy ass high interest. Then I had another girl with top notch interest - only about after a month and several sex dates - go crazy mad and confess her feelings to me and tell me she wants it to be serious between us two, right in the middle of the city, as I told her I got another plate.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Honestly, it sounds like she wants you to ask her what is bothering her. I realize that is very much LTR-esque for you to do and isn’t in line with treating her like a plate. Looks like you’re at a crossroads with this chick. Either you tell her to get back to you after things calm down (treat her like a plate) and she likely falls off, OR you ask her what’s wrong and tell her she can talk to you (which blurs your line into an LTR more so). It really comes down to what you want. I think she clearly is very into you and wants more commitment/involvement from you. You have to decide if that’s what you want.

Sent her a message to this regard, will update when she replies. Might take a day or two if she is processing things I guess. Or maybe this is her way of pushing me out of her life, who knows.

 

[Black Widow Void]

This is clearly a troll, admins should have a look at this situation.

I also happen to be a Christian. Are Christians not allowed on this forum? My point of view on this forum comes from clear eyes, how does that make me a troll. Because I'm not spewing negative advice against another human? That's a troll or a person keeping it real?

Why because i don't agree. I thought this was a forum.

Chubb46 I'll openly admit that I'm not fond of your presence on this forum, but in view of your above rebuttals, you do provide a good case. I'm now a little less not-fond of your presence.

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[Chubb46]

I was not given a handbook of the do's and don'ts of this forum, which should also state the reasons for dismissal from the forum. Can you kindly direct me to this information?

 

[Bokanovsky]

The word "plate" is disrespectful for starters. Woman is not a horrible word.

You know, for a long time I had a feeling that something was sorely missing on this forum...and now it hit me! What we needed all along was a 53 year old "woman" to preach to us the values of political correctness!

 

[Chubb46]

Chubb46 I'll openly admit that I'm not fond of your presence on this forum, but in view of your above rebuttals, you do provide a good case. I'm now a little less not-fond of your presence.

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No worries, i intend to withdraw my presence from this forum.

You know, for a long time I had a feeling that something was sorely missing on this forum...and now it hit me! What we needed all along was a 53 year old "woman" to preach to us the values of political correctness!

 

[Chubb46]

No worries, i intend to withdraw my presence from this forum.

Too bad im not 53, but much younger with a lot more kindness and compassion. You know thats what's missing..aside from some happiness Bokanovsky ol chap

 

[Chubb46]

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Hankmoody are you hangry? Skip breakfast today?

 

[Chubb46]

Hankmoody are you hangry? Skip breakfast today?

 

[Chubb46]

A morning of awkwardness is far better than a night of loneliness. - HM

Seriously, somebody drop this troll.

Makes no sense, do get your quotes from the wrappers of lollipops